The Uneven Table Turns in the Favor of Men

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

I’m on this site several times a day, and I read some horrendous horror stories. The majority of them involve men in their early 20’s or 30’s who understandably have their heads turned by women. I know it curls my hair too. But, I quite understand. Young women are like candy and evolutionarily built that way to attract as many mates as possible. And Yeah, when women are in their late teens and early 20’s they have it and can lord it over us guys. They learn very early on how to wrap us around their little fingers. But eventually the tables turn. It first levels out, and then it tips in our favour.

Unfortunately most men have to go through the learning curve. Few of us are born MGTOW and it takes longer for some than others. The time though is not wasted. You may go through that “between” period while the table starts to level out. Those women who managed to rope a guy into marriage and burden him with a family start falling behind the eight ball. They start losing their looks, their figure, and their ability to get a job. They try to get back the power they had in their late teens-early 20’s. And that’s when they start cheating. They start looking around for compliments – “you’re still really good looking”, or “you’ve still got loads of sex appeal”. They look at their old man as a piece of s~~~ and drop their drawers for what they think is a new start. But eventually they find out it’s just a con, sometimes too late, that they realize they are just another f~~~. Pussy on the side.

Then it’s off to divorce court. Doesn’t matter who’s at fault. She’s now in her mid to late 30’s with two kids and little or no job training. No wonder the courts give them the big slice. But now the tables are really in men’s favour. She becomes “a last resort” in a market place full of younger, unattached, better looking stuff for the eligible guys out there who now have fairly good jobs, maturity, and money, not to mention still holding their good looks. If she starts dating, she’s normally left with the dregs. Some women in the above situation do go on to find a new relationship, but the vast majority drop out altogether or get passed around from one unsatisfying Common Law relationship, or temporary live in, to the next.

When she realizes what she has done, if she hasn’t at the divorce court, she drowned in regret and remorse. Should have treated that great guy, the former husband, the way he deserved in the first place. But instead covers up and blames all her woes on him but he’s already moved on. What really p~~~es her off, even years after the divorce, is the fact that he’s now into something he’s happy with maybe even a new family, and has never looked back once. Now between 40 and 60 she becomes bitter. Many remain on the poverty line, with low paying jobs, poorer accommodation, and little in the way of savings. You see them every day on the dating sites, pleading for long term relationship (LTR); describing themselves as still attractive, five years younger than they really are, having a great life with fine dining, trips abroad, and romantic evenings.

So who won in the end???????

[KeymasterKeymaster]

This is bang-on b~~~~ accurate simplified breakdown.. and while women APPEAR to have all the advantages (perks, benefits, longer drinks at the water fountain, attention and “ladies first” horsehit thrown at them for being born with a vagina), it’s definitely NOT an advantage.

When you are GIVEN anything.. it does not hold the same value as earning it yourself.

Men are forced to run the race and EARN their way out of worthlessness.
Women go through the first part of their lives drawing the finish line wherever god dropped them.
… and they have NO problem living in that little world.

This is not a plus.

…. until one day, they wake up, and suddenly guys aren’t paying attention to them anymore.

/video/women-over-the-hill/

Nature has a terrific way of restoring the balance. I wouldn’t enjoy it so much if women displayed A SINGLE OUNCE of humility, gratitude or appreciation along the way, but they don’t. The journey is long and hard for a Man and the lessons are 10 times as tough. Often many times worse. And from them, we grow. We learn. We get better. We adapt.

Women don’t.

They look around and realize – usually MUCH too late – that they could have handled it better. They didn’t have be such c~~~s. They didn’t have to break up with the guy because he was “too nice” and put it to him like that. They didn’t have to laugh at the guy who asked them to prom. They didn’t need to make fun of the guy who asked her out. They didn’t need to call guys “creeps” and “stalkers” for smiling at them from across the room. And they didn’t need to LIE to guys who just wanted her phone number.

But they did. And men should let them choke on it.

DEAR NICE GUY, I WASN’T READY FOR YOU THEN, BUT I AM NOW:
http://thoughtcatalog.com/isabel-chalmers/2014/04/dear-nice-guy-i-wasnt-ready-for-you-before-but-i-am-now/

Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
http://thoughtcatalog.com/leo-steven/2014/04/dear-girls-who-are-finally-ready-to-date-nice-guys-we-dont-want-you-anymore/

That’s just one example where fairness comes in.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Boston StranglerParticipant 14]

This is the Boston Strangler (actually this is a pseudonym)  I’ve posted on several occasions.  But this time I;m posting a story about my own daughter.  I don’t want to give away who I am.

When she was 19 I took her to Hawaii for a two week Christmas Break.  Her mother and I were divorced and had been for eight years.  My daughter was very very attractive at that age, resembled her mother, and was almost an identical when it came to character.  She was a real bitch.   But one evening, watching the sun go down (I think we were on Kawaii at the time) we got to talking about our relationships.  She was interested in my life post divorcing her mother and I was interested in her life now she has finished high school.  The stories she told me were a bit of a shock.  I discovered she was one of these women who dress like cheap sluts wearing as little as possible and went clubbing with the girls several times a week to pick up guys.  I also discovered (well she actually told me) that she often screwed two guys in one night.

Fast forward to today.   Today she is a little over 40 years old.  Married with two sons, to a less than ideal husband; a guy that I can’t stand.  He’s a good deal shorter than she is.  He’s got a half-assed job doing small time construction, four cars (two of which are not driveable, and one that he is restoring), talks a load of s~~~, boring as hell and generally a low lifer.  I would say that during her fast living 20’s she dumped, or was dumped by, at least six guys that were twice the man she eventually married.  What a creep.  When she reached her early 30’s she was picking up guys that were way down the ideal scale.  She had lost much of here great looks, and her ass started to expand to the 6 ax handles wide it is today.  The guys she attracted when she was 6 to 8 years younger were no longer there.  Bottom line when she figured that out she grabbed any guy that showed some interest in her.  Well, she’s what you would call a professional woman, and heads a department at a large banking institution.  She thinks she’s still got it and talks like it.  I haven’t told her so, but believe me she has now lost it and had better hang on to the husband she’s got, even though he’s nothing to brag about.  If she ever divorces and ends up being a single mother, I can tell you she ain’t attracting any new guy in the future to replace him.  You can also take it from me she is one horrible bitch and I wouldn’t work for her even if you paid me.

 

[experiencedParticipant]

BostonStrangler, “I can tell you she ain’t attracting any new guy in the future to replace him.”  Regarding when they try:  Received, “The look” of “Can’t you see I’m killing myself on this fitness equipment……..for you?”    “No, I see you killing yourself: ‘for a shot at my wallet,’    for yourself – via my resources.”  They don’t fathom the possibility of an iota of respect from a guy, if they focus on their workout.  But it’s eventually going to end up the same dream/nightmare depending on who’s  female/male.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[DarthWParticipant 70]

Well stated Robert Hallam!  Well said.

I’m in my mid-40s now, and see women near my own age who have been married or living with guys in their 30s.  Then, she starts posting a lot of “girls night outs” on social media without the hubby around, and more of her female friends divorce, and yet more “girls nights out”.  I’ve seen this same pattern happen again, and again, and again.  I’m not on social media a lot, but when someone starts telling me  “So and so is posting a pic again that she’s out with the girls at a concert!”  I’ll tell them bluntly “Give it a few months, and the divorce will follow.”  I don’t know of a time that I’ve been wrong yet, and I think it’s about 10 relationships in the last few years I’ve seen.  Note that if the hubbies have social media they are usually posting pics of the kids in sports, or family outings, – ironically -while the wives/mothers are posting nights out with the girls and duck face selfies.  It’s epidemic.

But what’s truly funny is seeing the women flounder when they’ve left the decent guy who put up with their crap.  Most recently, I know one woman who would like a guy “with a house” when she owns nothing at age 42 and has a low paying job, and after she moved out and was cheating on the last guy paying her bills for years (after her own divorce probably 8 years ago when her husband paid the bills) she’s finding she doesn’t bring in the worthwhile “home owning, high earning” guys she once did.  Now she’s been in the dating pool long enough, paying for a small apartment she shares with her adult son because she can’t pay her bills –  and she’s just “sick” about there not being a decent guy out in the cold, cold world that is interested in her mess of a life.

[RoyDalParticipant]

@darthw, yup.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[FIDKParticipant 32]

Mr. Strangler:

Boston, it is very sad that it came to this. I have a daughter too. I hope she does not turn into her mother.

If you ever have grand kids, there is still some good you can do for them, maybe.

I can imagine how tough it was watching your daughter become the woman she became. Society makes it difficult to prevent. Women’s innate nature takes care of the rest. We can only do what we can.

 

 

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