The people I have felt closest to, I have never met. And might not even be real.

[Anonymous 12]

Wasn’t sure where to put this one and decided on “Relations~~~s” as relationship can mean more than romance.

I have always been really introverted and quiet, prior to the internet I found having pen pals was a great way for me to communicate as being a written medium I could express myself without having to worry about over powering someone with my voice or competing with them talking more than me. So many of my first “close friends” were females that I never met, in the few cases I did meet them I wish I never bothered as they would act like we didn’t know anything about each other, it was just weird.

The net opened my world up for me even more, I started chatting on chat sites etc. At first it is fun but soon you realize that you could be talking to anyone, one woman I fell for who said she was 26 and presented herself with fake photos of a blonde bikini girl turned out to be married with kids, in her 40’s and fat. She would lead guys on, on this MySpace/Facebook type site that existed back then. She was eventually found out and humiliated.

I was also very close to a Canadian woman who I never saw on cam and only ever sent me 2 photos, we could chat for hours which was great when I was at work to kill time. After about 2 years she decided that the internet was killing her and gave it all away, or at least that is what she told me.

So basically I don’t fare any better online than I do in person lol

Anyway, I was just thinking about this situation, whether it is strange or passes as normal in today’s world. Even forums such as this one, I tell you guys stuff I wouldn’t bother telling anyone I know in person partially because they wouldn’t get it anyway and partially because I don’t know anyone well enough to want them to know this stuff. So there is sanctuary in the anonymity here.

Anyone else form relationships of any kind better or exclusively online as opposed to in “real life”?

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

At the end of the day, all one can do is be sincere in one’s actions, while having faith that one’s beliefs are correct.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

With a woman,even if you meet her face to face you never get the real her until she’s comfortable. Sometimes it takes as long as the divorce proceedings.

One of the reasons I am here is due to online relationships. My wife was so enamored with a guy, John, that she was talking about things that he said all the time. I was so tired of coming home to hear her talk for hours and no sex, it coincided with the sex drought from my intro, that I told her to go meet him and see how it worked out. The locks were going to be changed by the time she got home, but she never made it out the door.

She tried to nail down a meeting time several states away and after a lot of evasiveness, John was a lying, fat woman in Amarillo Texas who lived with an abusive and controlling husband. The internet and her affair with my wife was her escape, but she could never leave because she had never supported herself.

Long story short and maybe too late, nobody you deal with on the internet is exactly as they represent themselves. Our minds fill in the gaps and create a character, even here. Although here men are definitely more themselves than any woman you’ll ever meet anywhere.

With that little bit of leeway any woman you have ever met online would be severely handicapped by the illusion that you have built to fill in the missing bits. Never trust the illusion of online, Social Media is 97 percent lies and aspirations… and they live there.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Anonymous 12]

@ogre – All very true.

Your first 2 lines really struck me the most, so often when I have met a woman (in person) and built a friendship as soon as I feel she is comfortable and I am really getting to know her – she says she doesn’t want to see me anymore lol

[LightBringerParticipant 440]

Anonymous wrote:

Long story short and maybe too late, nobody you deal with on the internet is exactly as they represent themselves. Our minds fill in the gaps and create a character, even here. Although here men are definitely more themselves than any woman you’ll ever meet anywhere.

Even in real life we make the girls seem WAYYY more than they are often. NAWALT and all that

[ShinyParticipant 2307]

I’ve a thought – I remember in my younger days having a mate, he was reasonable looking, made money and was confident, so he always had a lady on the line. He fell in love in the blink of an eye, then after a couple of weeks it’d go bad and he be moaning to me, “she changed, she changed!”

“No she didn’t”, I’d say wisely, “you just love the mystery of the unknown. But the girls you go for are all pretty much the same, and when you get to know them, the mystery is gone and you’ve got the same ol’ same ol'”.

Maybe that’s the appeal of the internet girl – the mystery can last a lot longer when you never meet the real deal. I used to have a lot of internet relationships through various IM programs (ICQ, Yahoo, MSN Messenger etc). Now I am too busy, too red pill and too damn tired. Can’t remember the last time I IMed anyone about anything, don’t even have that s~~~ installed anymore.

[Anonymous 12]

@shiny, Yeah that is a good point. I have found since becoming more and more Red Pill that I can’t entertain the fantasy anymore of wanting to believe that the woman is something special, even in real life I have tried to lose myself in a woman, to fall for the romance even if just for a little while and I see the emptiness in her eyes, I can see that everything I am saying to her means absolutely nothing at all.

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