Thought of the day: How many red pill moments…

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

When it came to waking up to the reality of women, I was thick. I tried so hard to make it work, that I even went to a marriage councilor who then advice me in private to consider divorce. I did not listen to him, and thought I just need to try harder. I thought I could defeat the odds, I thought I could do this without a divorce. However, a year later, the papers were filed. I wish that I woke up faster, but what did it take for me to wake up?

I will not get into details, but a brief synopsis will do.
– I witnessed her commit child abuse
– she poisoned me
– she punched me
– she threatened to kill me
– she purposely damaged my car when angry at me
– stalked me at my job inhibiting my work, to make sure I was not seeing girls on the side
– siphoned money from the shared account to her private account, to hide it from me
– stole money from me, by forging my name on checks
– filed false abuse charges of domestic violence
– filed false abuse charges against children
– some other things that I do not like to talk too much about, but a couple of guys here know about.

Here is one of the times she called the cops, attempting to get me arrested:

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In the full report, the officer put her, the caller, as the suspect, and warned me to stay away from her. Something I heard so many times before, but only now was listening too.

The point is, we live a dream that we can make it work if we try hard enough. Marriage is not for men, and no matter how hard you try, she will follow a checklist of the things that occurred to me, just to ride her day in the sun. After, she will talk about how she defeated the evil guy that was ruining her happiness and fun.

My ex had a much less enjoyable experience in the end, as you can read in some of my other posts, but it didn’t stop her from getting another chump. She latched onto another man and married him the week of the divorce. I do not know what she is doing now, nor the state of that man, but how blue pill do you have to be, to wait on your marriage for a divorce to finish?

What were your biggest wake up calls?

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

Wow Uly, thanks for sharing. That’s a legendary picture you uploaded. Sorry to hear about your troubles. I am so grateful and fortunate to have woken up before anything insanely crazy happened and it’s all thanks to great men like you who have the b~~~~ to share your story online.

What woke me up is kind of lame compared to a lot of men on this site, but really it was just the greedy selfish nature of women for me. I kept falling in love with girls just to have them treat me like a disposable tampon. IT’S THE OPPOSITE OF WHAT THEY COMPLAIN ABOUT MAINSTREAM.

I would buy my GFs flowers, chocolates, and do everything right for them, but they wouldn’t do s~~~ for me. They actually thought that looking cute and giving me their presence would make me happy. Women have done nothing but made me feel small, insecure, and most important: UNMANLY

Chasing women, dealing with them, trying to help them ALL LEADS TO THIS: you feel less of a man than when you started. So f~~~ that s~~~. I woke up and became a man god damn it.

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

With me it was just a dozen relations~~~s that went wrong and realising there were patterns to the problems in each one that ultimately tied back to women.

When I hear a story like yours I am grateful things weren’t worse… that is some messed up s~~~! Although the cheating and lying etc… that I had was bad enough.

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

Removed wrote:

What were your biggest wake up calls?

-The fact that virtually all the men my age are looking forward to ending up THE SAME way (go to school-> get a job-> get married-> have children).
-The one and only relations~~~ I’ve ever been involved in.
-A group of girls from back in college throwing their vaginas at a guy they once rejected and humiliated after he became a rich and popular musician.
–Kristy Kum (not her real name).

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

I’m glade you’re safe now brother.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 18]

How women go to extreme lengths to dismiss/distort reality.

And their propensity to violence when their delusions are noted.

When I realize a man’s power comes from years of commitment to his goals and being successful, while a woman’s power lies in her vagina with a shelf life.

I do enjoy dissecting their shaming language in my mind for amusement.

The biggest red pill, however, is that anything I ever felt for a woman or womankind was merely a projection of my own blue pill idealism.

She is a foreigner. From Hell-a-land.

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

Removed wrote:

The point is, we live a dream that we can make it work if we try hard enough. Marriage is not for men, and no matter how hard you try, she will follow a checklist of the things that occurred to me, just to ride her day in the sun.

WE ALL THOUGHT WE COULD WORK HARD ENOUGH TO ‘FIX’ THINGS Uly, but There was NOTHING to fix Brother,……it was HER being a WOMAN, that F***KED things up. That is how it is, you know that now Uly.

Don’t beat yourself up, any more. Just Do What You Need To Do.

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[Anonymous 3]

Removed wrote:

What were your biggest wake up calls?

-my childhood and parents: what a marriage shouldn’t be like.
-all my relations~~~s
-my heart beating randomly in big stress in the early morning while thinking on how do I get out of relations~~~ without too much more problems. Had to go to the doctor for electrocardiogram testing.
-my new lifestyle feels good

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

BuckFitches wrote:

Women have done nothing but made me feel small, insecure, and most important: UNMANLY

That’s ALL THEY EVER DO Buck,……WHATEVER YOUR AGE, REMEMBER THAT.

Welcome also!

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

Anonymous wrote:

my heart beating randomly in big stress in the early morning while thinking on how do I get out of relations~~~ without too much more problems. Had to go to the doctor for electrocardiogram testing.

I Understand Darth, WELL DONE For Knowing How They Bring You Down. It’s the BEST RED PILL EVER. I mean How They Make You Feel So Low, Brother.

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

Anonymous wrote:

thinking on how do I get out of relations~~~ without too much more problems.

Darth, In particular these few words mean SO MUCH to me, just can’t believe how low I felt, just TRYING to see a clear way forward, out of hell and into the sweet blue sky.

WELL DONE, YOU WERE NEVER ALONE BROTHER.

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[Northern SoulParticipant 186]

Thank you Uly for sharing this but you are not at fault. You behaved the way you did because like most men you appealed to her better nature and like most women they double down and throw it right back in your face.

I can relate to a lot of what you said – I had a mental ex who nearly ruined my life through false allegation etc. It sounds like you have been through a lot – being accused of something you haven’t done is just awful.

Women have varying degrees of psychosis just some cover it up better than others. Lesson learnt – never be conned again.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Removed wrote:

What were your biggest wake up calls?

When I was dumped for being “too” nice. She told me I would make better husband material.

When I was personally ghosted on a valentines dinner I planned for her. I made reservations and all…

When it dawned on me that most women ride the c~~~ carousel, without a shred of remorse of the guys they dump. (Hypergamy 101).

When I realized just how disposable men are, no one bats an eye lid for men suffering. You better f~~~ing MAN UP, otherwise you are a pussy.

When I experienced how boys are subdued in the education system with SSRI drugs. Gotta make those boys complacent and docile. They are much easier to control that way…

When I came to the conclusion that men are being slowly feminized via feminism, GMO soy products, and the BIG DADDY GOVERNMENT.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

Bigvern, I did not give up until I saw no other alternative. Maybe it is me being a man, maybe it is my military training, but I had to exhaust all options before I accepted the reality that was around me. I am still rebuilding my life, trying to make ends meet financially, and so far successfully, but no man should ever have to put up with such insanity.

I hope that my suffering in life can be used to prevent others, and at least show others that already suffered, that they are not alone. One of the biggest weapons that women use is making you feel singled out and weak. This is an epidemic, not an individual crisis.

MGTOW Knight, It really is big daddy government now. He takes care of everything for the little girls that share no responsibility for their actions.

[Anonymous 3]

Bigvern wrote:

Darth Peter wrote:

thinking on how do I get out of relations~~~ without too much more problems.

Darth, In particular these few words mean SO MUCH to me, just can’t believe how low I felt, just TRYING to see a clear way forward, out of hell and into the sweet blue sky.

WELL DONE, YOU WERE NEVER ALONE BROTHER.

Yes, a lot more emotional blackmail and nonsense jealousy and bulls~~~ than sex in a relations~~~, and having more fun alone than together was the first wake-up call. She has been jealous when I cheated on her in her dream. (most dangerous was when I dreamed about kissing some other girl while she was sleeping next to me, my luck is that I don’t speak while sleeping…) I began feeling a lot that I cannot be happy that way. That was one of the first red pills.

And then, after the ECG test found no disease, I was sure it was due to stress. And I knew, that my work does not do that much stress to me. (I was more likely to stress at work due to my relations~~~ bulls~~~ problems, and knew, that if it continues like that, then it will endanger my earnings or the whole job, second big red pill)

Another big stress factor was to figure out breaking up without hurting her feelings too much, because she was easy to hurt and then things can go really bad. I think you know what can happen, when an ex becomes an enemy.

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