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Anonymous42We are all running out a clock. My sentence runs out on May 7, 2020.
I remember when you joined! back then the countdown was 16, 17, 18, 19, 20!
Now it’s 18, 19, 20,
Two down and three to go! Almost half way! Hang in there until May 2020, if possible I would like to celibate it with you!
Single has no expiration date! It just flows like a river, it’s ongoing forever! it’s freedom in one of its most purest forms! SOVEREIGNTY! Control over the Kingdom of May!
I do not have words to describe the betrayal, injustice, manipulation, and psychological damage this woman has done to my children and me. It is not a visual, a sound, a taste, or a smell and not a tangible thing. It is not an emotion, an idea or a thought. It is all of these and more all rolled into one. It is something that I have to keep buried under layers of concrete, steel, granite and the deepest ocean to keep this from escaping. It is an all consuming fire, Doom, the absolute end. It is the destruction of everything I used to know and love. I have to suppress this, and keep it locked away for the rest of my life, and I hope to God I am strong enough to prevent the
tiniest drop of this toxic waste to leak out.Every word, Brother. Every f~~~ing word.
I wake up every f~~~ing day thinking I am living a nightmare. Because I am.
Don’t.
Just Don’t.It’s unfolding before me.
Brother knocked up a bpd ex three years back and they’ve cohabitated ever since. Even made one more kid in the process.
As it stands, my simping brother has reestablihed contact with the girl he was living with before the unexpected responsibility landed on his lap. The wench he has to live with now is insufferable, so he is risking his safety and odds of keeping his children in arms reach by seeing this other bitch because the bigger bitch is too hard to be around every day. I’ve a long creeping suspicion that this can only end very badly for him.I don't need a legacy.. I don't need a monument.
Anyone reading this. Anyone doubting this.
Lurkers, critics, feminist, trolls. ALL of you, this is todays reality. Absolutely it is every day in this country, the US of A.
Not only, here it is worldwide, with different levels of commonality of law, protecting women.
MATRIX, to you good sir, I regret you had this experience, f~~~ I really do. I understand it man, it’s all in my intro, don’t want to hijack this tread.
Again, lurkers et al, this is it, reality. Don’t be quick to think MGTOW are virgins, depressed, dumb, distracted by anger or whatever else.
Every part of the family court AND justice system is systematically set up in favor of women.
Look life happens, s~~~ happens. People fall out of love, cheat, build resentments etc while married. It is life. However we’re all adults. You would think being rational human beings we would be level headed despite the emotion of divorce. Well, initially that can be the case.
However, once the friends (Hive) share advise, oh boy.
Once an attorney shares LEGAL advise, oh f~~~.What am I going on about?
*** Even a rational, level headed woman, agreeing to divorce a man she once loved, who she may even still love (but not in love WITH), and they are both agreeable to loose terms of divorce, if EITHER of the 2 above (friends and / or attorney) get involved (which they will), it is a predictable and devastating chain of events that proceed for the man.
Why predictable? Because, although rational etc. the woman is advised / shown that she has no reason whatsoever to so.
By default, she is allowed to choose:
If she wants the kids to live with her
If the man may continue to live in the house while divorcing (more on this later ala matrix)
If she wants more from the divorce – for example if she doesn’t want the share of pension she’s entitled because alimony and child support is fair (as suggested by husband) the attorney will advise you must go after everything, the judge will not be generous, aim high get low, she will be destitute etcA woman, upon having husband either 1) REMOVED FROM HOUSE – protection order without claim of actual physical abuse (fear of ones safety OR 2) ARRESTED – Claim of physical abuse, can be demonstrated to have acted in a way that is not supported by her accusations ie; falsified the claims, charges etc, even with documentary evidence, including moving another man into the marital home, faces not one thing in return. No perjury charge, wasting time and resources of both the police and the courts etc.
Even if a man (such as myself) wait the 2 weeks, clear their name in court and are told they may return to the house, guess what?
NO thank you your honor,I like my freedom and fresh air. Because people you really think you wont get arrested now, now you’re back in the house and you’re spoiling the big plan she had?
I cleared my name in court, but even before that I was followed every. Single. F~~~ing. Day. by the cops. Yeah routine traffic stops. Really, well officer why is your recorder off, is your dash cam off too? Yeah, guess what people, twice I slept in a cell. FOR. NOTHING.My ex had me removed, next day my father visiting from another country removed, and that day moved chad in. Judge told all this, witness etc. DID NOT CARE ONE BIT. She was even caught LYING IN COURT. Everything I said was doubted, criticized and had to be verified by the court.
Lurkers etc.. this is reality. Im not even writing this angry. I worked on me. I accept my faults in my marriage, I tried to get it to work, I did. I lost my business, my friends, my self respect and confidence. I was publicly vilified . Mens suicide rates are never a priority to government because divorce is big business.
MATRIX good to know ya, sorry for the rant brother just s~~~… this system is soo one sided, if only we had known.
Time for some ac/dc inappropriately loud.
peace brothers.
We are the awakened. We are MGTOW
The cost of leaving was accepted at the time of the signing of the marriage contract. The only question is how much you pay.
If you are absolutely happy and you surmise from her actions, not her words, that she seems happy then stay if you like.
But if there appears to be cracks appearing in your relationship then split sooner rather than later. The cost is less.
What I mean is that the only impediment to walking away exists in the heads of men that think staying is the “right thing” to do.
It cost nothing to walk away you haven’t signed up for already. That’s money lost due to bad decision making and getting married. No matter what you do at that point you owe that money.
However, the longer you stay the more you owe. It’s like a reverse mortgage.
Therefore, the best decision is to split at the first sign of trouble. Don’t wait for that phone call. Get a restraining order to keep her away from you.
Don’t make her make that phone call because you think you should stay for chivarlies sake or fear of losing your already lost assets. Assets you don’t really have, you just think you do. They belong to her.
The only reason I could take early retirement was that I saw that she was bored and I didn’t make enough money and that she was going to leave the relationship.
So, rather than dragging it on for more years, I split after 4 years. I only had to pay 2 years of alimony and had 50/50 custody so had to pay very little child support and that only until he went to school and I paid his full tuition at private school.
After 4 years we had developed no savings or assets due to her spending and her attorney f~~~ed up when coming after the little retirement she could touch. We agreed to a 50/50 split but she eventually wanted more. I wouldn’t give it to her. I told her we’d signed a contract.
So, watch you women carefully and when signs of it not working out are there, split first. Don’t give her any notice. Surprise is your greatest strength.
#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.
Yeah, but that would mean that she would have to be a sexual being, and since I haven’t seen any flying pigs; I doubt that will be happening any time soon either. LOL
You never know what gets ‘em wet down there.
Good luck dude, how long have you got to go?
Just rolling down the road
We are the awakened. We are MGTOW
We are all running out a clock. My sentence runs out on May 7, 2020.
I remember when you joined! back then the countdown was 16, 17, 18, 19, 20!
Now it’s 18, 19, 20,
Two down and three to go! Almost half way! Hang in there until May 2020, if possible I would like to celibate it with you!
Single has no expiration date! It just flows like a river, it’s ongoing forever! it’s freedom in one of its most purest forms! SOVEREIGNTY! Control over the Kingdom of May!
I also have my count down.
Every Day is a Victory !!
HER clock is also running out.
HER Laziness shall catch up with her.
In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash
Anonymous43This thread is agitating the ever living f~~~ out of me.
Knowing other men were mistreated like I was, or worse, is really making me upset. I need to go find something else to do for a while. To many of my brothers here had run ins with the police based on lies, bulls~~~, misunderstanding or whim of a woman.
I’m sorry for the crap you had to go through.
I often wonder why we men do it. All that for 20 minutes of pussy twice a week or so. Really, why would any man agree to be married. I’ve asked myself that question……..as I took the plunge twice.
If you’re a young man, hold up a bit. In a more few years that pussy wont be that exciting and you wont be so driven to have it. Why sign up for the lifetime program????
How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.
Welcome home.
All true. I see these stories every day in real life. Horror and decimation at the hands of selfish women.Pussy ages like wine. It turns to vinegar.
#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.
My countdown is June 2028.
Isn’t that fuking depressing?
Its a good thing I no longer have emotions, otherwise I would be depressed.
Probably still not a good idea for someone to try to abuse me because I also lack fear of death, and I have a low tolerance for being deliberately crapped on by people, and that includes the legal system.
I have no respect of any kind for those who abuse their authority, and this could become a problem for an abuser since I lack the emotion of fear anymore, whether that is fear of death or fear of consequences.
If I was in a convenience store, and someone came in to rob the store, and put a loaded shotgun in my mouth, I wouldn’t feel any fear. Its not that I would want to die, it is simply that I lack that emotion of fear, and simply have ZFG.
If I could only been 20 years ago with where I am now with not having emotions, many problems and much misery could have been prevented.
Marriage is one of the dumbest things ever invented, and it only gets progressively worse for men as time goes on. All for the dubious privilege of passing your DNA down, none of which will matter to you when the heat-death of the universe occurs through entropy.
But your misery now does matter to you.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
This thread is agitating the ever living f~~~ out of me.
Knowing other men were mistreated like I was, or worse, is really making me upset. I need to go find something else to do for a while. To many of my brothers here had run ins with the police based on lies, bulls~~~, misunderstanding or whim of a woman.
I know how you feel and why.
That is why I wish more people understood the benefits of eliminating their emotions. That sort of thing is just abstract to me now.
Nothing bothers me anymore in an emotional fashion, only abstractly. People who still have emotions would probably wonder about what I am missing. My answer to them is that eliminating my emotions has brought me a tranquility that they will never know, and that they have nothing to compare it to.
I can compare having emotions with not having emotions, since I used to have emotions. So my opinion is more valid, since I can make an actual comparison, and other people can only try to imagine not having emotions.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
Watch the video and listen to EVERY word.
That man was ME.
Before I heard your story, I never knew they could just have the cops come and take you away. Thank God my x didn’t know that either……
Every time I hear your story, I thank God that I am no longer married and that I was able to escape without too much financial ruin. The first couple of years were a little tough. I had to sell my fishing boat at a huge loss and I had to take over $12,000.00 out of my retirement. It’s been nearly 6 years now and I am slowly getting back to some financial stability.
Not that I require it, but the s~~~ that happened to you gives reinforcement to my rock solid decision that I will NEVER MARRY or ever live with a woman again.
It’s so horrible to live with them. Then it can be even more horrible when you try to get away from them. MATRIX, you could start another site called MDEGM, Men Don’t Ever Get Married.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
Marriage is one of the dumbest things ever invented, and it only gets progressively worse for men as time goes on. All for the dubious privilege of passing your DNA down, none of which will matter to you when the heat-death of the universe occurs through entropy.
But your misery now does matter to you.Note to Lurkers—Prior to Marriage and the Honeymoon Phase is the “Top of the Hill”.
Marriage IS a steady straight decline from that point forward. Why invest EVERYTHING that YOU have TODAY and for Many Tomorrows that will be a steady down hill decline into Misery as long as you participate in it, and many years after in the form(s) of child support and/or Alimony ?????
In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash
Two down and three to go!
Happily, it is actually only 2 years and 2 months (791 days). In the Army, we would say “790 days and a wake up”.
Pussy ages like wine. It turns to vinegar.
If it gets a yeast infection, it will age like cottage cheese.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
This is what gets me. Why the f~~~ do they let you get out on bail? I mean if they arrested you? And you need to be sentenced? They why do they allow you to post bail BEFORE your court date?
I’f the law breaks the law, then f~~~ it. #METOO-ASSHOLE.
You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home
Marriage is one of the dumbest things ever invented, and it only gets progressively worse for men as time goes on. All for the dubious privilege of passing your DNA down, none of which will matter to you when the heat-death of the universe occurs through entropy.
But your misery now does matter to you.Note to Lurkers—Prior to Marriage and the Honeymoon Phase is the “Top of the Hill”.
Marriage IS a steady straight decline from that point forward. Why invest EVERYTHING that YOU have TODAY and for Many Tomorrows that will be a steady down hill decline into Misery as long as you participate in it, and many years after in the form(s) of child support and/or Alimony ?????
Unfortunately, many reading this just won’t understand and think that we’re a bunch of bitter, women hating men. They will think that just because our marriages were s~~~ doesn’t mean that theirs will be. Many will have to learn from the burn.
I’ve spoken to a couple who are so obviously miserable in their marriage, but are unable or unwilling to see how unhappy they are………or maybe they believe “that’s just how marriage is supposed to be”. I told them my story and they say that same tired old line, “Just because your marriage was s~~~ doesn’t mean ours is or will be”. If they could only step outside of themselves and see what everyone else can see. Their whole life is a nasty s~~~ty misery with a few, very short lived, bits of relief here and there.
Even without the horror stories of marriage…….WHY? Why even consider it in the first place? Why does marriage exist? What is the purpose of legally binding yourself to another person? What logical purpose does it serve? Just because people have been doing it for a long time doesn’t mean it’s the right thing to do. People have been doing a lot of stupid s~~~ for centuries. If you want to spend time with someone, then just be with them. Why bring the law into it? Why have the big stupid ceremony and invite a bunch of people to witness the debacle? WHY DO PEOPLE THINK THEY NEED TO GET MARRIED? THEY’VE BEEN PROGRAMMED TO THINK THAT IT’S WHAT YOU’RE SUPPOSED TO DO. When are people going to break the cycle of stupidity?
Marriage is stupid, purposeless and illogical.
The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.
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