I was having drinks with a few mates last night and when the topic came to women it was the same old s~~~. One’s in a relationship, the other just out of a relationship and desperately wants to get back in with her. I think I asked something like ‘really, what’s the appeal apart from pussy? Why spend any more time with a woman?’. They come up with all sorts of answers, all defensive-like: ‘I genuinely enjoy her company’ etc then try to project on me with things like ‘Don’t you ever want someone there to make you happy? Don’t you get lonely?’
Cue grin the width of the grand canyon. F~~~ing apes. They get all confused about why they’re powerless in any situation with a woman (despite them thinking that getting laid/having a woman somehow qualifies them as having more knowledge) so I lay some hard truths on them about how to hack a womans brain if they really want to get what they want instead of playing into her whims. Proper alpha s~~~. Basically, be Chad. Say no to sex for once and see her fall in a crumbling heap, see how it makes her brain tick. The principle of surplus, even faked surplus. Don’t be such a little bitch. Put your foot down more and don’t be afraid to turf if s~~~ goes south. There’ll be more around the corner. There always is. They place such a halo around one pussy, not realising there’s nothing special about it at all. There’d be nothing special about getting a hundred pussies in a row. They’d call that alpha bragging rights and expect everyone to give them a pat on the back. I call that beta blind stupidity and a massive waste of time. Their brains are wired all wrong.
I think it insults them that a guy who doesn’t ‘get any’ pussy and doesn’t want it in the first place, who would rather have a wank, save a whole heap of time and effort and put the extra energy into learning how to fight or playing an instrument or hunting or doing something constructive to sublimate it…it insults them that an ‘abomination’ to manhood such as myself who doesn’t have much interest in chasing the nature of women knows intrinsically better about it than they do. It insults them that I can find more pleasure and much less hassle in owning dogs than they can being with a woman. I know the truth: I kick ass. They know it too. They just can’t connect the dots and understand that it’s possible to monk and still kick ass in life.
They reminded me of children fumbling in the f~~~ing dark and I can see that my advice has a seer-like quality to it. They just don’t understand how I can pull such good, rational, logical advice and not want to use it to hook women. They fear letting go and seeing what’s on the other side, seeing just how successful you can be without a woman; to relinquish that power it has over them and see it’s not the end of the world. Sure, they nod their heads because they know the truth when they hear it. It dances on the edge of the mind of any sane man. I could see their eyes widen as I laid down my law and stood by it stronger than they’d ever stand by their women, or she’d ever stand by them. It’s not magic, it’s just basic behavioural psychology. But it may as well be magic to them.
Will they follow that advice? F~~~ no they won’t.
I said to one of my mates ‘do I look unhappy or lonely to you?’. And he said ‘no, I think you’re probably the happiest guys I’ve ever seen’. An answer so simple you couldn’t have drilled it in any better than bashing your head against a brick wall but his complete lack of understanding as to the why or how of it.
Whatever. They got a schooling and they nodded their heads and I could see gears crunching in their brains that they never knew were there but they’ll still pay no heed to them. The thought, the action, the change needed gets put in the too hard basket. I’ll never understand how it can be easier to sacrifice your autonomy and your dominion of self than to do a little soul-searching and come out much wiser on the other side. Such base f~~~ing instincts. We are a stupid race, for the most part.
Society: I refuse your stick and carrot. If you try to beat or shame me you'd better take me down first time. If I want smoke blown up my ass I'll buy a cigar and a length of hose.
Boar 1 year, 6 months ago.
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