They are one the main sources for depression and anxiety

[freedomParticipant 5129]

I went through several serious relationships abd each and every time, I was emotionally devasted due to the extent of humiliation I had to through.
Everytime I was a saint who became the devil in their eyes when they decided to ride a different c~~~.
I have never understood what was the purpose of demonising me,.till I got it, the sole purpose was to make it appear like she didn’t dump good guy.

Depression is the most horrible sickness there is, last time I went through it, was 2 years ago.
Do not underestimated it as a flu, because when it comes to depression, you feel dead inside and you can’t even heal yourself by taking a break from life, as oppose to physical sickness , you feel like riding down an hill.

Do not give an hand to depression, women and depression go hand in hand, the level of treason will be followed by depression

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Once you ACCEPT how the story WILL END with ANY of THEM (AWALT), It just get’s easier to NOT think of them within the confines of dating and/or a relationship.

Dating Leads to relationships/Cohabitation/Marriage, and they ALL Lead to MISERY !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[The man in the mountainParticipant 4102]

After reading a lot of your threads over the years i have come to the conclusion that you are a good guy that cares too much and that is both good and bad.

You are your own enemy when you decide to give a f~~~ when people around you clearly don’t give a f~~~, the less people you have in your life i have found the more meaning you are able to draw between you and them, don’t get caught in that idea that being in a big group means that you are wanted by many and popular.

Relationships on average go bust in the West because of female hypergamy, you take in all the worry and planning for the relationship to work while shes planning her next move away from you, she can even force the issue by making you mad at her so she could leave, it’s all a s~~~ show, a game for these broads.

F~~~, F~~~ them all and try to find serenity in your life, find new things to be happy for, people of today are too shallow and self absorbed to care much about your problems.

[BoarParticipant]

The man in the mountain wrote:

You are your own enemy when you decide to give a f~~~ when people around you clearly don’t give a f~~~, the less people you have in your life i have found the more meaning you are able to draw between you and them, don’t get caught in that idea that being in a big group means that you are wanted by many and popular.

^ This. Learning who to invest in is difficult. It is a particular jagged edge of the Red Pill when you realize that the only person you can truly invest in is yourself.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Become EVIl. It helps.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

I’d recommend becoming aloof rather than evil. Evil necessitates some interest in the outcome for her, namely a negative one. Aloofness implies an unconcerned attitude. That person can succeed or fail without engendering any concern from you.

The greatest insult you can deliver is to just not care.

I’ve never seen more anger or vitriol from my ex than when I was ambivalent. It is the summation of NFG, IDGAF, and not my problem. She presents you with a problem/issue. You respond with a non-committal ‘ok, so what.’ She replies with a profanity filled diatribe. It is no longer my problem, QED.

Learn to not care or respond to those things that yo are not responsible for.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

freedom wrote:

I have never understood what was the purpose of demonising me,.till I got it, the sole purpose was to make it appear like she didn’t dump good guy.

Good guy or bad guy, it doesn’t matter. She demonised you because she cannot be at fault for anything. If she admitted, even to herself, that her c~~~ addiction was the problem her entire world view would collapse.
Much easier to blame a bloke than to admit being a selfish, entitled whore.

freedom wrote:

Do not give an hand to depression, women and depression go hand in hand, the level of treason will be followed by depression

Absolutely agree.
Depression is often ignored or minimised by others, especially self-centred, selfish bitches who cannot understand the consequences of their actions.
Understanding that AWALT and it was not my fault was a major factor in pulling me out of the depression I had suffered.

Don’t let their failings cause you to doubt yourself.

NFG and monk-mode also helps enormously.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[ZoidbergParticipant 965]

The man in the mountain wrote:

don’t get caught in that idea that being in a big group means that you are wanted by many and popular.

This. If humans really evolved in relatively small tribes, then it stands to reason that, in order to survive, they had to have meaningful, reliable relationships with each other, often for life. Most of us have lost this, I think; or we only have shadows of it (nuclear families, for example). Perhaps these meaningful, reliable relationships are what a man wants to recreate with a woman. But a woman is just one woman, and anyway, she does not give a f~~~. Neither does a crowd. I cannot remember where I read it and who the man was, but when he had discovered members of some African tribe, as he was standing there in front of those men, he felt an overwhelming feeling of coming home…

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3766]

Yeah, depression is a bottomless pit, it seems at times. Still struggling with it, to be honest.

Zoidberg wrote:

I cannot remember where I read it and who the man was, but when he had discovered members of some African tribe, as he was standing there in front of those men, he felt an overwhelming feeling of coming home…

Wish I could read more of this story, or experience it personally. Unfortunately, modern society has eradicated all traces of what being human once meant.

[ZoidbergParticipant 965]

SpiderHerder, I cannot find it. 🙁

On the other hand, robert wolff used to write about his experiences with aboriginals. He also wrote a book, What It Is To Be Human. It is out of print, but there is a selection of excerpts there in PDF.
Also, Daniel Quinn has an interesting take on civilized/primitive humans. I enjoyed his Ishmael trilogy.

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