They Never Apologize

[<<>>Participant 435]

Jeremiah Johnson wrote:

Women cannot experience love, empathy, or true inner happiness

I agree but must add the caveat “most” or even “most first world or western” at the beginning of the quote above. I feel most of these women are caught up in a perpetual adolescence, of course, some are even children all their lives. To truly appreciate anything you must experience the lack of it or experience its exact opposite entirely. Most men and boys, on the other hand, have a completely different outlook on everything due to our vast breadth of experience ,nothing is hidden from us we are not sheltered from reality. Even as children boys are up in trees building clubhouses with passwords whilst little girls are near the hearth with their dolls spinning the yellow yarn into pig-tails. A fundamental difference I have noticed is women’s failure to understand the concept of consequences or the subtle “tells” that all humans give off constantly. Something I hear far too often to be coincidental is “He just flipped out on me” or “He went crazy out of the blue”. No, these are consequences and “He” has been letting you know the whole time like an adult communicating with his body, subtle hints, straight up telling you exactly what is unacceptable in a respectable non-condescending tone of voice. Listening right now to a trashy woman scream and degrade her cuck upstairs. If he were not such a beta he would just leave maybe he will in a week,a month,a year. How long will a man put up with someone tormenting him daily? Furthermore, where did this woman learn that this behaviour is acceptable “No Consequences” = “No Apology”. Dear reader was it not drilled into all of us in our youth that apologies are perfected in two parts ? Firstly we make a formal apology to the offended party then and this is the clincher, the step most can not or will not take,secondly we cease and desist the behaviour which gave offence in the first place. So yes without consequences women are incapable of actual apologies.

Jeremiah Johnson wrote:

So when OP says that women do not apologize, it is true, they don’t, but it is because they cannot empathize with anyone

I feel my post is going a little off the rails but in conclusion I should point out a few things.

1. This is mainly a first world problem. In a third world economy, the gender roles are generally speaking more naturally defined. One does not have time for “muh rights” and “his privileges” when there is work to be done and mouths to feed.

2. The problems between the sexes and the absurd height of acidic audacity that has become modern feminism are direct results of the western welfare states. Boys being raised by single moms married to the state will only create more boys being raised by single moms married to the state ad infinitum. This self-perpetuating virus has also mutated by way of a systematic slow emboldening the once oh so sexy suffragattes of the 1920’s into the blue haired fat vegan feminazis of the 2020’s.

3. A return to patriarchy starts with you and what you will put up with I have chosen nothing I will put up with nothing.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

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Something I hear far too often to be coincidental is “He just flipped out on me” or “He went crazy out of the blue”. No, these are consequences and “He” has been letting you know the whole time like an adult communicating with his body, subtle hints, straight up telling you exactly what is unacceptable in a respectable non-condescending tone of voice.

Good point.

I even read a recent breakdown on sociopaths ( extreme emotional terrorists ) who are totally unaware of the harm they are causing. Their victim (sociopath’s plaything) actually tolerates it for a while to assess the situation and decide how to handle it. It may even take a LONG TIME to notice and become aware that they are being manipulated.

The victim then eventually “snaps” and the sociopath is “surprised” because they seemingly got away with it for so long.

Have been the “victim” of that myself – a “friend” I have known for 4 years whom I refuse to associate with anymore. After 4 years of taking it, I finally unleashed a fury on his ass. Just stopped tolerating it one day. And when I confronted him and called him out with specifics, he was “shocked” and accused me of “snapping”.

They don’t see their tactics.

And no, it’s not just women.

And it’s not *ALL* women because it couldn’t possibly be. But everyone is aware of the degree to which MOST™ women are prone to emotional terrorism – or at the very least , professional emotional gymnastics.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

From what I can tell, Denial.

For people in general emotions or inferred judgement is associated with past outcomes however , currently for women vaginas maintain relationships not communication skills(past outcomes ).

simply, I think the issue is Women dont see a problem with their behavior because its not a problem for them.

Apologies are a moral inclination .Someone must expirience regret, guilt, and empathy when they feel they did something that emotionally harmed someone warranting apology.

#IlikeDogs

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Execration wrote:

Apologies are a moral inclination

Well put.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[<<>>Participant 435]

Keymaster wrote:

Have been the “victim” of that myself – a “friend” I have known for 4 years whom I refuse to associate with anymore. After 4 years of taking it, I finally unleashed a fury on his ass. Just stopped tolerating it one day. And when I confronted him and called him out with specifics, he was “shocked” and accused me of “snapping”.

Yes, I have definitely seen this behaviour in men dare I say the more feminine ones, again I feel risk assessment against consequences is a more masculine trait that the feminine lacks. I have gotten into it with a few friends before and they get all “bitchy” like yell at me or some sly under the breath condescension and I immediately ask them “does your pussy hurt?” and we laugh it off if they are plainly being a bitch and well if they get offended? “it’s on” as they say by word or by fist “NO F~~~S GIVEN”! Respect me or there are consequences! My Dad abandoned us a few years before my puberty hit luckily my mother was able to find a masculine man in a timely fashion and I was jumped into a gang or I might not understand honour and consequences myself. The most bitchy friends I have were raised by single moms I don’t blame them I try to empathise and get them to take their masculinity more seriously,it’s a f~~~in hard life . As I quoted in an earlier post ,this site saved my life!

[Tea BagParticipant 306]

In my experience, women either feebly attempt to justify their actions or at best they just dance around the words “I’m sorry”, never fully saying it. The day a woman sincerely says “I’m sorry” is the day I find Genghis Khan’s burial site.

No speaky until the man speaky to you.

[Anonymous 11]

Execration wrote:

Women dont see a problem with their behavior because its not a problem for them.

No, nothing is ever a problem for them. Either they conspire with their Hive to pin it all on some unlucky man, or their white knight sycophant orbiters come to the rescue. Women are insulated from all consequences of their actions by a host of enablers.

MGTOW calls women out with no excuses ever allowed which is why we are attacked.

Have you ever noticed how trivial their problems are versus a man’s problems?

[GrizzlyParticipant 42]

This has been one of the hardest parts about my divorce. I’m at the point now where I see that she whole heartedly believes that she does/did anything wrong. However, I’ve noticed that for her to believe her lies she’s needs to be around people who will reinforce those lies. Our marriage was over as soon as I stopped apologizing for EVERYTHING and demanded she take some responsibility for her actions. Then she ran straight to her parents.

[<<>>Participant 435]

Grizzly wrote:

I’m at the point now where I see that she whole heartedly believes that she does/did anything wrong

Aw man, I feel you there I finally gave myself that talking to that no one would and swallowed the red pill fully and realised it’s always been like this every relationship. Women are not even aware of the pain and suffering they cause because they have always just gone to the market and bought a new one whatever that is a new pair of shoes, a head of lettuce, a life partner. No responsibility no consequences. Take care brother we’ll keep the light on.

[Anonymous 3]

Stargazer wrote:

Time and again in my purple pill days I would confront a woman with a grievance… she’s aggregiously late, she’s disrespectful to someone, she’s too loud, she’s acting too catty, whatever… and I would turn the situation around, explain it as though I had done it to her and say “How would you feel if this happened to you?”

Almost universally they will respond “I never thought of it that way.”

I remember when I was growing up, I was fed the same lies of how men and women are the same, how everybody thinks the same way, how women are more loving and empathetic and all that.

One time, my then girlfriend and I were talking. And the conversation came up and she insulted my parents. I was the blue pill family man then so of course it didn’t sit well with me. I had to explain to her, “how would you feel if I were to call your fat ugly grandma an old stupid retarded looking bitch? See it’s not like I’m sitting over here unarmed, I can say some nasty f~~~ing things to you also. But here’s the thing, don’t use you’re honest as an excuse, there’s a difference between being honest and being a prick, and you’re a prick.”

I felt stupid that I even had to explain something basic like that to her, a f~~~ing adult. You would think I was talking to a disrespect little punk kid who has had the world handed to her, oh indeed that explains the way women behave.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Women are not inclined to apologize for even the most basic violations of civil conduct.

Women often have inflated egos.

Women often have the ability to justify anything.

Some women are immature and lack social skills. Some women are just rude and others are just mean.

The entitlement culture hasn’t helped.

Women are not held accountable. Their hives and manginas give them a free pass.

Yeah, don’t hold your breath waiting for civil behavior from a woman.

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

Females know how to give justifications for their wrong doings. For every offence they commit, there’s always a “good” reason why they did it.
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This topic reminds me of my blue-pill and relations~~~ days: my ex-c~~~ would do something to offend/annoy me and she won’t apologise until I punish her for it (something I learned from my father). But anytime she does apologise, she demands that I “apologise back”. I just chuckle and walk away/hang up (depending on the scenario). One day, she did the same thing and I asked why she always demands that I apologise back.
She said: “It’s because this is a relationship and we get to share everything including the blame”.
The way she said it was so funny and I was supposed to laugh but instead, as a blue-pill man, I told her I was sorry- because she was already using the waterworks. Stupid me.

The incident should have been a red-pill for me: that women will always find a way to deflect blame when they do something wrong.

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