The secret to dealing with inappropriate questions and comments

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Greetings, gents.

I have found the magic bullet for dealing with all bulls~~~, for all questions and comments that make you uncomfortable. And the best part is that it requires absolutely no thought, no ingenuity, no effort on your part; yet it can stop any bulls~~~ right in its path. Ready?

Whenever anyone asks you a question or makes a comment to you that is ludicrously inappropriate, all you have to do is ask the exact same question, in the exact same words, right the f~~~ back to him/her.

It’s amazing, because a lot of people (especially women) are so clueless about what comes out of their mouths that they have no idea what they just asked you is inappropriate, until they hear it thrown right back at them. It’s a beautiful response because:

1. It takes no effort or thought on your part.

2. It nukes them completely.

3. They can’t get mad at you, because they asked you the exact same thing.

I’m twenty-one, and look even younger, and I tell you, I recently shut down some really inappropriate comments this way. Old ladies in the office will ask me: “How old are you? So how much are they paying you?” like just because I’m a student working here in the summer, that gives them the right, or the necessity, to know who I am.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5127]

I agree. “Mirror” their own words back to them.  For a lot of them, it will cause hamster wheel meltdown.

Sovereignty above all else.

[Elgos_GrimParticipant 254]

<small> “How old are you? So how much are they paying you?” like just because I’m a student working here in the summer, that gives them the right, or the necessity, to know who I am.</small>

So, how p~~~ed were they when you repeated the question?

I mean, I can imagine – but I just really want to hear it!

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

How p~~~ed were they? Couldn’t tell you, since they can’t really get visibly p~~~ed, since I did the exact same thing they did. But I imagine they got pretty p~~~ed inside.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[EntropyParticipant 902]

I freaking love this… it’s going on the wall.

My cube is chock full of little (intentionally vague and barely legible) red pill tactics/reminders from you all.

Much gratitude.

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[QcummerParticipant 652]

i’m so stupid. why haven’t I always done this. genius!

 

[Anonymous 3]

Rockmaninoff wrote:

How p~~~ed were they? Couldn’t tell you, since they can’t really get visibly p~~~ed, since I did the exact same thing they did. But I imagine they got pretty p~~~ed inside.

Knowing women, they were extremely p~~~ed and will hold a grudge going forward.

The easier thing to do is to cite rules above you that make answering out of your power.

“I can’t say, they told me I’m not supposed to talk about that stuff, I don’t want to get in trouble.” That shuts it down but keeps you from being a target.

This is why workplaces need to be segregated though. Women are very petty and will use passive aggressive behavior at every perceived slight, and they constantly perceive slights.

[EntropyParticipant 902]

I’m a firm believer in the idea that you dictate how other people treat you through your actions/words.

Women are looking for an excuse to cast you out, so spitting an obnoxious question back in their face is hardly going to take you anyplace you weren’t already going to end up.

It does, however, show them that you use your brain. And like a child touching the stove… they will eventually learn.

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[BufordParticipant 935]

I just don’t talk to any f~~~er.

"This happens every time one of these floozies starts poontangin' around with those show folk fags. - Sheriff Buford T. Justice"

[Anonymous 25]

Rockmaninoff wrote:

“How old are you? So how much are they paying you?”

With a question like that I would challenge for specifics: “I’m confused, how exactly is that relevant?” or “I’m confused, how exactly is that any of your business?”

The meta model by Bandler and Grindler is great for challenging what other people say or ask. Just lead it with a softener such as ‘I don’t understand’ or ‘I’m confused’. With good questioning you can fry the other person’s brain as it takes them outside of their view of the world.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Good advice to be found in this book. Used copies are cheap too:

http://www.amazon.com/dp/0060577657/

Verbal Judo: The Gentle Art of Persuasion Paperback – March 2, 2004
by George J., PhD Thompson (Author)

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[BDParticipant 1146]

Rockmaninoff wrote:

the magic bullet for dealing with all bulls~~~,

No Ma’am!

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[HitmanParticipant]

lmmfao ! bullet dodger, thanks for that video clip..made my day bro !

[Anonymous 12]

Another effective tactic is silence. Let their comment/question hang in the air so everyone, especially the one who said it has to deal with hearing the “echo” of their own words. Don’t dignify anything they say with a response at all.

[Gabriel A. KingParticipant 730]

I usually just unload on them with my 1st Amendment and say horrifying things others only think of but won’t say…..   or say things others don’t really even have the talent to make up.    Usually anything anti- “PC” and incredibly base suffices.

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