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Since my marriage fell apart I’ve noticed a large number of Asian women who are offering to be my nanny. They all seem to want me to bring them to Canada and they will clean my house and look after my kids and have sex with me. On the surface it seems like a great deal for a guy who doesn’t want to get married again. You can just rent a wife. You write up a contract for nanny and house cleaning and it’s not a relationship it’s a job. With you as the boss, you can fire with out having to go through a divorce. I would love if any guy can share his experiences with this type of arrangement or thoughts on it. I personally think it’s a trap, my first thought was how long till you start asking me to make you my wife.I’ve considered a few options and would like to share them and hear everyones feedback on them.
1 – it could be a response to the fact men don’t want to have anything to do with marriage. Some women might just have got it and are trying to get into a similar traditional style family arrangement. This time they are offering a legal protection. I highly doubt it, if anything I think it’s a bait and switch at best. The bait being a sample of what she has to offer you as a wife. This is a very interesting concept and I doubt it is the answer but it might have it’s benefits.
2 – If you are careful you can simply fire her. You would have to check with a lawyer about what the laws are in your area. I highly doubt it would be safe to include sex or any type of sexual activity on any employment contract. The feminist would have a general strike if any such contract was ever made public. But you could get an employment contract for nanny and house keeping services and hold her to that contract to the letter. In a sense you could have a contract stating she has to add some value to your life or she can be fired. It could be a new legal method to look at for the protection of the mans legal rights in a relationship. There might even be some protection in that if she is fired her visa would expire if she didn’t have employment.
3 – It’s a trap, but is the benefit worth the risk. You know deep down she is just trying to get inside and kill you with a thousand paper cuts. Is it really worth the risk. Is the value of the services she brings worth the cost of having her in your life. Odds are no the risk isn’t worth it, if it was feminists would have a march and over grown media campaign against it.
I’d love to hear what everyone else thinks, possible advantages, pit falls, legal issues, traps. Does it pass the cost/benefit analyses for you?
MikeMC…Not only is it a Trap….It is a fricken Gigantic, Super Duper Muthafuken TRAP!
I don’t know the laws in Canada (Being an American and all) but…If you were in America…You would be her Employer. She gets hurts…you pay workers comp…She gets mad…She sues you for sexual harassment. She gets super duper mad…she claims rape….You Get Arrested, your photograph gets listed on “Mugshot.com”, You become a registered Sex Offender, AND she sues you for sexual harassment….takes your house and lives in it with her relatives who she just moved in from overseas (Oh….you didn’t know they were coming??).
She Sue You Long Time. (forgive me for that…)
Most employers know that they should not have SEX with their employees for liability and reputational risk reasons.
Plus, having her living in her house…she will likely want to upgrade from worker to wife. And if you don’t, she will embarrass and humiliate you one way or another…sue you for harassment, claim rape, move her family from Overseas in, poison your ass, poison your kids, etc.
Dude…Don’t let Pussy live in your house. It is so Un-MGTOW…and unwise…and…__________ (Fill in the Blanks; Choose the Best Answer Below):
A. Muthaf~~~en Stupid
B. Crazy as Muthaf~~~en Hell
C. Fricken F~~~in’ Ridiculous
D. All of the Muthaf~~~in’ Above.
TRAP.
Looking closer at traditional relationships you may be surprised to know that when certain economic conditions arise where women are financially capable of sustaining themselves, they abandon their marriages in droves – worldwide.
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In Canada, give her a key to your place, and within 12 months she’s LEGALLY your “wife” for all intents and purposes. On paper, no different than a marriage. I also heard (some time ago) that Ontario is trying to have this discretely boosted to 6 months without making any grand overtures about it. (I am not certain what became of this so check with an attorney). Six to twelves months is still short enough for a woman to be able to keep up her act, without revealing the horror behind the mask. The innocent man lets his GF move in and POOF! after 6 (12) months, an extraction is messy and costly. You can’t just tell her to leave and get the f~~~ out, even if her name is not on your lease.
For course, if you want a chick to leave, you can always “feign beta”. It’s a good strategy. Become a sniveling worshipping supplicant to disgust her. Shower her in compliments and adoration. Too many “i love you’s. Women hate that s~~~. Behave like you “can’t live without her” and even come home on a random Tuesday telling her you lost your job, have no savings, are considering filing bankruptcy etc. while acting all depressed and lost – and you can’t get it up. She will be planning her departure within days. After that, pretend you’re going job hunting, but continue to go to work as usual and come home a little later than usual because you are depressed and “don’t want her to see you this way”. It’s like forcing her to cheat and pushing her into the arms of another man. There isn’t a western bitch born the last 50 years who will stick with you.
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Don’t make her your “employee” and there is no issue about “firing”. She is a CONTRACTOR. Self employed and paid as such – on a per-job basis. To get rid of her, you simply don’t call her back for service. If she lives with you, you are playing with fire.
3. Is the value of the services she brings worth the cost of having her in your life?
Any man can decide that for himself. But as an employee or business owner, if I provide a service, I expect to be compensated to a degree that is COMMENSURATE with the value of that service. Is the sex that a woman dishes out commensurate compensation for all the pressures and stresses of your 70 hour work week? A strictly sex-for-sex exchange is FAIR. However women (whores) think sex is good enough to pay YOU with, but not enough for them to receive as payment. That’s where you must correct them. Emphatically.
I often wonder,…. was the dishwasher and microwave created to make women’s lives easier?
Or were they created to make men’s lives easier and not have to deal with a wife.If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.See the thing that struck me is in the last year I’ve had 3 different women all suggest this type of arrangement when I said I’m not getting married again. I brushed off the idea’s as just strange and even though I wasn’t actually thinking about trying it. I clearly didn’t do anywhere near enough critical thinking to make any form of choice. Considering as we become less and less available as sources, women will try to find new ways to trap us using everything they can. Hopefully we can warn our fellow brothers about the traps.The more I think about it the more I think you’re right it’s a sexual harassment scam waiting for a victim. There is just too much legal risk. Even in places where prostitution was legal I doubt you could get a safe enough contract to cover you. Once a woman gets her toothbrush in your house it’s too late. If you do want a nanny keep it totally professional. There is no such thing as free pussy. It will always come at a cost.
I shall be a bit un-scholary here:
DO NOT F~~~ING DO IT. I WILL FLY OVER TO CANADA AND DRAG YOU TO MY COUNTRY IF YOU WILL.
Trust me and the others here when we say: That is a sexual harrasment/rape scam waiting to happen. This arragement would work only in utopia really, where there is no Common Law marriage and non-psychotic women and a legal system that would allow such arrangements to happen. Sadly, Canada is the opposite of that.
The right man at the wrong place can make all the difference in the world.
I’ve had 3 different women all suggest this type of arrangement when I said I’m not getting married again.
Mike, that’s chick bait 101. “I’m never getting married” his like CRACK to a woman. Her inner dialogue screams “Oh yeah? Just you wait mister, I’ll change your mind.”… and she thinks she can reform you like a reclamation project or extreme makeover.
I avoid using the word “marriage” altogether. Because if you say you’re against “marriage” it comes off “butthurt” or “bitter”. So I replace the word “marriage” with a marriage contract. As in, “I will never sign a marriage contract“. By mentioning the “contract” you de-romanticize it and shatter her disney princess illusions.
Can work in your favor though. If you get involved with her and she starts pushing, you can tell her “I was direct with you upfront. NO contract.”
It’s the perfect out.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.In the words of Admiral Akbar
Living in Singapore I got to see a lot of Filipina housemaids and some of the Singaporeans treated them like s~~~. Trust me, I’ve seen this s~~~ go down first handed!. Singapore has the worst record for having Housemaids as well as Filipina’s, often times they were used as sex workers and when the Philippine government caught wind of it? (because of a maid protection law) they’d have the maid owners asses hanging!. Trust me as a former Singaporean resident, this s~~~ is a f~~~ing trap.
"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb
You lived in Singapore? That’s f~~~ing COOL!
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Yeah that’s where my Ex Wife was from, it was an awesome place for the most part, right up until my ex’s true colors started coming out!.
"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb
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