The Reasons Why The Holiday Season Is So Painful

[MACHOParticipant]

Because there’s no place like home for the Holidays and for tons of men that are really hurting it only drives the stake deeper in their isolated hearts!

For them it’s not Holiday time but torture and anxiety time witnessing all around what they lost and might never experience again!

Cures for the Holiday Blues for them growing numbers of poor souls that pretty much lost everything? Bitting the bullet until the Christmas and New Year’s songs finally stop being broadcasted !

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22534]

Some guys though are happier now on their own, away from the female that made their lives hell. Many do not ever want to go through those experiences again.

MGTOW don’t want to go back to the plantation, if they were ever on it in the first place.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[The Black ScorpionParticipant 2146]

Mainly rampant commercialism and associated guilt trips.

But the cold, snow and darkness sucks too.

The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22531]

It can be painful to see the differences between how the world should be and how the world is. This is especially the case during the holiday season in when it is suppose to be a happy time, but it is not a happy time due to how toxic much of society has become.

Many MGTOW will likely spent the holidays alone not because they want to, but because there is no one worth spending the holidays with.

This is one of the many reasons why many MGTOW do not fear death. Such MGTOW see death as an opportunity to find a place of sincerity and peace, instead of the s~~~hole many MGTOW find themselves in that is full of unhappy harpies, pussy begging manginas, and violent white knights. All of whom are looking to screw MGTOW men over while having a smile on their lips.

[Anonymous 7]

Honestly I don’t find it painful. I did at one time find it annoying as f~~~-all.
Now it is a paid day off thanks to baby Jesus. YeeeeHaaaa!

Now, I do understand that some brothers have children and it is a painful time, especially the ones with young children. If I was in the same boat I would probably be as miserable and as hurting as Sparky.

To the men here that have been robbed of being a part of special days with your young ones my condolences. Very few things send me into red pill rage anymore but what has been done to you and taken away from you still sends me there. I sincerely hope you can find some peace.

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

….,add to Faust post. For some it is court enforced separation from their children. The reason my brother will almost have nothing to do with the day.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[Anonymous 42]

I’m glad I never had the appendage I call children. It’s like asking a man that never had legs if he misses walking.

Likewise and to transverse, I can’t imagine loosing my kids to a selfish wicked c~~~. It happens all the time and the odds are against you…

Thank-you feminism, you taught me well.

Now go f~~~ yourself!

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

MACHO wrote:

Bitting the bullet until the Christmas and New Year’s songs finally stop being broadcasted !

Tis the season to slip songs like this into as many store muzak rotations as possible…

[Anonymous 3]

What?

If you find it painful, just get a girlfriend or get married.

Nothing is going to happen to you. You’re not rich and famous or powerful. You’re not going to get accused of rape and then be jailed. You’re not going to lose all your income and future income because you had a girlfriend during the holidays, or even if you got married.

Don’t be MGTOW because you’re afraid of these things which won’t happen.

Be MGTOW because it’s natural for you and it’s what you feel comfortable with.

If I genuinely felt pain with my lifestyle I would change it. For me MGTOW is just natural and feels so much better than the actual pain of struggling with the lies of the gynocentric system. THAT gave me pain and bewilderment and frustration.

This? This is peace. Satisfaction. Contentment.

MGTOW isn’t some club where we walk on hot coals and sleep on a bed of nails. If it hurts, then it’s wrong for you. Do whatever feels right and brings you peace and happiness. And if that’s MGTOW that’s cool, it means you’re with others here to share that with.

If it’s not MGTOW, then maybe you’d be happier with the traditional family. And if you’re not happy with that either, then maybe it’s something else. You won’t be MGTOW but you’ll have to keep searching for what is best for you. I don’t like this idea that anybody is “forced” into MGTOW and actually hates it. That is not the case, that is not what this is.

[Anonymous 12]

Lack of sunshine (dark when leaving home, 10 minutes break at lunch, dark when coming home)
Lack of enjoyable outside activities (bike, hike, strolling around, just hanging out in the woods with the dog)
Blatant hypocrisy and consumerism, observing how society changes, fake people…

=
winter blues

can be helped by:
education and distraction, relaxation
physical activities around the house
bettering oneself.

Caring for oneself which might include
*cooking real good,
*wearing comfy clothes,
*having meaningful discussions,

Clearing up unresolved matters and planning for the days ahead when the sunshine returns.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Anonymous wrote:

If you find it painful, just get a girlfriend or get married.

Yeah. There’s nothing like having a girlfriend or wife to make a man appreciate spending the holidays alone.

It’s easy to identify the married guys after the holidays. They’re the ones who are relieved to be back at work.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

The people who are really going to feel the pain are the thousands of men trapped in miserable marriages who are just trying to hold it together for one last Christmas for the children.

They don’t yet realise their wife is f~~~ing some new chad behind their back and they are going to be getting thrown out of the house they pay for and divorced in the new year.

Merry Christmas.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Anonymous 3]

Phoenix, as always, is right.

Forgetting labels and society, it all comes down to one point: either you do what you want, or you do what (you think) you are forced to.

To say “I feel better on my own” is not the same as to say “I feel miserable alone but it is dangerous to be with a woman”.

Let us be clear, nobody can have it all, especially contradictory things. So, we cannot have the perks of being single without attachments and the benefits (the few) of marriage and our own family.

Women are especially miserable because they want it all, they want the cake and eat it to.

Christmas can be painful because it is intrinsically family time. Many remember their childhood and have good memories of this time. Others have bad memories because they did not have the special family time other kids had.
Some guys had kids and can no longer have this time as one family. Others never had a wife and kids and feel they where left out in something.
And other guys are still married, will have the family together at Christmas, and are tired and bored with all of it, wishing for some peace and quiet instead of all this materialistic, fake, and bratty behavior holiday. Even the word “holiday” is a fake, because there is nothing “holly” on what it has become.

Nobody is happy, because the recipe for misery is to be divided.

And the reason for the division is not because of “what is”, but rather “what could be”.
“What is” is in front of you, that is what you live, and you usually dont think is nothing special and could improve a lot.
“What could be” is a figment of imagination, not the thing itself, but how you would feel about it. The reality would be that you would feel exactly as you feel about everything else on the “what is” list.

[~BSParticipant 3266]

????

If any man thinks the holiday season is painful being single clearly hasn’t been in a serious relationship before.

By far, if you’re single, the holiday season through mid February is the most relaxing it’ll ever be. Not saying that it wont be stressful or will be fun, but that it doesn’t get any better than this unfortunately… unless you’re still a child.

On the other hand, on top of all these pressures, women are desperate for attention and prizes during this time, hence “cuffing season”

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[Anonymous 38]

As a man without children it’s not painful for me. I appreciate the positives of it and ignore all the other bulls~~~.

However for the men who’ve had their children taken from them or a recent screw over by a c~~~, I can imagine how desolate this time must be and my heart goes out to such men.

Let’s make this one motherf~~~ing red pilled Christmas gents!

[WPLParticipant 2390]

What I do miss:
– The tree and lights (I cannot be bothered to set one up, just to have to tear it down in a couple of weeks; ex used to do that.) The diner near me has a nice tree. I’ll go there and get my “tree fix” while I eat some pancakes.

What I don’t miss:
– Being dragged back to the ex’s home state so that we can help her mother with chores and projects, while I have projects of my own that have waited all year for me to have enough uninterrupted time to get some of them done (some things, like tearing into an exterior wall in winter to fix termite damage, you probably don’t want to start unless you can finish…)
– Being denied any affection because she’s “too stressed out” or “too tired”.
– Being bitched at because we “never go anywhere” and visiting family “isn’t a vacation”.

[DocParticipant]

My kids will start the day with my ex.

She will drop them off mid morning then come and collect later that day.

If I look at it negatively I think no kids waking up executed Christmas morning. No kids going to bed contented thst night.

But instead I just think – I can lie in bed and do what I like. Come the evening I can again do what I please.

A friend – yet another with a divorce under his belt has invited me down for food and drink.

Hey ho.

I get to spend a bit of time with the kids and if f~~~ face wants them back f~~~ face can have them and I’ll have my peace.

Despite this – I still feel I am missing something.

Always remember this tho – at least you ain’t gonna be one of those men whose wife announces on news days she’s leaving you.
No matter what we have been through we won’t be in the statistical spike of divorce petitions filed in January.

Amen to that.
Been there- done that.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[MurineesParticipant 704]

If you derive your own happiness from inside, not from outside. You don’t give a s~~~ of any holiday.

[SwimcatParticipant 3589]

I’m going to Florida. I do have family there, and after the Christmas hoopla is over I’m beaching and golfing. If you have the money I would suggest it for anyone.

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