The silent treatment

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  • #291243
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    From The Ashes
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    This mighty s~~~ test, huh?

    By not talking, a woman may feel she is punishing her man when in fact it’s a welcome relief from the constant harping and bitching a man has to listen to on a regular basis.

    The hamster is in overdrive here at FTA’s plantation. I’m one of the former beta’s that married and had a few kids. 10yrs down the road things aren’t so rosy. SAHM’s feeling extra entitled these days despite not having a care in the world except for looking after the kids and tidying from time to time.

    Your’s truly was on the last few days of his holidays, and decided it was time to go for a solo night to a friends house for a holiday wind up beer night. Told the missus, I’m heading over to ********’s place for a few drinks, I’ll be home later. Enjoy the rest of the evening with the kids.

    Comical, the way they feel affronted when not asked for permission. Here’s a hint ladies (if you’re reading this), do your part, and give your man a reason to want to stay home. Don’t assume that you always have control, remember, if you push a man too far, sooner or later too far becomes away (badly quoted, I know)

    Needless to say gentlemen, the silence has been deafening here lately except for the comfortable conversation I’m finally able to have with my sons. As I mentioned in my intro post, I’m here because of them, not her at this point. Life has a twisted way of giving you some of the best times, doesn’t it?

    #291261
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    Buller100
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    They do it as men are fixers, so the mangina tries to fix the issue.

    The issue may just be the greedy c~~~ wants new shoes and is sulking , so the well trained mangina tries to get her back on the even keel , we as even as a self entitled c~~~ can be.

    Its a play, like a bluff in poker..

    #291278
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    Keymaster
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    This mighty s~~~ test, huh?

    Women actually think “the silent treatment” is some form of “punishment”, but it’s like HEAVEN to a man, and the worst possible way to tell a man you’re mad it him.

    Whenever a woman would pull that “silent treatment” s~~~ on me, I would think carefully about what she thought I did *wrong*. . . . . . . and then do it as often as f~~~ing possible.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #291294
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    Silent Noise
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    Women HATE the silent treatment. Hell, they’d rather negative attention than nothing at all. It kills their self-esteem. Maybe they project that onto men, thinking they’ll p~~~ the man off by starving attention.

    NOPE.

    #291369
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    ILiveAgain
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    Modern women can’t SHUT THE FK UP.

    The previous generation of t~~~s used the silent treatment but today NO WOMEN CAN KEEP HER MOUTH SHUT.

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    Knights Templar Rising
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    Same here. As the years went on, the silent treatment became a relief. The same with getting banished to the trailer, it was like a mini vacation each time!

    Sovereignty above all else.

    #291396
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    Chaff/Flare
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    Silent treatment: a c~~~ plotting how to ruin your life while thinking about all the things you haven’t done for her. Divorce was the smartest thing I have EVER done.

    When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

    #291527
    Faust For Science
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    This mighty s~~~ test, huh?

    By not talking, a woman may feel she is punishing her man when in fact it’s a welcome relief from the constant harping and bitching a man has to listen to on a regular basis.

    Oh but the fun part is the “silent treatment” is the one tactic men can legally do to women without worry. That is the whole point to MGTOW, men ignore women and go are own way.

    #291567
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    Joetech
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    I always use the silent treatment on women. They hate it, and the abusive ones actually get scared.

    "Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

    #291577
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    Tiredofbs
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    The “silent treatment” from a woman in the 21st century is a gift from God. Not sure if they will ever learn that they are only good for a few things. Talking intelligently is not one of them.

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    Nero
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    I have some input on the silent treatment. After months of marital counseling and a more open environment for discussion with wifey, I asked her about all the years of her withdrawing from discussion and deploying the silent treatment. She told me that she gets so angry with me that she is afraid to say what she really thinks about me and won’t be able to take it back. Basically, given our history of arguments, she probably is thinking of every bad decision you ever made, every failure, every annoyance, and that you are a piece of s~~~ she has to put up with. After hearing that, I realized how different we are indeed.

    After over a decade of playing mangina white knight, chasing her around the house to try and resolve our issues, I just quit the pursuit. Actually, every time I tried to bring something up that bothered me, SHE WAS ABLE TO REDIRECT the entire issue and then it became about her being mad at me and I need to apologize. Wtf?!

    Now, I give zero fks about our disagreements. It’s my way or the highway. I deploy the silent treatment, just like a bitch. Why? One, it gives me space for awhile, which I enjoy. Two, other folks are right on this thread about women not being able to take their own medicine. Three days of the silent treatment brings her to her knees groveling at my feet. F~~~ em.

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    Two, other folks are right on this thread about women not being able to take their own medicine. Three days of the silent treatment brings her to her knees groveling at my feet. F~~~ em.

    Spot on.

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