The (Stupid) Things We Do For Love

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

At this point in my life I feel that the “romantic love” a man feels for a woman is little more than lust clouding his judgement leading to a state of insanity. But I didn’t always feel that way. In fact, I’ve done some pretty damn stupid things for “love”.

* I met and befriended the husband of a female I was f~~~ing so that I could spend more time with her
* I let a female drive my car
* I purchased expensive designer goods for a female including a $900 Dior purse
* I took a female on a week long vacation to Maui and Disney World
* I jeopardized friendships with people who cared about me by siding with a female over them
* I paid for countless dinners and drinks in order to spend time with a female
* I caught a DUI charge and spent a weekend in jail in order to make sure a female got home safely
* I revealed my weaknesses, exposed my vulnerability and expressed my true feelings to a female who, naturally, then used them against me

Now that I feel cured… or at least strongly inoculated against experiencing this type of insanity again, here are some depths I never sank to, fortunately:

* I never bought drugs for a female or exchanged drugs for sex
* I never fought or injured another man for a female
* I never quit a job over a female
* I never gave up a personal pleasure (e.g. riding a motorcycle) at the request of a female
* I never changed my clothing style or appearance to please a female
* I never denied my beliefs or withheld my opinions in order to impress or not offend a female

Confession is good for the soul (not that I believe in souls). What have you fellas done out of love for a female?

[Anonymous 42]

I must be brilliant! I stopped looking for love and turned the gynocentric gun back at their own heads, and yes, I did pull the f~~~ing trigger!
Females barter for the illusion of love and nothing more! Knowing this one fact, can save a man mountains of misery!

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Life is a learning experience. The fact you have learned from your mistakes makes you a better person than most people on this Earth.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10910]

Wow this is embarrassing……..I once dressed like Robin Hood with the leotard tights on Halloween just for a woman I thought I had loved. Didn’t get laid either because we wound up getting into a fight and I walked home.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Mr. Spock wrote:

Wow this is embarrassing……..I once dressed like Robin Hood with the leotard tights on Halloween just for a woman I thought I had loved. Didn’t get laid either because we wound up getting into a fight and I walked home.

Don’t worry about it. You did that on Halloween. No harm, no foul, no judgments. Now, if you wear that costume, in public, any other day of the year, that might different. But, that was clearly not the case.

[Anonymous 42]

Mr. Spock wrote:

I once dressed like Robin Hood with the leotard tights

A friend of mine moved to LA years ago, he’s in the entertainment industry, he was in Mel Brooks Robin Hood men in tights, as one of the backdrop characters, he’s been through a nasty divorce, and told me of the things that go on behind the seen. Their some of the most materialistic self centered people on this earth! The last sort of people I’d like to associate with…

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

I gave my financial, emotional and physical health up for “love” – and put it under me the control of the government. They call it “marriage”. The cure? Divorce.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I dare not think again about what I did.

Let’s leave it at cutting my dick off, sticking it in my ass a few times then giving myself a blow job.

That is the nice version.

I don’t recognize that excuse of a man anymore. I hate him.

[RoyDalParticipant]

@doc Fenderson,
That could be me, Doc. That could be me! Luckily, I found my way to going my own way, but it was a close run thing.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Stargazer wrote:

* I caught a DUI charge and spent a weekend in jail in order to make sure a female got home safely

Whoah that almost happened to me too. And I knew better! I dunno how I agreed to it but I drove a girl home when I shouldn’t have – just to make sure “she got home safely”. She also had an early meeting the next morning. I texted her a reminder to set her alarm. There was no thanks or anything from her – for any of it. That was the last time I ever give a s~~~ if a woman “gets home safely”.

But it actually DID happen to a good friend of mine – about an hour after I told him not to drive. All 3 of us were out, and “It’ll be fine….. I’m just taking her home”. SHE called me not long after freaking out because they got pulled over and this was his SECOND DUI.

•••••

I didn’t do this “for love” but I liked the girl , and we were together when her father suddenly dropped from a heart attack. Naturally, everything stopped, she lost her s~~~ and bolted. When she called later she was in the hospital and told me he would be OK but she was a wreck. So I looked up the hospital and had flowers sent to the room the next day. It just seemed like something I should do.

The f~~~ing bitch calls me up and says she “thought that was kind of stalker-ish“.

I will NEVER send a woman flowers again or do anything that thoughtful.
She murdered whatever was left of “the nice guy” where women are concerned.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 18]

Fell in love. As they say s~~~ rolls downhill.

Love is a neurochemical imbalance, that’s why women relate to it so much.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10910]

Thanks, MGTower and Faust For Science. Thought I was going to get hammered on that but hey, I look back on it and laugh because I was young, dumb and no one got pictures.
On a different note, I can’t understand why no one stopped to offer me a ride home……

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Keymaster wrote:

The f~~~ing bitch calls me up and says she “thought that was kind of stalker-ish“.

I will NEVER send a woman flowers again or do anything that thoughtful.
She murdered whatever was left of “the nice guy” where women are concerned.

S~~~, dude, that’s awful. I’m really sorry to hear that.

I’m amazed about how much of a “dick” I have to be nowadays around women, to make sure that they don’t get away with their bulls~~~ anymore. I don’t like it, I really don’t; I really do want to be thoughtful and considerate. But I know that that thoughtfulness and consideration mean jack s~~~, so I know it’s not worth it.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[SOLI2DEParticipant 746]

No Lie and the reason why I am here now. Talked to a woman online(never met), purchased round trip ticket to meet her(I’m in CA, she is TX) and was planning to move there and start a life until she started s~~~ testing me many times and I failed all of them. Toward the end someone introduced to me to the red pill. I had to go through the emotional ringer before I was willing to take the pill and I’m glad I took it. I wasted the money on the ticket but I learned a whole lot about women and myself. I still feel the emotions which fade with each day and more red pill and MGTOW knowledge. This started in Oct 2015 and officially ended this month. I see all the signs that its better to have my freedom by Going My Own Way rather than fitting myself to become this disposable utility.

“Do not give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.” -Proverbs 31:3-

[Anonymous 42]

SOLI2DE wrote:

This started in Oct 2015 and officially ended this month.

Hey O-Way, Popps had a video a few months back that nails the time frame to 3 months, that’s when the dude is either broken in like a house pet (somewhere between the dog, and the bird) or he bolts to sanity over insanity and runs for his life!

https://www.youtube.com/user/redonkulaspopp

Most of my relationships (the ones I foolishly thought had meaning) only lasted to 3 months! By that time I was usually making the escape plan. The longest relationship I endured was a year with psyco-bitch, but other than that the majority were 2 weeks, 2 days, or a couple hours depending on the secluded parking spot, I tore off more exhaust systems than I can remember, but never got stuck in the mud,,,,,, except for the time the Connecticut river swamped my car (flooded lowlands) it was a Subaru! I didn’t get stuck, but I was worried when saw one headlight under water and my side view mirror had it’s own wake going, and the water flooding in,,,,, you could hear it! Then I got smarter and used a bike, vroom vroom!

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

I wasted a lot of things in my prior endless quest to experience what I thought was ‘love’.

But the most precious resource that I wasted was the most finite and hardest thing to replace:

Time

And I still have not been able to forgive myself for the years spent enmeshed in, chasing and under the influence of a drug known as ‘love’.

[acubensParticipant 13]

Often, what we think is love, is actually a need for validation. Social expectations have poisoned the minds of men to believe that this validation can only come from women. When a woman confirms our actions are appropriate as acts of love, we feel validated in our role as a man.

As we detach from this, and go our own way, we can find validation in the things that enrich our mind, body, and spirit. We can confidently provide our own confirmation.

"Don't you draw the queen of diamonds, boy. She'll beat you if she's able." -Glenn Frey

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