The Peace that MGTOW Brings

[NomadicExpatParticipant 1785]

Today, while at the grocery store, I stood at the magazine aisle for over twenty minutes, reading over the newest gun gadgets in Recoil Magazine and the most innovative homesteads in American Pioneer.

I had not a care in the world. I had finished my night shift at work, I had nowhere else to be, I was casually shopping for groceries and decided to peruse the newest magazines. (I don’t ever buy, just browse).

Then I casually did my shopping in the almost empty grocery store, save for a few single guys that looked like they were doing precisely what I was. I took my time and actually enjoyed browsing through the fresh produce and meats on sale. There were no crying kids, no rushing single moms, no welfare queens.

Once home I took a scalding hot bath and read a book in the tub for about forty minutes. Not a care in the world.

I watched another episode of The Walking Dead, while frequently pausing to get a bite from the kitchen. Now I lay in a queen sized bed, made with clean sheets that I will sleep like a baby in for at least 8-9 hours, completely uninterrupted.

The worst part of my day is work, and I don’t really mind my job at all. Life is pretty awesome. It’s calm. It’s peaceful. I can do whatever I want, whenever I want, as long as I just go to work.

When I was Married, I would have gladly paid at least $2,000 for a daylong experience like this. No rushing, no nagging, no walking on egg shells, no coming home to a DEFCON 5 emotional meltdown because vagina. I TRULY own my time. I am at no one’s beck and call. I am a Man. I have gone my own way.

This is just a normal, relaxing day as a MGTOW gone MONK. Life sometimes just seems too easy.

If you’ve unc~~~ed your life, stop stressing about what all the white knights, manginas and feminists are doing and saying in the social sphere. It matters not in the least to you.

Enjoy your day, Gentlemen. It’s a gift.

[Chase PesosParticipant 2136]

Beautiful

Chase a check, never chase a chick...

[Anonymous 54]

Livin the good life.
Its so damned easy.Theres not someone there fighting you the whole way.

[Anonymous 7]

A-Yup.
8 hours of work and then stress free.
The people that use to think I was crazy and/or queer are now jealous af.

The whole alone vs. lonely thing.

If you are lonely get a puppy. Puppies are better than people.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22508]

Yup. Reminds me of a comedy where they were discussing how they thought having two co-equal managers of an office was going to work out:

“Look it doesn’t take a genius to know that every organization thrives when it has two leaders. Go ahead, name a country that doesn’t have two presidents. A boat that sets sail without two captains. Where would Catholicism be, without the popes?”

THIS IS MARRIAGE.

Women have never understood there are a lot of benefits to being second in command. They are falling apart and coming mentally unglued at having to be #1 with the weight of that responsibility on themselves. They are not designed to handle that. Yet they try to run around demanding everyone believe they are equal or better than men at anything and everything. 25% of women are on prescription meds for mental problems and another 40% should be. Men are not the ones falling apart due to everyday (EVERYDAY) life stresses. Men may fall apart from the horrors of war. Not dealing with lunches and light housecleaning and picking people up and running errands and paying bills and working a normal job.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[ghostParticipant]

NomadicExpat wrote:

Enjoy your day, Gentlemen. It’s a gift.

It truly is. Thanks for sharing, bro. I really enjoyed reading your post.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

I have my business. I can make decisions and risks without having to consult or someone to hold me back.

I earn more now than when I was slaving away for an ex that was never satisfied anyway. The stresses are lesser now that I dont have to be walking on eggshells or trying to entertain ex…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[NomadicExpatParticipant 1785]

Thanks Gents!

I can get pretty flared up with red pill rage now and again, so I try to always remember the blessed, hard won peace that I can now live in.

I can still vividly remember getting yelled at and nagged incessantly for taking too long at the grocery store (because I was reading the gun magazines). God forbid I dawdle for a moments time when doing the “honey-do” list during my time off.

I think that’s what inspired this post, I had a sudden panic moment when I realized I had been reading magazines for at least twenty minutes straight. My subconscious was already preparing for the yelling, the nagging, the constant disapproval.

Then a wave of relaxation came over me. I am no longer beholden to anyone but ME. My phone is now only for Outgoing calls. As a blue piller, my phone was my leash, for Incoming calls demanding my whereabouts, my ETA home, and some new project I have to do to prevent further nagging.

I know exactly what it’s like to have every moment of every day already pre-planned for HER agenda. Whatever SHE wanted to do, every weekend. It didn’t start like that, but as others know, it always ends that way. Like a glacier slowly carving out the grand canyon, women will nag, nag, nag, nag, nag until they get what they want.

OOOOhhhh…….. The FREEDOM!!! No More! Never Again!!

Gentlemen, This is just a boring, mundane Thursday night with no fan fare. But I’m LOVING it, because I am fully at peace. There is nothing and no one that I have to attend to. I do not need to be mentally prepared to spring into action. I can finally relax and be free.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

NomadicExpat wrote:

The worst part of my day is work, and I don’t really mind my job at all. Life is pretty awesome. It’s calm. It’s peaceful. I can do whatever I want, whenever I want, as long as I just go to work.

I have experienced the same peace. Why we give up control of our lives is due to a horrid social programming. Break it. You will find peace. They will call it ‘loneliness’ or ‘dying alone’. Don’t be fooled. It is peace and contentment.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[ghostParticipant]

NomadicExpat wrote:

My subconscious was already preparing for the yelling, the nagging, the constant disapproval.

Painful.

NomadicExpat wrote:

Then a wave of relaxation came over me. I am no longer beholden to anyone but ME.

Peaceful.

[Anonymous 38]

Great post. I enjoy these reminders because it is human nature to doubt oneself. Particularly when one is of above average intelligence I think.

[WallyParticipant]

Fantastic day, glad you have found your peace brother.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[TwistParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Theres not someone there fighting you the whole way.

Exactly. I never understood how I wound up in a war. I didn’t want a war, that was not what I thought (?) I had signed up for. But it was nothing less than war.

There is no peace in war – just brief pauses. Peace only comes when the war is over, or better – when you have avoided the war up front.

Nomad – great post. That moment when you realize the only thing you need to do is take a deep breath is so freeing.

FrostByte wrote:

They will call it ‘loneliness’ or ‘dying alone’. Don’t be fooled. It is peace and contentment.

Genius. Seeing their word games for what they are – games.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

While I have not sought my divorce yet, and still have kids at home, I do have a portion of the house where I do get my PEACE and QUIET on a DAILY basis !!

I consider it a teaser, and preview of MY LIFE to come !!

I do remember being a Young Single Man, and Living Alone. I was self-sufficient, and could do EVERYTHING in the house as well as outside the house.

It’s just a matter of TIME before I return to living SOLO, and that’s the way it shall stay !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Delicate marriage sat on the wall.
Delicate marriage had a great fall.
All the trad-con women,
And all the mangina men,
couldn’t put marriage together again.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Remove me!Participant]

@nomadicexpat, great post. Yes, this is what really happens to use lurkers! We aren’t making this up!

I just laid hardwood floors in part of my house last week. As I was doing this, I remembered how stressful this woulda been when I was married. It woulda taken an act of Congress to pick the perfect wood, how to do it, etc.

I just picked it out myself, layed it down, and now I’m getting lots of compliments. I’m the captain of my own ship and I’m shooting across the ocean in any direction I feel.

I’ve noticed since becoming MGTOW, I’ve been getting more respect from others. This is because I’m the man I always was meant to be. The marriage kept me from this for years, it now I’m tearing it up!

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

[AllenParticipant 146]

Couldn’t have said that better if I’d tried. That is exactly how I feel!

Woman - I picture a man, then take away reason and accountability. - Melvin Udall

[NomadicExpatParticipant 1785]

Just enjoyed a fresh cup of coffee, watched the squirrels try and get into my birdfeeder unsuccessfully, and thoroughly enjoying my Friday morning.

As Old Sage and Twist said, I’m no longer in a constant fight, a constant struggle, a constant war. I do not have another person continually trying to get one over on me, trying to usurp my place as the Man of the house, or tear me down for their own selfish purposes.

I am an unburdened, free Man. It feels every bit as good as I had imagined it would when I was locked in the prison cell known as “Marriage”.

Life is Good. I’m learning to enjoy “Good”. Not Great, Amazing, Super Awesome, Exciting Badass WOOOOO!!!! Because those pinnacle emotions always come crashing down. That’s what women always chase.

I’m learning to be satiated on the things I need, not the things I incessantly want. Cutting out the unnecessary, life’s small pleasantries become amazingly enjoyable. A cup of coffee, a well written article. If you live life well enough, they can be as enjoyable as a sports car.

Best of all, life is simple. I’ll do a little life comparison of MGTOW life VS Married life. This isn’t some bulls~~~ conjecture, this is exactly how I experienced real life between the two.

As a MGTOW:

A) I’m hungry
Then
B) I get something to eat.

As a Married Man:

A) I’m hungry
Then
B) Check to see what the wife wants to eat.

C) She checks to see what her friends want to eat

D) She sets up a dinner date with another couple for this weekend

E) She still doesn’t know what she wants to eat now but the restaurant will be expensive

F) She wants something expensive from across town

G) I drive across town to get dinner

H) She calls to tell me to pick something up on the way home

I) I go to the store to get what she requested before the restaurant so the food doesn’t get cold.

J) She calls when I’m checking out, then starts arguing that I haven’t picked up the food yet.

K) I have to explain that I’d rather pick it up before the food, rather than later so it doesn’t get cold.

L) She still bitches and tries to get me to say sorry. I don’t. Tension is further created out of nothing.

M) I pickup the food.

N) Dinner is awkward, and nothing but snarky comments from wife because it took so long (bitch made me run errands, I was just hungry for a sandwich I could make at home!)

O) I’ve finally eaten, but it sets in the stomach the wrong way because of the infighting and stupid drama created. Then I must watch a mediocre TV show that neither of us likes, but that isn’t terrible to either one of us. Life is mediocre, at best, and thats after all the extra hard work.

No exaggerations, no theories. That is a real life comparison as experienced by me.

MGTOW is Freedom!!!!!

[SolidParticipant 7520]

NomadicExpat wrote:

As a MGTOW:

A) I’m hungry
Then
B) I get something to eat.

This points, this exact point, this is the biggest reason to any rational man become a MGTOW. Men are objective, we have more problems to solve than time, women, they don’t have real problems so they have to create imaginary ones, and make everyones like a f~~~ing living hell for no reason.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

The free life is the true life. MGTOW is the only way to go.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

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