Things Ex's say and the real meaning

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

I wanted to list some sayings I have heard from ex’s, mainly to try and control men.

Example:
Your never home.
Meaning: “your working your ass of to support me and I’m still not happy. Where is the attention and adoration”

You don’t get it
Meaning: “your getting on to me, I need something to distract him and make him feel like I am in control”

Others?

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

It’s not all about you
Meaning “the weekend fishing with friends sounds like something I need to stop now”

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[Anonymous 43]

Lips are moving

Lie is being perpetrated upon you.

Beware.

I’m not happy = I found some Chad Thunderc~~~ who will put up with my s~~~ and give me more stuff.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Heave-Ho Mgtow wrote:

Your never home.

I once joked about how James Bond is the kind of man men want to be, and the kind of man women want…. but they would still find a way to complain about him: I.E: “you’re never home”.

Consider what she is criticizing and you’ll notice a pattern….
ALL of your positive qualities are spun into a negative.

• instead of saying “he’s so hard-working & dedicated!” they’ll say “he’s obsessed with work and is never home”

• instead of saying “he’s protective” they’ll say “he’s oppressive”

• instead of saying “he’s smart” they’ll complain “he demeans my intelligence”

• instead of saying “he’s confident” they’ll say “he’s an ego-monster”

Always remember that Americanized women have all been raised and badly programmed in the toxic, corrosive, negative world of feminism . Through no fault of their own… .they just can’t help but look at the world (and you) like a feminist and think like one. She will look for the NEGATIVE in every single one of your qualities – including the positive – and spin it into a negative.

If you put a woman on a pedestal and try to protect her from the rat-race, you’re a male chauvinist.
If you don’t you’re sexist.

If you stay home and do the housework, you’re a pansy.
If she stays home and do the housework, you’re oppressive.

If you work too hard there is never any time for her.
If you don’t work enough, you’re a good-for-nothing bum.

If she has a boring repetitive job with low pay, its called “exploitation”.
If YOU have a boring repetitive job with low pay…..
you should get off your ass and find something better.

If you get a promotion ahead of her, that is favoritism.
If she gets a job ahead of you, it’s equal opportunity.

If you mention how nice she looks, it’s sexual harassment.
If you keep quiet, it’s male indifference.

If you cry, you’re a wimp.
If you don’t, you’re an insensitive bastard.

If you make a decision without consulting her, you’re a chauvinist.
If she makes a decision without consulting you, she’s a liberated woman.

If you ask her to do something she doesn’t enjoy, that’s domination.
If she asks you, it’s a favor.

If you appreciate the female form and frilly underwear, you’re pervert.
If you don’t, you’re gay.

If you like a woman to shave her legs and keep in shape, you’re sexist.
If you don’t, you’re unromantic.

If you try to keep yourself in shape, you’re vain.
If you don’t, you’re a slob.

If you buy her flowers, you’re after something.
If you don’t, you’re not thoughtful.

If you’re proud of your achievements, you’re full of yourself.
If you’re not, you’re not ambitious.

If she has a headache, she’s tired.
If you have a headache, you don’t love her anymore.

If you want it Too often, you’re oversexed.
If you don’t, there must be someone else.

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THE BOTTOM LINE…. EVERY one of your qualities will be spun into a negative. This can easily be studied and understood by countless psychologists and anyone with common sense.

Doesn’t matter WHAT you do, you’re an asshole.
They simply refuse to look at you with admiration.

When you date enough women like that, you begin to think “well if she’s going to treat me like an asshoke no matter what…. then I may as well just go ahead and BE an asshole”. And then she will be happy and be able to scurry off to her feminist/asshole friends to say “SEE?? I told you!! Men are really as bad as we’ve said!!!”.

They cultivate their own “assholes” for the sole purpose of validating their own core belief system and the feminist mantra. This is actually more valuable to her than meeting/knowing/loving a “good man”, which cannot possibly exist in the prison of her mind.

REFUSE to give them this satisfaction and validation.

Refuse.

You can do that in 2 ways:

1. LOVE IT and interpret “asshole” as a compliment because that’s exactly what it is. It means you’re doing everything right. Asshole is the best possible compliment from a western female.

2. Dump that toxic bitch at the first sign of it, and never speak to her again.

Either way, you win.
Every. Single. Time.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Sky-OParticipant 18951]

When we broke up, my alpha ego resulted in me telling her that I got her off harder, longer & better than any other guy could.

She responded ‘There is more to a relationship than just sex.’

Translated:

My SMV is declining and I heading straight into the wall. And need to secure and enslave a beta provider cuckold in the next year.

LOL

And she winded up doing that. She locked onto an orbiter that had been waiting almost 14 years since they were in college.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

^ Fantastic KM, sounds like much of the inner workings of The Negativity Rationalization Hamster. The laydees better be careful, they don’t get the mechanics nor the physics of it, and this here is what happens in their minds when they get the idea to run backwards in the midst of it all. Guys, keep your distance from the rotating works in the female brain. Something is liable to go wrong sooner than later.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

To quote KM

“They cultivate their own “assholes” for the sole purpose of validating their own core belief system and the feminist mantra. This is actually more valuable to her than meeting/knowing/loving a “good man”, which cannot possibly exist in the prison of her mind.”

I see it as
The power of the hive… The hive always comes first!

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Point Of No Return wrote:

The hive always comes first!

THat’s probably a better way to say it.
Her allegiance to the hive will ALWAYS come before you.

But is it right? We are seeing a pushback from women against the hive in recent days. The “hive: isn’t doing so well right now. In fact, they are letting the sisterhood down. There is less of an allegiance to them since the bitter bitch march.

Doesn’t matter…. they will still “hate the hive” more passionately than loving the man. The allegiance and obsession to the hive – agree or disagree – is still the priority.

Sky-O wrote:

And she winded up doing that. She locked onto an orbiter that had been waiting almost 14 years since they were in college.

Ug.

Well… better him than you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

Attention lurkers, words of wisdom from keymaster, learned the hard way by many

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[ConstantineParticipant 4420]

I once had a woman tell me, “You’ve changed a lot since I met you. You’ve gotten a lot more patient. When we first started dating, there were times when I hated you. You would get angry over such silly things, but not anymore.”

Translation: “When we first started dating, I hated that you had the nerve to disagree with me. Now that you don’t dare, I like you a lot more.”

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Constantine wrote:

I once had a woman tell me, “You’ve changed a lot since I met you. You’ve gotten a lot more patient. When we first started dating, there were times when I hated you. You would get angry over such silly things, but not anymore.”

Translation: “When we first started dating, I hated that you had the nerve to disagree with me. Now that you don’t dare, I like you a lot more.”

Reality: patience = ignore… Heading for the NFG freeway?
A good thing to say to her while you are stealthily and ‘patiently’ ignoring her is “mm-hmm” every now and then, works like a charm.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Heave-Ho Mgtow wrote:

words of wisdom

They are not all mine. Some were were written by Gene Simmons from KISS (the metal band) and some from the original no-marriage site ( the 4 top examples of “negative qualities” – but I enhanced them abit ).

But I do have too many personal examples which make it all frighteningly accurate.
I shake my head at the predictability of it all.

Now, I am aware of my positive qualities and no bitch can tell me “I work too hard”. Gazing into her eyes all day doesn’t put food on the table. I have far more success making you understand something a woman never could.

As far as she’s concerned, MY working a 13-hour day meant SHE was a neglected woman.

Twist. Distort. Dissimulate.
Regular as clockwork.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ConstantineParticipant 4420]

Point Of No Return wrote:

Reality: patience = ignore… Heading for the NFG freeway?

Oh yeah. Towards the end of our relationship, she started complaining that I was ignoring her a lot. And when we broke up, one of the first things that she said was, “You let people walk all over you!”

An image in the poster section reads, “Chivalry when they like it. Sexism when they don’t.” I’ll add, “Patience when it suits them. Cowardice when it doesn’t.”

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Constantine wrote:

An image in the poster section reads, “Chivalry when they like it. Sexism when they don’t.” I’ll add, “Patience when it suits them. Cowardice when it doesn’t.”

About 10 years ago I dated a young Australian bird with a good sense of humor but a psycho who was “allergic to EVERYTHING”. In the short time I knew her, she did something hypocritical and inconsistent with her own values and I called her out.

She grabbed me by the shirt and pulled me in – trying to be “funny” – and said “Listen mister. We bitches do that, MKAY? We change our mind whenever we want and no matter what happens we don’t make any sense. Got it? It’s supposed to throw you off.”

“I already know that. I’m not worried about YOU. I have a problem with bitches who think that s~~~ is acceptable.”

… and then she laughed and stuffed her tongue down my throat.

Go figure.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Keymaster wrote:

1. LOVE IT and interpret “asshole” as a compliment because that’s exactly what it is. It means you’re doing everything right. Asshole is the best possible compliment from a western female.

2. Dump that toxic bitch at the first sign of it, and never speak to her again.

Either way, you win.
Every. Single. Time.

Pure Gold Keymaster!!!!

Your whole post in an excellent summation of my relationship/marriage to the ex-wife. I still can’t believe I got my foot out of that bear trap relatively intact.

I am an asshole now; and very proud of it too. I’ve had more success the less I care about their needs and wants.

It took me a long time to finally care about me and only me when in a “relationship” (It’s more like oil change dating). The second she tries any s~~~-testing or I’m simply not having fun, her 20 something ass is ejected. It is so liberating.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Anonymous 5]

My wife didn’t want to get in shape for me don’t change me.meaning don’t ever think that just because I married you that you have a say if I get fat or fatter my choice my body .

[bladeParticipant]

I am not playing up = I am copping lots of c~~~ thank you for asking .

F~~~ you could make a list forever on this one

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Old RottweilerParticipant 1520]

You’re a control freak.

You plan, pay your bills, you don’t like being out of control.

[GrumpyParticipant]

It’s not you, It’s me…
Yup, its your fault, about time you admitted it.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[sidecarParticipant 35859]

: “You’re never home.”
: “You never give me a reason to be home.”

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