This is my life, and it needs to be f~~~ing awesome.

[SkinnySweatyManInAGreenSuitParticipant 94]

I’m not a woman hater. I don’t let women play woman-games to my detriment. I do my best to keep my actions true to myself and to my family(all female) as an extension of myself. I appreciate what’s good about the women in my life, and I ignore as much of the other bad s~~~ as possible. Basically I try to foster complementary male female relationships without becoming a victim of them. If I can’t accomplish that passively I influence my environment to that end. If it goes too far south and I can’t fix it up, I’ll change my living arrangement. This is my life, and it needs to be f~~~ing awesome.

Beer & BBQ

[Anonymous 13]

Good attitude.

To sum up,

TAKE NO S~~~.

Welcome.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

SkinnySweatyManInAGreenSuit wrote:

without becoming a victim

Exactly! See my signature……

[SkinnySweatyManInAGreenSuitParticipant 94]

Thanks SpiritRR! Also (I believe this strongly after 3 years but it didn’t matter when dating), be ready to give s~~~ and make your value felt when it is forgotten. Many disagree with metered gamesmanship, but I’m on a mission to explore my potential and other people aren’t allowed to intervene. Metered gamesmanship puts a bad player back in check but doesn’t give them comfort in “the game”.

Beer & BBQ

[SkinnySweatyManInAGreenSuitParticipant 94]

“I am the man who has deprived you of victims and thus has destroyed your world. JG”
I love helping a brother see outside the “box” too.

Beer & BBQ

[Anonymous 6]

[Anonymous 6]

I suspect the “good” you value is an illusion they encourage you to believe in.

[SkinnySweatyManInAGreenSuitParticipant 94]

“I suspect the “good” you value is an illusion they encourage you to believe in.”
I could insult you and say “I’m glad you’re not a detective” or “You know me best, so just fill me in on my specs”
…but I choose to suspect you as well, because you are all twisted up.
I suspect you got your snippy little ass burned so many times that now you attack other men(your brothers) for the damage women did to you. I suspect furthermore that you assume me to be weak bc I am new here and chose to p~~~ on what you perceive to be my fire. Don’t punish me for your mismanagement of females. I’m not you.

-This is why I’m strong.
Women burned me many times, got me down and out for no good reason. But I’m a f~~~ing champion bro. I don’t quit just because I’m butt-hurt. I get back up, dust myself off and do things differently until I find a way that works. What makes me strong? Analysis driven persistence. Suck on that concept this weekend.

Beer & BBQ

[Anonymous 6]

I could insult you and say

but I choose to suspect you as well, because you are all twisted up

I suspect you got your snippy little ass burned so many times that now you attack other men(your brothers) for the damage women did to you. I suspect furthermore that you assume me to be weak bc I am new here and chose to p~~~ on what you perceive to be my fire. Don’t punish me for your mismanagement of females. I’m not you

Thing is mate I have lived alone pretty well my entire adult life.
I was deceived as a child dependent as I was upon woman.
But I have never wavered as a man.
I did not attack you but you have most certainly attacked myself.
Ask yourself why that is?

[SkinnySweatyManInAGreenSuitParticipant 94]

“I did not attack you but you have most certainly attacked myself.
Ask yourself why that is?”

Crikey!
Can’t you just say welcome to whatever and stfu like a normal person? Don’t you have a cool gif somewhere? This is the introduction section! I’ll school you on a real topic later bro! 😉
Thanks!

Beer & BBQ

[phoenixgod1995Participant 3352]

I’m glad that MGTOW has opened my eyes and I’m glad I’ve been red-pilled.

Marriage and Divorce for a man is like getting a cactus shoved up your ass. It’s painful with all the spines that go in and it is painful getting all the spines out, meanwhile Wifey gets most of the money, your home, your kids, and practically everything you own.

[Anonymous 6]

phoenixgod1995 wrote:

Crikey!
Can’t you just say welcome to whatever and stfu like a normal person? Don’t you have a cool gif somewhere? This is the introduction section! I’ll school you on a real topic later bro!
Thanks!

Of course and have welcomed several in the very short time I have been on the site.
It worries me that you took my words which if anything are a slight against women, (although I believe I offered an opportunity to wake the f~~~ up) as a slight against yourself?
Normal is blue pill and I have been eating red pills for near thirty years now. That aint counting all those I ate the twenty years before that hadn’t convinced me sufficiently.
If you think you are going to school me you are deluded.
What are you doing looking for “normal” here?
You don’t sound like a woman but to myself at least you do sound like someone who likes playing the “white knight” a heroic defender of the indefensible, of women.

[SkinnySweatyManInAGreenSuitParticipant 94]

Phoenixgod, Sites like these can help all of us hone our life-game. I picked up a lot of insights just by reading what seems to be the same story with different players in almost every thread!
-This site helps me manage my tribe and the responsibilities of strong consistent leadership more effectively.

Beer & BBQ

[SkinnySweatyManInAGreenSuitParticipant 94]

Rauel,
White knight? wtf is your malfunction? I didn’t ask you for your help. I’m not a puzzled little man seeking guidance in my introduction. You insult my leadership by assuming my incompetence in understanding my family’s motives. You insult my women, who are not like your women. I rule my house. No if ands or buts, I’m the chief. I try to rule wisely, so that I retain power, credibility and tranquility. Most of the time it works and I benefit as does my family as a whole. When I find myself struggling I research, which is what brought me here, but you offer nothing except lost time and screen aggravation, like a bad woman.
I work with “snakes” willingly, because I know how to minimize risk and maximize gains in a snake pit. Do you? I don’t need to demonize them and run away, because I am the master of these snakes, I understand the nature of snakes and they become my pets. Is that clear enough? lol

“Talking about a girl who took advantage of myself while I was literally passing in and out of consciousness paralytic drunk” -Frankly I blame the paralytic drunk. Grow up. Own it. Find a gif.

Beer & BBQ

[phoenixgod1995Participant 3352]

We are all brothers here!

Marriage and Divorce for a man is like getting a cactus shoved up your ass. It’s painful with all the spines that go in and it is painful getting all the spines out, meanwhile Wifey gets most of the money, your home, your kids, and practically everything you own.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Alright ladies. Play nice, you’re both pretty.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

I am curious. If you feel you are in control in your relationships with women, why do you need MGTOW? Some of us are Bump & Dump, some have gone Monk but we have let go of relationships. We are after all, Men Going Their Own Way.

SkinnySweatyManInAGreenSuit wrote:

I’m not a woman hater

Be careful using those words, I found myself p~~~ing some members off when I used them. We are not here to hate anyone, we are here to help each other. Hatred and distrust are two different things. I’m glad you have it together so well, I didn’t. When I came here, I was walking a tightrope between suicide and a total breakdown.

[AttonParticipant]

A MGTOW you are welcome to the site.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[SkinnySweatyManInAGreenSuitParticipant 94]

Thanks for the welcome guys,
Thanks Iruleme for cutting in on the dance. Throw water on this s~~~ please. I lost time on this.

Thanks Atton!

Sparky,
I wish I could say that I was %100 percent successful, but not even close. I truly don’t hate women, and if that bothers people I’m comfortable letting them be bothered. As for hatred and distrust. Distrust usually means I have failed to understand the nature of the situation or people. Do I trust or distrust a dangerous cliff? Does that change the fact that I might die if I drive off of it? 😉 I want to use this site as a resource and contribute. If my contributions turn out to be unwelcome, I’ll stop posting and just read. No big deal.
To answer your question, and sorry for going on and on, here goes.
I need a site like this bc that goal of mine, of running my family correctly, although presented simply, is super god damn complicated! I consider myself the leader/CEO of my family and that’s a huge responsibility for me, especially with male/female roles and relationship trends being what they are. I’m working with 3 females here and that can turn into a tornado s~~~ storm in the blink of an eye for no real reason.
As for the pump and dump, I’ve been there, I have no problem with that lifestyle and I do miss it at times. Hell, I might go back at some point, my life was simpler then. Sometimes I wonder if I was better of single, and sometimes my inner argument dialogue comes up with a close tie for which is better. So i keep my options open. I must help myself before others to help effectively. (It’s like the air mask bag in the airplane, adults first, or how can that adult help the kid with their mask)
Truly the only thing I might have figured out is my sense of the weight of leadership responsibility. I have committed to this job of being the patriarch. Now I have to fill in all the missing job skills that I thought I had ASAP unless I am willing to accept failure due to incompetence.
-and so nobody thinks I’m pretending to be superman… Particulary on the few days before I joined here, I was really suffering trying to find solutions. I was drained of energy and feeling pretty negative about my position and life choices. I didn’t find a similar scenario or even a solution to that issue in my family life on the forums, but I immediately realized that I was stronger to have this resource mgtow, and I regained confidence immediately when I realized I wasn’t even close to failing, I was just struggling, and I wasn’t alone. I need this site to make me stronger, to help me better understand my options and postions. It’s a wikipedia.

Thank you for reading, and thank you for asking!
I hope we can benefit each other with our shared experiences and philosophies, reggardless of how we choose to live our lives.

Beer & BBQ

[AstroParticipant 2045]

SkinnySweatyManInAGreenSuit wrote:

I truly don’t hate women, and if that bothers people I’m comfortable letting them be bothered.

Hating women is like hating a rabid dog, we all know that. Three weeks ago, I wrote a post called “I do not hate women” in the Relations~~~s forum. What I didn’t realize at the time was how touchy the subject was. I was called a mangina and tuna for that post and wondered if I was going to wind up in the Litter Box. Feminists have labeled MGTOW as a hate-group (like they should talk) and at first glance, it can look that way. We often come here angry, depressed and even suicidal, MGTOW has many battle scars and they all came from the same source. I battle with red pill rage myself and MGTOW is helping me work through it but things have a way of knocking me back into the pit. MGTOW also gets infiltrated by feminists and White Knights, so prudence is understandable.

I hope you understand what I am trying to say. I’m not accusing you of anything, I’m trying to spare you of the mistake I made but do what you wish and by all means, post what you wish. As for the Bump & Dump, I can’t do it. For me, it would be like telling an addict “Just one more time, it will be different this time”. Aside from a love doll, I have gone monk and it’s easy. After all, I have been married and on paper, I still am.

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