They always get bored

[Anonymous 38]

There’s always a point in any relationship when they get bored and start questioning if they’re with the right man.

You notice it in her behaviour: reduced intimacy, distancing, covert or overt s~~~ testing.

A blue piller will start panicking and doing everything he can not to lose her. A red piller might end it there and then or run some game. Whatever your response, you can’t stop it happening in the first place.

You can be Christian Grey, it doesn’t matter. No one is complete, no pairing is ‘complete’, therefore she’s never happy with it. All the money and looks in the world, an exciting lifestyle, but she will still find something. A lack of connecting in conversation.

She might have loads going for her but in almost all cases, she’s an empty cup that needs ever filling.

Women only want one thing: MORE.

It’s a sickening moment when you realise you’re just a tool to her. In all likelihood she can’t overlook that aspect for a higher ideal, you know, love and honour. The hypergamous instinct is too potent, and women are not mentally strong enough to overcome instincts with morals.

When men mature they realise it’s worth holding on to a good but imperfect thing. I don’t think women stop looking for perfection, they don’t really mature mentally past 21. They might give up on perfection when they’re old and wrinkly but that’s because they’re old and wrinkly.

Even as men we have moments of thinking we could probably do better. But we don’t really show it, for one thing we’re determined to make the best of what we have chosen and secondly, we see the cruelty in exposing that truth to our loved one.

When it inevitably happens, you might be strong enough or not care enough to ride it out. Or it can send you into a spiral.

Thankfully I’m fine with it. I enjoy women until they start getting like this, then I pull the plug. Ah, this again. More proof of what we know. It’s either a hard next or reduce contact to FWB.

But every relations~~~ is headed for this terminal point though.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

A red piller might end it there

A red piller would not be in a relationship he would bang her once, maybe twice then move on.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 38]

It’sallbs wrote:

mgtow_taoist wrote:

A red piller might end it there

A red piller would not be in a relationship he would bang her once, maybe twice then move on.

Yet another fail. Being red pilled or even MGTOW doesn’t necessarily exclude relations~~~s.

Men Going THEIR Own Way.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

It’sallbs wrote:

mgtow_taoist wrote:

A red piller might end it there

A red piller would not be in a relationship he would bang her once, maybe twice then move on.

Yet another fail. Being red pilled or even MGTOW doesn’t necessarily exclude relations~~~s.

Men Going THEIR Own Way.

Anonymous wrote:

Yet another fail. Being red pilled or even MGTOW doesn’t necessarily exclude relations~~~s.

Of course being redpill excludes being in a relationship.

Anonymous wrote:

I enjoy women

So you enjoy the compnay of TUNA when you knwo their true nature-intresting.

Yet another blue pill trying to challenge a true red ,pill whilst seeking justification for still engaging in anything more than pump and dump.

Apart form the pyhsical what do you enjoy about them?

Their sole topic of conversation -slagging off people to you that the claim are their friends?

Or their boring social observations?

There are people trapped in marriages who woke up and became red pill but if you actively seek them then you are blue pill. To be red pill and actively seek a relationship defies all logic and reason.

And please refrain from using this silly teenager language like “yet another fail” I’m 41 years old you silly young blue pill.

Until you wake up and stop talking utter bollocks you will refer to me as The Honourable Mr It’sallbs.

I’m tempted to press the mangina button but I think you are somewhat awake not completely blue.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

But every relations~~~ is headed for this terminal point though.

So if you know that why get into them-pump and dump.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Women are NEVER “happy” with ANYTHING for long.

Once the “newness” and initial best behavior and “happy” feelings wear off so doesn’t all that “magic”.

Women treat men like a new pair of Shoes. Oh they are so excited for the first few times they wear them, and after that; they are out shopping for a new pair.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

You pump and dump.

A relations~~~ means (living toguether, expending on her, taking into consideration her wants and need, and tolerating her bulls~~~ to some degree)

Having sex with someone every once in a while, you live in your house I live in mine, we just f~~~, we don’t do s~~~ toguether or if we do, I don’t pay for your s~~~ more than I wold pay for a buddy dinner or something of the like.

If you really know she is just tricks and lies, and you “enjoy” her company, it might be you own way I respect that, but you are out of the common expectrum of a normal distribution (like a masochist or a bouyerist, or some other kind of deviation from the usual).

That’s not bad, but it is diferent.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Carnage, you are correct.

I think really he is one of those who can’t quite accept AWALT, many can’t.

They all make similar statements to the one he made.

I don’t judge them but when they come at It’sallbs with statements like “yet another fail” well they need telling which way is up.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[AussieParticipant 2509]

Anonymous wrote:

It’sallbs wrote:

mgtow_taoist wrote:

A red piller might end it there

A red piller would not be in a relationship he would bang her once, maybe twice then move on.

Yet another fail. Being red pilled or even MGTOW doesn’t necessarily exclude relations~~~s.

Men Going THEIR Own Way.

Exactly. You CAN be with someone and still do your own thing. I do. Sure, it’s not all that common but in some ways it takes more guts to lay down the rules to your woman that this is how you will live. Walking out and dumping is easy. I travel the world, alone. ( and she pays for my tickets and spending money a lot of the time) I buy whatever cars, bikes, toys, guitars or anything else I want if I can afford it. And if I can’t afford it, she can and I end up with it anyway. Yes, she earns more money than me and in many ways is smarter than me. Blue pill, red pill, it’s all just stupid labels in the end. I do what I want and if that aint MGTOW, I don’t know what is.

" I feel threatened "

[Anonymous 38]

Aussie wrote:

Exactly. You CAN be with someone and still do your own thing. I do. Sure, it’s not all that common but in some ways it takes more guts to lay down the rules to your woman that this is how you will live. Walking out and dumping is easy. I travel the world, alone. ( and she pays for my tickets and spending money a lot of the time) I buy whatever cars, bikes, toys, guitars or anything else I want if I can afford it. And if I can’t afford it, she can and I end up with it anyway. Yes, she earns more money than me and in many ways is smarter than me. Blue pill, red pill, it’s all just stupid labels in the end. I do what I want and if that aint MGTOW, I don’t know what is.

Exactly. A lot of guys would attempt to pair bond but are running scared cos they know they can’t handle it. Others choose not to cos they can’t be arsed with the game – fine. it’s all about choice and I will tell no man he’s wrong for his choices if they are reasonable.

Apparently It’sallbs would class Bar Bar and HuMAN as “blue pill” as they are in some sort of relationship with women… ha ha ha.

[GeraldParticipant 3620]

I have been reflecting a lot on this topic, as I dig through the history of my departed wife. I realized now how I essentially felt these signs and tried to fulfill her needs and even when I did, it didn’t satisfy her. It just made her want more. More time, more attention, more ‘affection’ (whatever that meant in her warped sense)…

Last night in fact I reviewed one holiday in particular where I was told by her, it was too much, I was too over the top… and yet she was texting her chad while with me.

My eyes are fully open now…

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[AussieParticipant 2509]

Some people see everything as black and white, no shades of grey. But I sort of understand why when I read of the atrocities suffered by some of the members here at the hands of women. I have not endured as much of this as they have.
We have the labels of blue and red pill the same as the PUA f~~~wits use the terms Alphas and Betas.

People just love labels…

" I feel threatened "

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

Jay-Z cheated on Beyonce. Nuff Said…

#ICETHEMOUT
#MANOUT!

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Apparently It’sallbs would class Bar Bar and HuMAN as “blue pill” as they are in some sort of relationship with women… ha ha ha.

Carnage wrote:

ou pump and dump.

A relations~~~ means (living toguether, expending on her, taking into consideration her wants and need, and tolerating her bulls~~~ to some degree)

Having sex with someone every once in a while, you live in your house I live in mine, we just f~~~, we don’t do s~~~ toguether or if we do, I don’t pay for your s~~~ more than I wold pay for a buddy dinner or something of the like.

If you really know she is just tricks and lies, and you “enjoy” her company, it might be you own way I respect that, but you are out of the common expectrum of a normal distribution (like a masochist or a bouyerist, or some other kind of deviation from the usual).

That’s not bad, but it is diferent.

That’s the reality red pill simply means you see reality.

Carnage is right 100%

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[It’sallbsParticipant]

It’s not labels red pill just means you see reality and if you truly sea reality and truly accept their true nature and AWALT then if you seek a relationship or anything more than pump and dump you are either nuts, enjoy pain or still hoping she’s a Unicorn and are therefore blue pill a denier of reality.

Carnage is right.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Apparently It’sallbs would class Bar Bar and HuMAN as “blue pill” as they are in some sort of relationship with women… ha ha ha.

Human and BA ba I don’t know them I have said many times people can be stuck in a marriage and then wake up anyone who actively seeks more than pump and dump is still to some degree blue pill or a masichist as Carnage says.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

It’sallbs wrote:

mgtow_taoist wrote:

But every relations~~~ is headed for this terminal point though.

So if you know that why get into them-pump and dump.

I think there is an in-between. A moderate approach between pump and dump and full-on decade-long relations~~~.

Have a gf for a few months, or a few years, depending on her hypergamy/s~~~-testing level.

I had two of them concurrently… dumped one after 3 months and still have the other one (about 13 months now)

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

It’sallbs wrote:

Carnage, you are correct.

I think really he is one of those who can’t quite accept AWALT, many can’t.

They all make similar statements to the one he made.

I don’t judge them but when they come at It’sallbs with statements like “yet another fail” well they need telling which way is up.

It’sallbs wrote:

mgtow_taoist wrote:

Apparently It’sallbs would class Bar Bar and HuMAN as “blue pill” as they are in some sort of relationship with women… ha ha ha.

Carnage wrote:

ou pump and dump.

A relations~~~ means (living toguether, expending on her, taking into consideration her wants and need, and tolerating her bulls~~~ to some degree)

Having sex with someone every once in a while, you live in your house I live in mine, we just f~~~, we don’t do s~~~ toguether or if we do, I don’t pay for your s~~~ more than I wold pay for a buddy dinner or something of the like.

If you really know she is just tricks and lies, and you “enjoy” her company, it might be you own way I respect that, but you are out of the common expectrum of a normal distribution (like a masochist or a bouyerist, or some other kind of deviation from the usual).

That’s not bad, but it is diferent.

That’s the reality red pill simply means you see reality.

Carnage is right 100%

It’sallbs wrote:

It’s not labels red pill just means you see reality and if you truly sea reality and truly accept their true nature and AWALT then if you seek a relationship or anything more than pump and dump you are either nuts, enjoy pain or still hoping she’s a Unicorn and are therefore blue pill a denier of reality.

Carnage is right.

It’sallbs wrote:

mgtow_taoist wrote:

Apparently It’sallbs would class Bar Bar and HuMAN as “blue pill” as they are in some sort of relationship with women… ha ha ha.

Human and BA ba I don’t know them I have said many times people can be stuck in a marriage and then wake up anyone who actively seeks more than pump and dump is still to some degree blue pill or a masichist as Carnage says.

Is Carnage right?

Carnage, how is that BJ from itsallbs?

[Anonymous 38]

Ranger One wrote:

It’sallbs wrote:

mgtow_taoist wrote:

But every relations~~~ is headed for this terminal point though.

So if you know that why get into them-pump and dump.

I think there is an in-between. A moderate approach between pump and dump and full-on decade-long relations~~~.

Have a gf for a few months, or a few years, depending on her hypergamy/s~~~-testing level.

I had two of them concurrently… dumped one after 3 months and still have the other one (about 13 months now)

I always enjoy your posts where you talk about your setup, you seem to have the best a relationship can offer within a totally red pilled frame. I understand that the higher her SMV, the sooner the hypergamy and s~~~-testing will start. I think naturally I’ll progress to lower SMV women as my sex drive lowers with age, as does my willingness to accommodate another person. I also believe in the in-between where you don’t deny your natural urges but you exercise awareness and control.

[Anonymous 38]

It’sallbs wrote:

mgtow_taoist wrote:

Apparently It’sallbs would class Bar Bar and HuMAN as “blue pill” as they are in some sort of relationship with women… ha ha ha.

Human and BA ba I don’t know them I have said many times people can be stuck in a marriage and then wake up anyone who actively seeks more than pump and dump is still to some degree blue pill or a masichist as Carnage says.

I don’t want to keep flogging a dead horse so this is the last I’ll say on the matter, but that’s completely wrong. Being 100% red pilled means being completely aware of reality, it’s actually not about women per se. One reality is that most men have a deep need to pair bond and desire for sex. You don’t become ‘less red pilled’ by scratching that itch in some way, that’s absolute nonsense akin to saying “you’re not a real MGTOW if you associate with women”. If a man refuses to admit he desires women then ironically he’s more blue pill because he’s denying reality. You, and Carnage to an extent, have made a value judgement where you say I’m nuts for wanting to associate with something that’s toxic. But that only makes sense if I’m expecting anything other than reality from her, which as you’ll see from my posts is not the case.

Actually there’s a lot of guys that can’t get over their blue pilled notions which is precisely WHY they stay away from women. You could be such a man for all I know. Women offer me sex and occasional company, not honour and love. I don’t expect those things from a woman any more because I’m not blue pill.

Hit the Mangina button if you wish, I doubt you’ll get much support.

PS I highly recommend you check out Barbarossa and HuMAN on YouTube. You’ll be telling me you’ve never heard of Stardusk next.

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