The Red Pill!

[Enlightened by TruthParticipant 41]

I discovered MGTOW a week ago and it’s awesome. This is what I was looking for. The philosophy of MGTOW puts into perspective the views I have especially at this point in my life. Our country (United States) is so screwed up as the women are essentially going to a relationship buffet, picking and choosing the best for them. To hold the idea of equality and then in the same breath elevate themselves above men. Other posts on this site are far better at explaining this. I’m just glad I found a group of men who have woken up.

About me: I’m in my 40’s and never married. I had the intention of being married by now but whenever I would date I would find how much a girl would change and the “real” person would appear.. and I would get out…..quickly. I have felt bad for years because society was always bothering me to be married and sometimes it would lead to slight depression. Some people even asking me bluntly why I wasn’t married after just meeting them. But, really isn’t this MY life and isn’t it MY business if I don’t marry. I don’t owe anyone explanations.

My other friends are married and they can’t stand it. In fact my other friends are all on their second marriage and hate it. One of my friends earned good money, is a nice guy, ect.. ect and settled for a fat girl who refuses to support him at home in any way. Once they moved to a larger home and she didn’t even help pack. I don’t know why he puts up with it.

My worst relationship experience. I took a Bulgarian girl I was dating on a 3 day cruise.. It was not serious when we went.. But I did pay for the cruise.. After the gangplank was raised and we were pulling out of port she tells me she met some other guy and started dating. I cursed at her and it turned into the longest three days of my life.

My best relationship experience: I was dating a girl who was “crazy”. I believe she had papers to confirm this. One of those girls who “creates” drama where none is present. I was in the military and went on deployment. After a few weeks she stopped emailed me and I assumed that was it. I didn’t like the way it happened. But that was that. When I got home I met her boyfriend hence why she stopped emailed me. I was so happy that it really was over.. I almost hugged they guy… months later.. they married.. a few years later….they divorced…. Ob la di ob la da

Anyway, glad to be here!!

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

Enlightened by Truth wrote:

Our country (United States) is so screwed up as the women are essentially going to a relationship buffet,

Welcome! It ain’t the U.S. solely, it is happening all over the (western) world.

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[Anonymous 25]

welcome

If a woman told me that on the cruise I paid for, I would have told her she needed to go get her own room as she was not welcome at mine. And if I saw again, we could play pirates and she could walk the gangplank

Nowadays I just save myself the hassle in the first place

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Welcome OPSNODEKILLER. You know in her hamster wheel mind she (the Bulgarian) must have at one point thought

” Well yeah, I should tell him. Oh, how about I go on a trip with him, let him pay for it, and tell him then. He’ll appreciate that. Yay me! I’m helping!”

[AutoliteParticipant]

Enlightened by Truth wrote:

I took a Bulgarian girl I was dating on a 3 day cruise.. It was not serious when we went.. But I did pay for the cruise.. After the gangplank was raised and we were pulling out of port she tells me she met some other guy and started dating.

I learned many years ago that women really have no conscience. It’s kinda scary in a way. It’s like they’re soulless zombies or something…

[KevinStylesParticipant 2580]

I dated a crazy chick once and ended it after 8 months or so. She asked why and i just straight up said because you are bat-s~~~ crazy and left. lol.

[Enlightened by TruthParticipant 41]

That Bulgarian chick turned out to be walking entitlement. We had a strange conversation once that she expected her boyfriend/puppet to memorize her favorite meals so at a restaurant he could order for her as she sat there. This NEVER happened when we went out but, it would have been an expectation if our relationship went any further.

I think it’s important to learn from mistakes.. paying for her cruise was a mistake… I learned and now that girl ruined it for all the others cuz I won’t be paying for anyone ever again.

I’ve tried to learn from the mistakes of others too. One of my other friends was in his 30’s.. and decided he NEEDED to be married because that was the social norm. He found a girl with 2 pre-made kids and she had a good job.. no debt. Got married and she quit her job and did NOTHING around the house (the bathroom had stuff growing in the tub). After some time she got bored.. cheated ..and everyone here knows the rest. The whole situation destroyed my buddy. Alas.. after he recovered and given the choice of the blue/red pill. He took the blue pill, remarried and is unhappy again. Once again, she had a great job.. and quit to do nothing around the house.

[Anonymous 2]

Welcome!

Enlightened by Truth wrote:

One of my other friends was in his 30’s.. and decided he NEEDED to be married because that was the social norm. He found a girl with 2 pre-made kids and she had a good job.. no debt. Got married and she quit her job and did NOTHING around the house (the bathroom had stuff growing in the tub).

Kinda my story without the pre-made kids.
I’ll never do the marriage or relations~~~ mistake again.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Enlightened by Truth wrote:

I don’t owe anyone explanations.

MGTOW philosophy in 5 words.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Ops
Beer’s in the fridge
When dating, remember AWALT

[No Ma’amParticipant 212]

Welcome! Be glad you dodged that marriage bullet.

"Nobody loves me, but my mother, And she could be jivin` too." - B. B. King

[HitmanParticipant]

Welcome!
Glad you found us brother.
Enjoy!

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