This was not expected on Valentine’s Day!!!

[mgtow_85Participant 752]

Okay, we all know that Valentine’s Day is known as just a second anniversary for women to be wined and dined by men at great cost who get almost nothing in return.
Happy MGTOW Day to all of you, by the way.
But…
My mom’s cousin lives about 12 miles from me deep in suburban Utah County. She’s a great, friendly woman. This is a woman who is in her early 50s but I’ll be damned if she looks a day over 25 because she takes care of herself and happily married for over 25 years to the same guy, who is actually pretty happy himself as well. She sees marriage as a great adventure to have fun with her husband and I’ve never met anyone so positive and cheerful besides my own grandmother, who died nearly 20 years ago.
We get together at family reunions every now and then. Once or twice a year, she has “Pizza Night” at her house and insists on inviting me. I really wasn’t expecting anything from her today, but she starts by wishing me a Happy Valentine’s Day early this morning by phone.
Then just an hour ago, I woke up to the sound of someone knocking on my door. It’s her and her husband. They drove clear all the way down to my house because she made a bunch of cookies with frosting for me and wanted to give them to me in person. I was shocked and surprised, obviously. I have family members that live nearly four miles away who ignore me for months on end, and won’t make a visit to save their life, and at a time of day like today, where EVERY wife wants their expensive restaurant and their evening ass-kissing, THIS couple figures, “Hey, let’s make cookies and drive more than 20 miles round trip to give them to ONE member of our family and wish him the best.”
Frankly, I’m pretty impressed. How many horror stories of women have we read about on here that cause our jaws to drop? So I thought I’d share THIS story today about a woman who clearly doesn’t just think about herself, and makes a drive on Valentine’s Night just to show her appreciation for someone else.
I was speechless most of the time. My surprise was clearly evident.
SOME people still know how to do it right! Anyone else get that rare unicorn appearance as well???

[HitmanParticipant]

your’e lucky .
she’s from a different generation and probably brought up correctly.
make sure to send her a quick thank you note !

[mgtow_85Participant 752]

I sent her my gratitude on Messenger already. I’m not a NAWALT. Haven’t been since I felt that way about a fiancée who cheated on me a decade ago. But I do believe that women who were brought up righteously and respectfully are an endangered species and shouldn’t be bothered to seek out because they were all taken long ago.
My grandma was a woman you could be proud of. She married at age 18, a mother before the age of 19, and raised 11 kids on an Army sergeant’s pay without ever complaining about it and loyally stayed by my grandfather’s side until she died in a car crash in 1997. But she was born in 1939 so people knew how to be be brought up back then, and my great-aunt who is turning 86 at the end of this month sure raised her kids respectfully enough for my mom’s cousin to inspire and help people the way she does. She’s a counselor for kids with special needs, so as you can tell, I don’t think she ever had a “It’s all about me” moment.

[Deadly RaverParticipant]

Great. I actually have a little bit of a story for this day myself.

My friends, also a married couple whom I’ve known for a while now, surprised me by taking me out to eat today. I had treated them to a an early V-day meal because I didn’t intend on doing anything today outside of working on music or sleeping. well, that got changed when they called me up and told me to get ready to go out. I’m thinking,”WTF? I don’t have a gf and I sure the hell ain’t going out looking for one, but they would know that too, so……….” I grabbed up some clothes and headed out with them. Well, that was the biggest steak I have ever seen. I know I said 8 ounces, but I think that was about double. I asked them why and they said,”You’re our friend and we wanted to do something for you today.” well, Filling my belly with good food always works.

Learn from the past, Control the present, and you will know the Future.

[Honorable_Juice_BoxParticipant 591]

Always good to know there are some good people out there still, a real shame they are a dying breed; particularly the female variety…

Oh well back to being happily single!

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Wow. You are a lucky man.
I have heard about these women, but haven’t come across one personally in a while. I see 80+ year old ladies often, and I do think there are generational differences.
Imagine knowing a lady who wanted to be a positive force in your life as opposed to the creatures we now encounter. I’m curious- have you ever seen a younger woman with a similar personality? If I ever go on another date, I’m tempted to wear body armor.

[mgtow_85Participant 752]

I have never seen a younger woman with the same caring personality.
As for my mom’s cousin, her daughters might be this way, but we don’t ever really hang out. Her youngest daughter got married a year and a half ago. I think their marriage is doing okay, but like I said, I never really hang out with them so I don’t know the facts. The last “pizza night” I went to, her daughter wasn’t even there. I’d like to think that she’s just as good-natured as her mom, but…
As my dad once said, “you can think in one hand and s~~~ in the other, and see which one gets filled first.”
Yes, there may be a couple of exceptions out there, but trying to look for them is like looking for the winning $1 billion lottery ticket, or a flying unicorn with a rainbow-colored tail that s~~~s out Skittles candy. There is nothing but heartbreak if you try to search them out, but seeing one or two in your family is just as good.
Or reading about a few good examples of humanity.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Well that’s the difference between men and women on Feb 14th.

Every bit of kindness extended to you is an appreciated joy.

Everything you do for a woman is “you’d better or else, mister”.
http://elitedaily.com/dating/guys-guide-valentines-day/1376856/

Threats….. Hosting holding….. zero affection…..
Reducing you to digging yourself out of a hole or she will be mad at you.

Of course “not all women are like that” – we know it from your story. But your reaction to her gesture is so overblown away, that it truly says everything about women (and men!) in general.

When men are IMPRESSED by little gestures of kindness from women….. even on a calendar day when extra effort, going out of your way, and gift giving is the norm ….. women are in deep s~~~. The expectation of women are at such barrels-scraping lows, you can’t even put it into words.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Great Post MGTOW 85.

Did anyone else see KM’s link? How about the next article?

6 Reasons To Hit The Blunt With Your Valentine This Year

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Maybe I’m just old fashioned but any magazine opinion blog advocating the use of drugs…

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

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