The truth about men hitting 50

[chirParticipant]

Funny but as an over 50 guy myself. Too damn true.

Fifty is a magic number. You’re not dead yet, but a certain power comes over you. You have zero need for a woman yet women want you more because women desire security above all else. All the feminist bitching and moaning will never change that basic need in women. I have that security available, and it drives them nuts.

I’ve been amazed and humbled the last ten years at how my marketability has been skyrocketing since I turned forty. Granted, no 18 year old cheerleaders have been after me, but how long does anyone stay 18? Precisely one year.

But, I’ve had a lots and lots of post-thirty women making passes and asking me to go out for coffee, take a walk, suffer through a blow job, go to the beach, go antiquing, and from women of all levels of attractiveness, in so far as any woman over thirty can be attractive. And once a woman finds out that I have a 2900 square-foot, three-story fully finished and remodeled house that is mortgage-free, you’d be blown away at some of the antics they pull to get my attention. It gets really bizarre sometimes.

Lest you think I’m bragging…I’m not. I’m not stupid enough to think I’m so damned good looking that women are just dying to be with me. Hardly. It’s money, pure and simple. I offer, in a woman’s mind, a place for her to build a nest so she can roost on my back. I’m not flattered, not in the least. I also know that once she got tired of me I’d be tossed out in the street like garbage.

So, fear not. You younger guys can’t quite understand, not really, what it feels like to be able to shut off your sexual drive at will. No woman can turn me on unless I want to be turned on, and frankly, playing Halo and killing Elite’s and Grunts turns me on more than any woman. This drives these broads wacko.

I had one gal at work last December ask me to go to a family function with her on Christmas eve. Not a bad looking fortyish divorcee, but I told her I was going to sit home and play Halo that night. Brother, was she blown away. “Is that all men do is sit around playing computer games?” she wanted to know. I said, “No, sometimes I just ride around on my Harley.” She just shook her head. (I actually had another dinner I was going to.)

As you age, your desirability to women will grow every year, just as their looks start to fade. At some point you will cross paths on the graph as you are ascending and she’s descending, and from then on, you will have all the power. And women know or at least sense this. Some of the formerly attractive one’s have a harder time grasping this reality, but I’m always here, ready and willing to bring them crashing down to earth in a heap. 😉

I am, as always, an asshole.

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[X11Spectator 4520]

My current age;

52 years 0 months 1 days
or 624 months 1 days
or 2713 weeks 3 days
or 18,994 days
or 455,856 hours
or 27,351,360 minutes
or 1,641,081,600 seconds

[Anonymous 42]

We are the men still standing after a slaughter house of men we knew all slaughtered and financially bewildered thanks to modern marriage to the modern woman and her 911 dail’eviction.

Women forgot one thing, one very important thing,

MEN LIKE SECURITY TOO!

^^^^^THAT’S WHY THE PARASITES ARE NOT ALLOWED IN!

Too much RISK and too much STRIFE on the OUTSIDE of MY OWN HOME LOOKING IN HOLDING MY MANVICTION NOTICE!

All I have to say to these maundering banditas is EARN YOUR OWN F~~~ING HOME!

And yes Chir, THEY WANT IN!

I’m just a disposable front door key!

[HydroParticipant 164]

chir wrote:

once a woman finds out that I have a 2900 square-foot, three-story fully finished and remodeled house that is mortgage-free

How in the world would a woman know where you live, and even more to the point, how would she know that kind of information about your financial situation?

With respect I gotta say, if there are all these women on the hunt who know that type of private information about you, you are doing something wrong.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22516]

Men and women use the same word, “security”, but their definitions are quite different.

security: well-stocked husbank/atm I can ditch and take 1/2 his stuff, or call 911 on at any time

security: single and mgtow

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 4]

These vultures know
men have a shorter lifespan so I wouldn’t put it past them to hope and wait for you to
just buy the farm
so as to have the assets in the end.
It’s just so sick.
Vice promoted as virtue.

[chirParticipant]

Hydro wrote:

chir wrote:

once a woman finds out that I have a 2900 square-foot, three-story fully finished and remodeled house that is mortgage-free

How in the world would a woman know where you live, and even more to the point, how would she know that kind of information about your financial situation?

With respect I gotta say, if there are all these women on the hunt who know that type of private information about you, you are doing something wrong.

Easy.
Mother, Step-Mother, Aunt’s, and Female Cousins.
You hit 40 and have resources every blood relative will be trying to hook you up.
Your family will work to get you back on the plantation.
I stopped that s~~~ cold by telling them if you keep pushing you will be out of my will. Threaten taking money from them nips this s~~~ at the bud.

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

LOL..Money talks and the c~~~ listens…Give her the money and you are left with the curb…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[MonkParticipant 16988]

So true. This is also my experience.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Not quite 50 yet but well on the way.
Recent experience seems to bear out the premise.

Must stop staring at hypnotoad…

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[TwistParticipant]

Im in my 50’s and I learned a new question:

“What’s in it for me?”

[Bloody HeartlandParticipant 693]

Only half way there…I know I should enjoy my time now and it sounds like it has its own issues, but the expectations for me to bend over for women now are a bit much. Would like to at least reverse the roles if not rid myself of them entirely.

"I have the fury of my own momentum." "With this ring I thee wed. Fire walk with me."

[Anonymous 0]

I’ve been sensing something similar while I was finishing a grad degree, more so now that I have been enjoying life more about be getting out and about. I’m “over the hill,” but have a house, good job, closing in on six figures; the type of women who wouldnt give me time in my 20s are coming out of the woodwork lately.

I’ll admit the attention is nice from the cute ones and I’ll engage with them for a few minutes. The real entertainment is the reaction from the women who are facing the wall, or who deny the have hit it. Minimal interaction, I won’t be outwardly rude but I have increased the level of dismissivness during these interactions.

[Knight of the ApocalypseParticipant 326]

Just hit 50 and after losing half of that to a ungrateful bitch, I now get to start over. Pretty much over the rage and working on my battle plan. First and foremost, work on improving myself, not just physically but mentally and morally. I discovered Stoicism here from Old Bill and will always be great for that.

"Just ignore everything women say and nothing will annoy you ever again." - Cu Chulainn

[OldBillParticipant]

chir wrote:

You have zero need for a woman yet women want you more because women desire security above all else.

That’s so very true, Chir.

After 50 you become more desirable to women for two simple reasons. One, you’re likely to have more resources. Two, you’re closer to dying.

I handle the constant approaches, flirting, and outright propositions with feigned obliviousness:

– “Wow, she was really flirting with you.”
– “I didn’t notice.”

Pretending not to notice shuts them down faster and with less collateral damage than acknowledging their interest and telling them you’re not interested.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[GraybeardParticipant 61]

Happy Birthday X11. Just turned 50 a few weeks ago.

[AttonParticipant]

You’re not dead yet, but a certain power comes over you.

They come at night and eat human flesh.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[It’sallbsParticipant]

40 and wealthy?- young tuna will be allover you

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Wow this post is something I relate to, although I’m in my thirties!

One of my colleagues at work is very good at what he does, and pretty much gets to work his own hours etc. He’s scruffy as hell, and always seems to wear the same clothes and stinks of sweat! I know that he’s married with an older kid.
One of the cleaners at work, a real plain Jane single mum in her early thirties, flirts like mad with him! I suppose it helps that he has a large pad, earns over £35k a year and has a house in France though….It’s pretty obvious she’s after him.
Money. All these biatches are ever after.

[SwimcatParticipant 3589]

Chir, I’m nearly the same boat. I’m 63, widowed, no debt, paid off house, six figure lifetime income, three children, two married none live with me. Besides all that I have a track record of marriage success. I was married 39 years to my college sweetheart. You are right, women value security above all else, and that makes me the hunted one. Thank you MGTOW for keeping me on the straight and narrow. Chir, you stay on the straight and narrow. Too many men our age lose too much to younger mercenary women.

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