This is for all who are introverts…

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

A lot of people get scared of living alone and being by themselves, but in reality, it can develop you as a person in a lot of different ways, as well as remove a lot of the worries that many people have. This list puts together six of the most common things that people who like being alone just don’t have to deal with. We are pretty confident that this list is going to make you want to take some time for yourself, as well.

1. Other people’s opinions
People who are alone a lot of the time are a lot more confident of themselves than others. They don’t feel the need to impress people, or worry about negative opinions. They are comfortable in their own skin and they are proud of who they are so they don’t need to focus on winning the positive opinions of others.

2. Having to prove themselves
People who like being alone don’t feel the need to put on a front to impress people. They know exactly who they are and they don’t go out of their way to make a good impression. People who enjoy solitude know that the most important people will like them for exactly who they are, so there’s no need to be someone that they aren’t.

3. Doing things they don’t want to

People who are often alone are used to doing what they want, when they want, and this makes them a lot less likely to be roped into doing something that they don’t want to do. They’re also very good at occupying themselves when they are alone rather than letting themselves stew in their own boredom.

4. Being alone
Being on your own allows you to become much more comfortable in your own company, and this makes it much easier to relax about finding someone to be with. People who are often alone are much less likely to settle for a relationship that doesn’t totally satisfy them, and this makes them much happier in the long run.

5. Missing out
When you’re used to being alone, your instinct as to what will be a fun evening gets much better. You can easily suss out what the best ways to spend your time are, and who the best company will be. Missing out isn’t an issue because you know whom you should go out with and where.

6. Needing alone time
Rather than having to carve out time for themselves to get some space and clear their heads, people who like being alone have a lot of time to call their own, and can choose what they want to do and when.

Taking time to be alone can really help you to figure out exactly who you are, and this is what gives you the confidence and comfortability to be who you want, and exactly who you are. So don’t be afraid to be alone because it can be really good for you.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

I enjoy being alone a lot.

There is a lot of chatter that takes place at work, and it’s always nice to come home to a quiet, peaceful living space.

When I was in my teens up until my early 30’s, I used to want to socialize with others. Not so much anymore.

As long as I have my motorcycle, the sun, the sound of waves on the beach, occasional music, I’m good.

Thank you for your post.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22525]

rebelandboltman wrote:

I enjoy being alone a lot.

Personally, I do not care to be alone. But, when the people I deal with every day are emotionally immature adults, being alone is the best of a lot of bad options.

[ScoutParticipant 33]

rebelandboltman wrote:

As long as I have my motorcycle, the sun, the sound of waves on the beach, occasional music, I’m good.

That’s sig line material right there. What a relaxing mental picture- love it!

"Now remember, things look bad and it looks like you're not gonna make it, then you gotta get mean. I mean plumb, mad-dog mean. 'Cause if you lose your head and you give up then you neither live nor win. That's just the way it is". - Josey Wales

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

I have traits of both an introvert and extrovert. However, I would say I am more introverted. I really like to be alone most of the time. It allows me to analyze and evaluate every decision I make in my life. Tbh the only company I need most of the time is my dog. I also love hanging out with my genuine friends. Unfortunately, I rarely get to see them. I’m a young, adult man, and I just started my career a little over a year ago. This is chapter of my life where my friends have begun to drift away. I love my bros for life, but we are all doing our own thing now, starting families, careers, grad school, etc. I just don’t get to see them as much as I would like. That is why I would suggest to any guy who is alone, but wants a companion, should get a dog. My dog has literally kept me from going off the deep end. Dogs are loyal to a T, and they don’t judge you for having a off day.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

rebelandboltman wrote:

Thank you for your post.

your welcome!

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

You must be your own best friend – always. The peace and tranquility of solitude is precious and should never be taken for granted. There are over 7 billion and counting on this over crowded planet – far too many in my opinion. Carving out a space for yourself will become harder and harder as time progresses. Treasure it now.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

I love solitude—other people (not you guys) but most other people are idiots that grate on my nerves.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

SOME people misinterpret being Alone with being Lonely.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 22]

Blue Skies wrote:

5. Missing out
When you’re used to being alone, your instinct as to what will be a fun evening gets much better. You can easily suss out what the best ways to spend your time are, and who the best company will be. Missing out isn’t an issue because you know whom you should go out with and where.

I also enjoy being alone. I used to know a woman who couldn’t understand why I enjoyed being alone. She thought I’m wasting my time, and missing out.

What people like that can’t understand is that everyone is different. Just because she likes to go out often and ‘have fun’ doesn’t mean it’s something enjoyable to others. Because she can’t think for herself, she thought I’m wasting time.

For example, if I went to a disco (can’t stand those places) I know it would be a miserable night. Women acting like c~~~s. If I choose to not go there, what would I miss out on.. the company of some miserable, back stabbing c~~~s. So, I want to miss out on things like that and be alone instead.

[Y_Participant 4591]

Great Post – Kudos.

Awakened wrote:

SOME people misinterpret being Alone with being Lonely.

This is the God Honest Truth.

Love solitude. Best times are me talking to myself and I.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

I am introvert, also know how to be extroverted, but i need to retreat to solitude later. I actually pity extrovers, no true extrovert can ever be mgtow, revolutionary, great leader. They are too dependant on external stimuli, validation and pings from other people to have a mental setup to be able to say fuuuucccck it and go swimming against the tide.

There is actually a war on introverts going on, most corporate jobs are for extrovers, business loves them as they can be easily f~~~ed to buy new shiny status simbols, government loves them, banks loves them, you get the point 🙂 Thus a lot of messages in society shun introversion as something bad and applaudes the idiocracy brawndo extroverts.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Honestly it is a war on logic and reason. Two things that MGTOW’s have over SIMPs

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Honestly guys I can’t stress enough how much a dog can help with those times where you do feel lonesome. I believe everyone who is alone, can seldom be plagued with loneliness. A dog is truly a man’s best friend.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Repulsive RalfParticipant 356]

It annoys me the way loud mouthed gobs~~~e’s are viewed as the alpha males when in reality they are more like women who need the attention of others, where as “introverts” are often the strong silent types.

[JVBParticipant]

Excellent post Interstellar. That’s me. I could never put into words like you can so cheers mate.

Peace is > piece.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Ha! I’m never alone. All my mental and personality disorders make sure of that!

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[Rolling Tin FistParticipant 484]

I enjoy solitude more than ever. The time and space to clear one’s thinking of societial clutter can’t be overstated.

"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another" - H. L. Mencken

[hollowtipsParticipant 681]

If you ask me theirs to much exposure in the world to other people. It drains me to constantly be around it at school, work and online social media. Only reason I use social media anymore is for happy birthdays and to see updates for local events.

I think this is why I’m such a night owl, it’s the only time where the world is peaceful and quiet. I’m far past the point of giving a f~~~ anymore. I visited my parents for the weekend and worked out this morning in pajama’s and socks (I left my workout gear at home).

If people can make you care about something they have power over you. Once you stop caring you can no longer be controlled without violence.

[The-Mad-TaoistParticipant 123]

Thank for the post. women in my life ie: mom, ant and so on ask “aren’t you lonely?” now i have more ammo. thanks man. I like it quiet and those people don’t accept that.

A single man is a sovereign man

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