The "Smart" Girl

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

I wanted to let off some steam as well as pick the minds of like-minded individuals here, so I hope you all will humor me.

As some of you may have noticed, I am back on the boards after a short absence (around 2 months). I mentioned in another thread that now that I’ve really come to embrace MGTOW, I have more attention from females than I ever did both as a whipped TradCon white knight and as a blue pill feminist mangina. I noticed, because I still have a good layer of fat on me and I enjoy “indoorsy” activities, I tend to attract a very specific type of female attention, which I call the “smart” girl.

The “smart” girl is the girl that was never attractive growing up, but has matured into a 6-8/10 and now fully comes to love the attention she is getting from both horny guys her own age and older men whose options have dried up because women their age have hit the Wall. She got good grades, maybe read a couple of books in the English curriculum and now reads mostly romance but claims she reads for fun now, started college young and now has an Associate’s or Bachelor’s, which has afforded her the opportunity to earn more money, move out, and have a more active social life, even though she will pretend to hate being around people (she loves the male attention, but hates the female competition). They have a few “nerdy” interests they will try to bond over, but any at-length discussion reveals they only have a cursory interest at best. This won’t stop them, however, from wearing the t-shirts, buying the merch, or throwing out the catchphrases at all available opportunities.

I guess it kind of annoys me because I know they’re only going after me as a “safe bet”. They will often use the phrase “I’m not like other girls” or some variation of thereof, yet will go out to party whenever all the other girls do. At least the party girls/traditionalist girls KNOW what they are about: Party girls love sex and partying, traditionalist love crafts and Pinterest and whatever. The “smart” girl tries to do both, though: They get burned out of the guys they want in the party scene turning them down or the guys they don’t want constantly hitting them up. Again, they see me as an investment, a safe bet: Overweight, bespectacled, not very outspoken but generally using a bigger vocabulary than those he is around, doesn’t sleep around/hit the party scene (no competition for them), keeps himself clean (no worries about safety or me getting arrested) …in other words, they think they’re eventually going to hit the jackpot when I either build something of value or become a doctor or lawyer or something. So they spend time with me…and then immediately try to change me into the aforementioned jackpot. Then they get p~~~ed when I tell them to leave because, again, they saw me as the safe bet. Anyone had similar experiences?

[RoyDalParticipant]

Yep, I had a high paying job in a STEM company as a lower-rung middle manager. I was a safe bet. Thankfully, most of the women I knew liked bad boys, and not white collar corporate drones with stable personalities and good careers. But, yes, there were a few smart girls sprinkled in the mix.

If it “doesn’t work out” she can always get my house, car, and a butt load of money. What could go wrong?

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Same thing for me. Former soldier. Hated serving with females in general. It was the double tough minority that kept their head on a pivot and got the job done.

While I was working my undergraduate degree a few years ago, this younger, twenty something asked me about my goatee. Asked if I thought about growing it out to a complete beard, and that she found beards to be attractive.

I said, No.

I also have a restored ’72 Pontiac LeMans convertible. I keep getting side ways looks from the younger chicks, and I am frequently asked, where I like to go ‘cruising’. Bleh! Oh yeah! I am also frequently asked by the younger gals “how much something like this costs’.

I complete frame off restoration starts at 20k.

Don’t get me wrong. They were cute, but I have no interest in younger girls that have some unaddressed ‘Daddy’ issues.

Also, I don’t care how ‘smart’ or ‘educated’ they are, talking to a woman under the age of 35 is painful. Like Andrew Dice Clay once said, talking to them is “Like masturbating with a cheese grater. Slightly amusing, but mostly painful.”

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

The “Smart girls” are the worst.
Because they make you think you can get the best of both worlds: having actual interesting conversations with them AND have great sex with a good looking woman.
In fact, you get none of it because:

KingOfTheSea wrote:

They have a few “nerdy” interests they will try to bond over, but any at-length discussion reveals they only have a cursory interest at best.

So there go your deep conversations.
And, because

KingOfTheSea wrote:

The “smart” girl is the girl that was never attractive growing up

they resent sex and are not good at it due to their prior frustrations.
And they are vindictive as hell, and will use any man as a target for her revenge.

All you end up with is an Ice Queen with a superiority complex. They become the worst naggers and will thrive on putting you down at every turn so they can boost their self esteem.
So, my friends, if ever you think you found your NAWALT unicorn, be afraid, be very afraid and run away.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[BeerParticipant 11832]

RoyDal wrote:

Yep, I had a high paying job in a STEM company as a lower-rung middle manager. I was a safe bet. Thankfully, most of the women I knew liked bad boys, and not white collar corporate drones with stable personalities and good careers. But, yes, there were a few smart girls sprinkled in the mix.

If it “doesn’t work out” she can always get my house, car, and a butt load of money. What could go wrong?

This is why the idea of being the millionaire next door type is appealing to me. The only gold diggers that will know what I’m worth are the local bank tellers…all the rest will just think I’m an average guy with an average car and a giant mortgage like everyone else.

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

John Woods 13 wrote:

All you end up with is an Ice Queen with a superiority complex. They become the worst naggers and will thrive on putting you down at every turn so they can boost their self esteem.So, my friends, if ever you think you found your NAWALT unicorn, be afraid, be very afraid and run away.

Oh no, I know damn well what they are. Frankly, I’m at the point where even if there were a NAWALT, I don’t want one. Living on my own is just too f~~~ing fun.

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