Things are not always what they seem

[Anonymous 3]

Just a quick reminder to the skeptics, the ones on the fence, and especially the newer guys who are still unsure about going MGTOW, while being bombarded by blue pill programming at every turn. Sometimes the glits and glamour of a relationship can appear quite seductive and alluring.

A while back, I read a thread here about happy couples and successful marriages. Some posters laid out their experiences and encounters with these supposed success stories. One thing that was overlooked I thought, was while it may very well be possible, our perception is not necessarily their reality.

It’s easy to pass judgement on a 10 minute encounter with a happy couple. 10 minute, 1 hour, or 2 hours, but 24 hours in a day is quite a long time. Until you yourself have lived this relationship, it’s really hard to tell, nobody knows what the hell is going on behind closed doors.

The other day, this abuse story with this Matthew Santoro youtube character came out. He said the video was recorded on September 12 of last year. Go check out his video blogs around that time. You couldn’t tell, there was nothing indicative. He just seemed like your typical hyper positive, happy youtube persona.

So the next time, your married friend walks by, the couples in the streets, the boyfriends and girlfriends, all seemingly happy, are simply that, seemingly happy. Whether in actuality they are or not, don’t know, can’t tell. But, 99 times out of 100, I would go with no. It’s a safe bet.

[Bestieboy666Participant 2358]

Anonymous wrote:

So the next time, your married friend walks by, the couples in the streets, the boyfriends and girlfriends, all seemingly happy, are simply that, seemingly happy. Whether in actuality they are or not, don’t know, can’t tell. But, 99 times out of 100, I would go with no. It’s a safe bet.

I don’t have a single friend who is still married with several been married multiple times. Its sad when I look back to when we were young, happy and carefree then watching them over the years turn old, weary and haggard looking. Funny how the ex wife’s always seemed to have a spring in their step though.
F~~~ marriage.

Women are so bad, if they changed the law so I kept the house, I still wouldn't marry one. I'd rather be homeless.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

You never know what the fk is going on behind those doors.

I’ve reached the point where I no longer care to know.

It’s their s~~~ not mine ….. thank god.

I’m now luckily on the other side.

[OldBillParticipant]

Well said, Tungus. We never really know what’s going in the lives and minds of those around us. As always, we must take care to be fooled by outward appearances.

Many years ago I was working in a shipyard while finishing my degree. There was a man in my shop whom everyone was always happy to see. He was always there to help, both in and out of work. He was always there with a bit of advice or a pat on the back or a joke. He just seemed to pick everyone up around him.

Then he killed himself.

We learned well after the fact that his personal life was a disaster. There was a c~~~ish ex-wife still continuing to torture him, a hateful daughter on the fast track to oblivion with her bastard child, and loads of monetary troubles caused by those two spiteful women. He was living in a converted garage, eating God knows what and when, and keeping himself warm with a small electric space heater. When he had to put down his dog it was apparently the last straw. He got a pint of whiskey, rigged up something between his tailpipe and window, got into his truck, started the engine, and went to sleep.

And none of us knew a goddamn thing because he kept bravely lying so very well.

It was after this that I finally understood Thoreau’s line “Most men lead lives of quiet desperation and go to their grave with the song still in them.”

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 3]

In my family and my childhood social circles, everyone is married except me and maybe one other guy. Everyone’s been married for a decade or multiple decades. The only exception is one divorce, and possibly soon a second divorce, both female cousins.

In my friends and career circles, there are many more divorces though. I’d say about half have been divorced at least once.

A lot of it goes to religion and social class. The people with more money and that are more religious generally are in those long term marriages.

That’s still not enough to make me want to get married, and I myself have never really had great status and a lifetime secure job. I’ve had good years and bad years career wise, but with my low expenses and investing it’s been enough to comfortably provide for myself. I play up being broke though as much as possible to everyone I can, which has done a good job of keeping most women from being too aggressive.

[The Moth Attracted to the FlameParticipant 2982]

I’ve learned much from that Matthew Santoro incident. On top of what looked like a happy couple when they really weren’t, Nicole Arbour is such a dumb bitch. She challenged him to a polygraph test when in 2014 she posted on Twitter that she lied on a polygraph test and still passed. She says she’s for freedom of speech when she blocks comments from a ton of her videos. Yet her whoring ass can do comedy sketches with Jim Carrey.

Some red pills there.

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