The switcheroo marriage

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

Let me tell you this scenario that always seem to happen before and after marriage. Before the marriage takes place, the woman is already thinking that she can change the man she is with to her liking since to her, it is all a challenge to do so. Meanwhile, this is also the time that the woman is at her best so that she can trap and actually manipulate the man to change. This is why the man would also like her just the way she is before they got married. As soon as they get married though, she would either succeed in molding him to be the man she wants him to be or the man would never really change which would lead to her divorcing him because she can’t take it anymore. If she did mold him to her liking though, she would realize that she does not feel the need to put much effort in the relationship anymore which means that she does not have to be a certain person like she had be to before the marriage anymore. Meanwhile, the man that is now married to her now realizes that his wife is not the woman he fell in love with before the marriage when she actually put effort into the relationship just to get him to marry her. In the end, the wife married the husband expecting to change the husband that might or might not work, and the husband expected the wife to stay the same pleasing woman that he remembered before the marriage, but he would then realize that he is married to a different person. Now is this even fair? Why can’t it just be straightforward where a married couple would stay the exact same people to their golden years as they would before they were even married? Why is it that the male would just be a shell of his former self out of all of it to his new wife’s liking while the woman can’t even keep her end of the deal by being the same person that she was before she even married him? What are your thoughts?

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Enjoy The Decline wrote:

Now is this even fair?

is this fair??
you know the answer
Marriage is a fraud.

even if marriage was fair, it is still boring as f~~~. Imagine having the same roommate for 50 years.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[TiredofbsParticipant 485]

Most women are very adept at deceit and fraud. It’s in their DNA. Comes very naturally. Unfortunately, men are conditioned to believe their manhood is contingent on getting married and raising a family. It’s absurd and misguided pressure from hundreds of years of societal and namely religious tradition. I don’t blame Christianity, rather the pathetic twisting of it. Women today see themselves as little deities and get a lot of support from society. Many women think their purpose in life is to “fix” a man to their liking. F~~~ that s~~~. We don’t need fixing, take us the way we are or f~~~ off. What’s so damn hard about that?

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22618]

This whole damn society is a dog and pony show at our expense.

The only good news, if that is what you want to call it, is at this point the con has become so open that you see no point in continuing to be a part of society. Everything you work towards is taken away from you and given to those that did nothing to deserve such rewards.

As such, since Earthly pursuits and rewards are denied, one should focus on spiritual pursuits of bettering oneself.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10962]

Marriage is an obsolete and outdated institution. Women cling to it because they know the divorce laws favor them. If they changed the marital laws and abolished spousal support, alimony and palimony, I doubt if women would be so eager to marry.

She's not looking for love. She's looking for someone to finance the lifestyle that SHE thinks SHE deserves.

[experiencedParticipant]

Before marriage she has everything to gain by being a chameleon.
After marriage she has nothing to lose, so she gains and gains.
……..”You need Viagra”

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Men marry thinking the woman won’t change but women marry expecting the man to. Oh, and for free s~~~.

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Yep, people are constantly fooled by illusions. Nymphs are really just women. Let their innocent appearing gaze hypnotize you and you’re going to end up at the bottom of the lake.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

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