the s~~~ vortex

[Anonymous 43]

Do you know and understand the damage the s~~~ vortex causes.

The s~~~ vortex is drama and bulls~~~ kicked up into your life when you invite a woman to be with you. You are not just dating a woman. Oh no. YOu are taking on all her problems, her friends problems and her family’s problems. The s~~~ vortex increases exponentially the more people who are involved in a woman’s life.

I married a woman. She had 3 sisters and a step sister and a step brother. She had 2 sets of parents. So my circle of acquaintances went from about 3 to 9. There was also a woman the c~~~ went to school with, call her quasi-sister. no I have 10 portals of potential pain.

Each sister, step sister, and quasi-sister and step brother got married. Now I have 20 portals o pain. my c~~~ pushed out 2 kids, the other sisters, step sister step brother and quasi sister each pushed out 4 or 5 kids each…what is that 25 kids? f~~~. It is always some kid’s birthday, some kid is hurt, sick, has a ball game, school play wants a sleep over, something

Birthday parties, omg. Everyone needs a present from each cousin…every birthday 25 new toys, clothes, bicycles, art sets, Barbie dolls, books, something. And It couldn’t be cheap s~~~…

Going to these other sister’s houses was a disaster, the volume of toys, clothes, general clutter in these houses was insane. These sisters all had 4500 square foot houses. Guess who worked their asses off to afford 5 bedroom houses. Yep the men.

So more s~~~ vortex action…some brother in law was always asking me to help with lawn work, fix something, move something big, asked for money to make the mortgage payment, money to bet on fantasy sports…something.

Yeah, so the women repopulated a small nation with their clutches, the men banded together to play fantasy sports as a second job. I told them I wasn’t into that, so I was useless to them. Well, I held the money for them. lol. I invested the money and reinvested and kept the dividends trading ETFs. lol Idiots.

Then the in law parents had their own contribution to the s~~~ vortex…moving, I was volunteered to help, car problems, May to the f~~~ing rescue because he stays at home with his kids. Oh nose the vacation house has a problem, I got the call, drive 4 hours, fix the f~~~er, then drive hoe 4 hours. . Then there were the 9 boats this whole s~~~ vortex owned. Everyone had a boat but me. umm I had a rc boat, but c~~~ sold it for $5. F~~~, every spring I’d make the rounds getting boats tuned up and ready to go. I think these f~~~s used their boats 3X a summer, that’s it, and in late September I’d go around and winterize their s~~~, help them wash off a summer’s worth of nature taking over, then help then move their boats to storage.

1 set of inlaws had 3 boats and 2 jet skis. The other set had 1 boat. Oh and while you are here, can you work on the 4 scooters in the garage, and the other in laws has 3 motorcycles.

All of these inlaws had expensive toys but absolutely no, zeeeeero idea how to maintain their s~~~. I had tools and curiosity and a basic idea how all this s~~~ ran…oh yea I checked the internet to see how s~~~ worked.

Oh my mower isn’t working…I’d go around and maintain 7 mowers later, and everyone can cut their grass again.

Note, all my brothers in law were from single or dysfunctional homes and were 7 or 8 years younger than me. They had no clue how s~~~ worked. One of them called me because the garbage disposal didn’t work…one of their 19 kids unplugged the f~~~er. I drove an hour to plug in a sink pig.

The s~~~ vortex extends to friends of the c~~~, some friend is always getting married, divorced, knocked up and having a baby shower, wedding shower or needs a shower. a friend always needed car help, money or babysitting.

The c~~~’s friends would just show up at random times to hang out in the back yard or use the pool, people I had never met…oh I’m the c~~~’s work friend, she said it would be ok if me and my friends and all their kids could play in your backyard and swim. Do I look like the f~~~ing YMCA? and then they wanted food and drinks. FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK Oh hey umm what’s yer name again? What do I do with this dirty diaper? lol

The swirling vortex expanded to about 125 different inlaws, friends, cousins of friends, work people, clients, scrapbook buddies, neighborhood people and random f~~~s who heard my house was a hangout. I think I fixed plumbing or a motor, painted or gave money to all of them at some point.

All of then attached to the c~~~. And she would scream if I even hinted I had a friend somewhere in the internet.

Did any of these hangers-on ever do anything for me? One of them used to crush pop and beer cans so they didn’t take up so much space in the trash can.

One time th word got out I was washing, claybarring and waxing our three cars…wewll the call went out and all of a sudden all the sisters showed up, gave me $20 and wanted their minivans and Canyoneros detailed while they all relax in the pool and suck down my food.

I told them no, and they got the c~~~ on the phone, and she gave me the mother of all assreaming. F~~~ it. I washed and used an orbital buffer, ground most of the clearcoat off their cars, then polished those turds to a glossy glow. I can’t tell you how satisfying it was to see their car’s paint weather away while my cars looked new and fresh.

yes. these c~~~s demanded their husbands buy them all new cars…holy fuk. All bought new vans and cannyoneros with leather seats, fold down tvs, and lighted cupholders.

This was my s~~~ vortex. Feel free to comment on what a cuck I was, or share your s~~~ vortex below. I hope Chad Thnderc~~~ was able to fill my shoes, because I have no clue how these idiot inlaws were going to make it with out me.

lol i”m free of the s~~~ vortex! F~~~ all those f~~~ing fuuucks to hell.

[Anonymous 13]

Wow, man!

That’s some s~~~ vortex.

Of course you’re not just marrying her but all the s~~~ that comes with her family too, users, takers, general parasites.

I also got roped into doing s~~~ I didn’t need or want to simply because I had abilities.

In the end I stopped, for my sanity.

Then you’re the bad guy.

Ever notice that with these c~~~s?

THAT no matter what you do. What you say or how you are, you’re ALWAYS gonna end up the bad guy.

I’m glad you’re FREE of the s~~~ vortex.

F~~~ that noise.

[Anonymous 13]

Life’s good without the s~~~ vortex.

[Anonymous 13]

Listen to these guys, lurkers.

Do you really just want to end up the bad guy?

I can guarantee no matter how much sacrifice you make or for how long,
guess what?

I’m the bad guy?

Gee, how did THAT happen.

[StealthParticipant 5339]

Great post. It’s like the power of compounding interest. Sounds like you were the intelligent one living amongst barbarians.
If you’ll excuse the reference, it reminds me a bit of the Woody Allen movie “Midnight in Paris” which contrasts the main male character’s actual appreciation of life and culture with his materialistic and short-sighted fiancé and in-laws…They take a group trip to Paris, where he explores the city and enriches his life, while the family of rich pigs barely leaves the hotel, consumed by tourist trash, and expects him to fall in line. When he doesn’t, and instead lives life for himself, their s~~~ hits the fan and he is ousted from the group. I don’t know your full story, but I bet everyone was critical once you were freed up to use your own intelligence for yourself. I’ll bet after all you did, it just wasn’t enough for them.

I’ll never forget the holiday when the entire in-law family announced they were coming to our house for a week uninvited. I held my peace but kept mostly to myself.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

I empathize with you May. Although I worked, I was still expected to help around my in laws “needs”. No thought of me being tired or what because they think I was just lounging at work. Just because I have interest in computers and electronics and other stuff, being an inquisitive guy that I am made me into the fix it all guy. To fix their computers, laptop, cellphone, and other electronic stuff as well as be a household electrician,carpenter,driver and salesperson in their business. What do I get from doing all that?zilch…Even pussy was withheld by my wife because I somehow displeased my MIL for not earning enough money to help out in their business expansion. Now I smile with a twisted smile to know they are f~~~ed when those things fail. Let them hire a professional for each problem because free Fix it all is gone….
Thanks May for the topic. It made me grateful for the peace I have now. I was a bit down a few hours ago due to loneliness and missing the hugs of ex wife. This topic cured me. Cool new avatar…

To SpiritRR…I LoLed at the video. Now I can relate to the bad guy. Imagine that….We got pushed, now we say…F~~~ that…I now have time for myself to fix all the s~~~ in my life caused by the s~~~ vortex…
Better days to come…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[xenonParticipant 2007]

f~~~ that s~~~ vortex.

[Anonymous 42]

Talking about wrenching and fixing s~~~ and knowing the how-tos’, I had a relative recently suggest I tutor a problem child in a s~~~ household full of “it only takes a phone calls'” and how I should rush right in there and save the f~~~ing day!

^^^^S~~~ VORTEX, NOW IN REAR VIEW MIRROR! That’s just one good deed that’s gonna have to go unpunished!

F~~~ the eye the storm!

Calm sunny MGTOW waters!

Save the day?

NO NO,

F~~~ THE DAY!

[joetechParticipant]

Yes, I saw myself in that scenario. At least now it’s some other guys s~~~ vortex and he probably envies you by now for being free of it.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Thanks for sharing that May 7!

I can definitely relate to your story, as can probably every man who was married and tried to be a good husband and family member.
MY vortex wasn’t as complex and populated as yours, but probably just as painful none the less.

The thing that strikes me now looking back, like you, I was the one to always be there to help her family members. They never helped me at all. Yet in the end her sister and brother fed into her cheating and smeared me as selfish.
The selfish thing after all I had done, all I had sacrificed, was hurtful and infuriating. (I never even bought myself a new car – it was always her that we bought the new car for, and I took the old one.)

Lurkers, don’t make the same mistakes. Don’t waste the best years of your life and all that energy on parasites and ingrates.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Crap man.
I have five brothers.
We wish you’d of been our brother in law.

Peace brothers

[Anonymous 43]

I posted this so you lurkers, and anyone thinking about getting married understands that when you are dating a woman or wifing her up, that you don’t only get the special snowflake…you get this complex s~~~ vortex that she sucks you into. just so many layers of s~~~ heaped upon you. Everyone needs your help, but no one Is there to help you.

When I got married, I had dad, mom and a brother in high school. I had a couple friends, but zero drama. none. The c~~~ had some divorced kid baggage, but I thought it was manageable. WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Once the c~~~ got her career going, and we had money, the relatives descended on us like locusts and multiplied quickly. At one time there were maybe 15 kids in diapers at one time…f~~~, that’s a whole garbage bag full, and these bitches would just change their s~~~ covered children on my living room floor. Nekulturne suka! Devour my food, clog my toilets, p~~~ in my pool, break my kids toys and then leave a couple hours worth of clean up in their wake.

F~~~ing up their car paint was fun, I can still smell the burnt clear coat…I also drilled a couple extra drain holes in the top of their car doors…lol what a bunch of f~~~wads. In three years, the paint weathered away, and the bottom of the doors rusted out, while my own van was clean and pristine. They used to give me s~~~ for having a Chevy…their Hondas and Toyotas were so much better. lol. They never vacuumed their crumbcruncher carriers, they constantly smelled of s~~~, chicken and French fries. the leather seats were covered in mucus and chicken grease.

I never heard from any of these fine people ever again, don’t want to either. They are all sharing a seat on the bus to hell. strap em all in and shove the f~~~ing bus off the cliff, bunch of useless f~~~s.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Anonymous wrote:

Listen to these guys, lurkers.

Do you really just want to end up the bad guy?

I can guarantee no matter how much sacrifice you make or for how long,
guess what?

I’m the bad guy?

Gee, how did THAT happen.

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You’re only the GOOD GUY until the moment you say NO. Facts.

[StealthParticipant 5339]

Pedal, run, row wrote:

Yet in the end her sister and brother fed into her cheating and smeared me as selfish.

You’re only the GOOD GUY until the moment you say NO.

Same exact thing here, Pedal Run Row and Nero. I honestly looked up to my in-laws as good citizens until they resorted to name-calling and tearing apart our family. It only revealed to me how little of the facts they actually knew, and what terribly s~~~ty people the whole lot of them were. I was the one affirming that each person is responsible for his or her own actions. A friend pointed out no wonder she is entitled and won’t ever grow out of it–you can see where she got it from.

It all started once I started to defend myself against her subtle yet pernicious domestic abuses. As a three-year-old I knew once said, “he’s being mean to me (abusing me) because he won’t do what I say!”

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

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