The Pervasiveness of Sexual Assault

[GeraldParticipant 3620]

Growing up we all new that sexual assault happened. Everyone knew what rape was and you just didn’t do it. It was a limited occurrence and not something spoken about in polite society. Rapists were caught and handled, either by their community or by the police… It wasn’t a pervasive crime. Yet when I became old enough to date, I heard more and more about it. Rape and molestation became more widespread or at least more widely known in the late 80’s. After dating my first fiance for nearly 6 years she admitted her uncle had molested her. My second long term relationship in the early 90’s admitted she was raped by a former boyfriend, but she handled it and moved on. My wife, admitted she was raped as a teenager as well (in her 40’s now)…

I’ll honestly admit every LTR I have been in, the woman has claimed to have been raped or molested as a young woman. (And no, not by me, f~~~ you for thinking it 🙂 ).

The news today is filled with these rape or molestation or ‘sexual assault’ charges. Men’s lives are immediately ruined upon these accusations… yet women (for example teachers) who lure men into a damaging situation often get off with a slap on the wrist…

So what changed? I realize the ‘I can get sympathy’ card is in play here, but if this ‘sexual assault’ is so pervasive, it has to have been going on for all time. Why suddenly is it acceptable for it to be so public, so mainstream, and so damaging to society?

I guess I’m just tired of hearing about it, as the bombardment of my ears and eyes of this s~~~ is overwhelming. If that many people are raping and pillaging every day, how is society being held together? I’ve never laid an unwanted hand on someone, and it makes me wonder, am I the exception? If there is this much actual ‘sexual assault’ going on in the world, how does anyone get anything done? And what the f~~~ did people expect happened in Hollywood? There are f~~~ing movies about this and always have been. I’ve never been surprised to hear that someone ‘f~~~ed their way to the top’ but now that is rape/assault. While I can’t condone assaulting someone, if they would have reported it immediately, would they be a star today? Or would the offender who did the raping be a star?

Maybe it has always been this way and media just now needs the ratings and is highlighting every little thing. Maybe society wasn’t so open before and we shut the f~~~ up about things that were private and handled them. Maybe I’m just a little disgusted if this is how the majority of society acts…

Or has the world just become so f~~~ing sensitive to everything that everything is sexual assault? I remember as a kid that men used to slap waitresses on the ass and say looking good honey… and they took it as a compliment. They didn’t sue the diner and claim they are ruined for life… sure it wasn’t very polite, and probably a little wrong, but f~~~ has society become so thin skinned?

Now, don’t take this the wrong way, I’m not advocating we all go slap some waitress on the ass tonight, but what happened? Is it time to say stop the world, I want to get off?

Now more than ever this feels like a great time to just totally ghost. Hard to do in present society, but that cabin in the woods looks better and better. Find a way to work remotely always, get a house away from downtown, wooded lot, fast internet connection, no tv…

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

I’ll honestly admit every LTR I have been in, the woman has claimed to have been raped or molested as a young woman. (And no, not by me, f~~~ you for thinking it ).

I’ve had the same thing related to me by many of the women I’ve dated. (past tense) I don’t believe it. And if it comes from a younger woman, you might ask what she considers molested. Some women think a rude comment or grinding too vigorously when dancing constitutes being molested.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

If you go by the numbers, not only sexual assault, more then half of the abuse claims are false.
The highest false accusation are domestic violence. Gee I wonder why? What is men most likely being accuse of in a divorce?

Research

I care about female sexual assault victims as much as women care about male sexual assault victims.

A male child can get rape by an adult woman, then forced to pay child support.

https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/09/02/statutory-rape-victim-child-support/14953965/

Even in Japan they have an insurance to protect against false sexual accusation.
http://www.newsweek.com/demand-insurance-against-false-groping-claims-surges-japan-619625

Maybe I would take female victims more seriously when women actually save their virginity for their husband and punishment for adultery is death. But in this age where women are so promiscuous that even 25% of age 13-19 girls have STD. The negative effect of rape nowadays it is just like any other assault felony. But the punishment of false rape accusation is still like the days where women need their virginity to get a husband. If a male was raped he is usually told that he got lucky and s~~~ like that.

http://www.bhg.com/health-family/parenting-skills/teen-challenges/stds-teens-a-reality-check/

In these days it is advisable to have a body-cam to protect yourself against the false accusation pandemic.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[Anonymous 0]

Every woman I have dated or was in a relationship with says she has been sexually assaulted. No, not by me; but who knows what she said after we split up.
Most recently, about 7 years ago, I was dating a woman who wanted me to do everything including fisting her. I did. About a week later she said that I plied her with wine and then took advantage of her. Needless to say, I haven’t even spoken to her since.
The thing is a woman considers sexual assault as being forced to do something she doesn’t want to do. That takes in going to an action movie when she wanted to see a chick flick. “Sleepless in Seattle” springs to mind.
Better to stay away.

[Anonymous 3]

Women will say whatever they think is popular at the time. 20 years ago they were all bisexual. 10 years ago they got molested by their father. And today’s women claim they’ve all been raped.

[MaddladParticipant 765]

What happened is that women changed the definition of sexual assault to include looking at someone and now all of them think they’re victims because it gets them attention.
Thats not meant to belittle those who have actually really been assaulted as i thoroughly believe thats wrong, it just seems there’s a lot or revisionist history going on these days.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Gerald wrote:

My wife, admitted she was raped as a teenager as well

Does she have a police report and a conviction?

No?

Then it didn’t happen.

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

My ex-wife claimed to be raped when she was 13. Going through the divorce for a while I was still on good terms with a friend of hers and asked her about the rape claim. They’d known each other since middle school. She confirmed that my ex was lying. Why would she lie about something like that? Who the f~~~ knows.

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