The Myth of Men "Trading In" Women

[Be Her DaddyParticipant 410]

Women constantly bitch and moan that men “trade them in” for younger and prettier women when they become successful in life. Lets take a look at the upper echelons of successful, rich, good looking men who have not traded in their girlfriends and high school sweethearts.

I dated a feminazi for 6 years when I was young and dumb, stayed with her from 16 til just after my 23rd birthday. When she graduated with her degree in English/Creative Writing and her minor in Woman Studies, it took her a year or more to get a job. I was always supportive of her, especially during that time. I thought she was the woman I would marry… HAHAHA!! Once she got her “well deserved” $15/hour career at a magazine, I bought a home a few miles down the street from her work and 30 miles from my job. I didn’t do it for her, it was a strategic location so I could market my business in Los Angeles and San Diego and maximize my client potential, I didn’t even tell her I was going to buy a place. One day I brought her over to the home I had just bought, with a new puppy I had rescued from the shelter to give the dog we got together some company. She looks at me and says “this isn’t what I wanted. I don’t want to be tied down to this area. And I didn’t want a dog that big, either.” and “I’m applying to jobs in Los Angeles and NYC and YOU will have to figure out how to keep our relationship together if I get one”. I couldn’t understand WTF her problem was, but the relationship quickly deteriorated and I told her to f~~~ off for good within about 5 months.

Looking back, she had every intention of moving out here to the wealthy suburbs of Laguna Beach and meeting some rich guy to “trade me in” for. Me moving to close to her made her feel threatened that I would derail that agenda. She probably never thought I could afford it because I never told her my business was pulling in 5 figures a month and kept the same Honda Civic I bought at 18. To this day she doesn’t know that I was l;iterally making 10 times what she was making. Funny part about it is how she felt her $15/Hour “career” should take precedence over my successful business. I was 22 at that time and she was 25. She never once introduced me to her new friends, had me do damage control for her when she crashed 2 cars driving drunk home from those “friends” homes, and became a really nasty bitch out of nowhere.

Now that I am 28, it is so crystal clear and completely obvious that her goal and endgame in her little feminist mind was to trade me in.

Brandon Crawford just signed a $75 Million dollar contract with the Giants. Don’t see him trading in that fatty. Dude has eyes that would make every bitch wet in a second too.

Madison Bumgarner is a man’s man, 3 time World Series Champion, 6’5, has no problem confronting BS antics from opponents on the field, and look at that woman he is with. He signed a $35 Million contract with SF.

Buster Posey and his high school sweetheart he married years ago. He has a $167 Million contract with the Giants. She’s probably the prettiest of the 4 examples and she is half-assed at best.

Mike Trout is arguably the best player in baseball today and he is still dating his high school sweetheart even after moving to Orange County where he could f~~~ all 10 of the hottest bitches out here at the same time and they would make him a sandwich afterwards. He signed a $145 Million dollar contract with the Angels.

I get so tired of hearing all the fat post-wall women acting like men are s~~~ because nobody will touch them and go for younger women.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Women are the ones notorious for monkey branching, file the majority of divorces, and more women have a second+ marriage than men…yet its men who are ditching women to trade up in a feminazis mind lol. Fact is…after the divorce with all the alimony, child support, and loss of house that they get hammered with, most guys are too broke to worry about dating for years after the divorce, and being financially crippled limits the attractiveness and dating ability of most guys even if they want to get back out on the dating scene.

The number of guys that truly ditch the old hag for no reason other than to trade up is probably about .01% of guys that don’t give a s~~~ if they have to throw millions at a divorce because they’re still richer than they’ll ever need to be to attract and endless supply of young hot gold diggers.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Beer wrote:

Women are the ones notorious for monkey branching, file the majority of divorces, and more women have a second+ marriage than men…yet its men who are ditching women to trade up in a feminazis mind lol. Fact is…after the divorce with all the alimony, child support, and loss of house that they get hammered with, most guys are too broke to worry about dating for years after the divorce, and being financially crippled limits the attractiveness and dating ability of most guys even if they want to get back out on the dating scene.

The number of guys that truly ditch the old hag for no reason other than to trade up is probably about .01% of guys that don’t give a s~~~ if they have to throw millions at a divorce because they’re still richer than they’ll ever need to be to attract and endless supply of young hot gold diggers.

Totally agree, divorces always follow the same path. Woman wants back on the c~~~ carousel but covers it up by saying the man took her for granted or they just fell out of love. She knows she is going to get the house, child support and alimony so why the hell not. After all, she has been bought up to believe she deserves to be happy, and if she isn’t then it is the husbands fault.

Very few men are going to choose to be divorced raped and loose everything just so that can f~~~ a new pussy. As has been said, the only men who can afford to do this are so rich they don’t care anyway.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Honorable_Juice_BoxParticipant 591]

I have never known personally or even through another person of a man who has actually “traded in.” The only ones I have heard of are celebrities and even they are the minority.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Now that I think about it…I’ve known women that initiated the divorce against the will of a husband who was all to eager to work things out, and they gladly hopped back on the carousel for a few more years before hitting the wall, at which point they ended up bitter, invisible, and alone.

I wonder if in cases like this, when the ex wife hits the wall, if the ex husband’s status is anything but single, do women consider this trading up still because he didn’t spend the rest of his days celibate and heart broken over her? (well…to us MGTOW we know even if the guy is single he still traded up)

[Anonymous 5]

You get it,,,our society views women’s hypergamy as totally acceptable, logical and understandable.
In fact, the more trivial the reason, the more other women will giggle, regardless of how unfair and/or devastating it is on the male. No sympathy for the male because of the usual excuse/logic “He chose her and married her” It’s always the man’s fault for choosing.
On the other hand, no matter how valid the reason, all levels of society will condemn and shame the male for “abandoning” the female.

Just watch how the media and the courts react if any of the above mentioned males decide to move on to a more appropriate partner/lifestyle.
If a famous beautiful woman does the same,,,we “Understand”

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Beer wrote:

Now that I think about it…I’ve known women that initiated the divorce against the will of a husband who was all to eager to work things out, and they gladly hopped back on the carousel for a few more years before hitting the wall, at which point they ended up bitter, invisible, and alone.

I wonder if in cases like this, when the ex wife hits the wall, if the ex husband’s status is anything but single, do women consider this trading up still because he didn’t spend the rest of his days celibate and heart broken over her? (well…to us MGTOW we know even if the guy is single he still traded up)

Well, I will give you my personal experience when it came to my ex wife. She stayed at home for six years raising our two children while I worked and paid for everything. I also did most of the housework as the house was always a mess, looked after all the finances, cars etc.

Anyway, I get the “I am not happy” talk and she joined a gym, lost weight and started going out with friends all the time. I didn’t have Facebook, but it turns out she was messaging a guy she went to school with. Fast forward a few months and I find out she wasn’t where she said she was one night, although to this day she denies she had an affair.

I move out and she couldn’t have cared less if I lived or died. She starts seeing this Facebook guy and a few weeks later I think they split up as she was in tears one day. What follows is 5 months of c~~~ carousel pump and dump action until she settles for a blue pill guy who is older than me with two kids of his own.

About a year after we split I start seeing a woman who is 8 years younger than me and way hotter than my ex wife. When my ex wife finally met her she was as nice as pie to her but then sent me a message saying how much it hurt her to see me with someone else. Erm, you were the one that decided I was worthless and that there was a more exciting life out there for you. She is p~~~ed off because she saw me as worthless, yet someone who has a much higher sexual market value than her wanted me. This made her doubt her decision, especially as the Alpha guys she thought wanted her just used her for pump and dump. Also don’t forget women always want the exact opposite of what they currently have.

Since then I now get messages all the time about how much she misses me and can we go out for dinner and a chat etc. I bet she is lying in bed next to her current Beta sending me these messages. So she has a choice now, does she stick with what she has got or try one last time for an Alpha before hitting the wall for good. I know if she dumps this guy she is going to spend her 40’s on dating sites getting pumped and dumped before becoming invisible and being bitter and single.

I don’t believe for a second that she actually wants me back, I think she wanted to keep me orbiting as a plan C or D if things didn’t work out and she needed a backup plan. Before we split she told me a story about a couple at the school who got back together after two years apart as they realised how much they still loved each other. Looking at this story from a Red pill point of view, I can see she was hoping she could slut it up for a few years and that if it didn’t work out for her I would take her back. It was almost like she thought she could take a couple of year break from being married to get f~~~ed and then I would carry on supporting her as usual.

I did online dating for a while and it is full of early 40’s wall hitting women who are bitter and twisted about the fact they are heading towards a life of being single with cats. They seemed to think they could divorce their husbands, ride the c~~~ carousel for a few years and then magically find another man once they were done (and a top 20% one at that). Some of these women were even on sex sites and regularly went to sex parties, yet wonder where all the good men have gone when they are done being single.

I went on a date with a 39 year old woman and eventually became friends with her (a rookie mistake before I became red pill) who pointed out that I was too like her ex husband and that she was looking for someone younger and naughty. I recently saw her profile on Facebook and fast forward 3 years and she has had her hair cut short and has totally hit the wall. It is actually scary how quickly it can happen for some women. She f~~~ed some younger guys and the one she thought was the one turned out to have a girlfriend and she is still single. I bet she is still looking for that top 20% Alpha badboy and is p~~~ed off she cannot find him. I would bet money on her being single forever now with occasional pump and dump before she hits her late 40s and nobody wants to f~~~ her anymore.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Anonymous wrote:

You get it,,,our society views women’s hypergamy as totally acceptable, logical and understandable.
In fact, the more trivial the reason, the more other women will giggle, regardless of how unfair and/or devastating it is on the male. No sympathy for the male because of the usual excuse/logic “He chose her and married her” It’s always the man’s fault for choosing.
On the other hand, no matter how valid the reason, all levels of society will condemn and shame the male for “abandoning” the female.

Just watch how the media and the courts react if any of the above mentioned males decide to move on to a more appropriate partner/lifestyle.
If a famous beautiful woman does the same,,,we “Understand”

Absolutely, if a man leaves a woman then he is an absolute bastard and the woman is well within her rights to vandalise his car, cut up all his clothes and society condemns him.

If a married woman wants to leave because she fancies slutting it up on the c~~~ carousel then it is to cries of “You go girl!” and cheers of encouragement and laughter. Doesn’t matter that children’s lives have been destroyed and the man who was the perfect husband loses everything. Doesn’t matter than the man is reduced to living in a bedsit, seeing his kids once a fortnight and gets so low he has dark thoughts (hell I have been there myself). All of this does not matter as the woman has the right to be happy and if this involves her f~~~ing Alpha bad boys it is clearly the husbands fault for working too hard or not paying her enough attention.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I was the one who got traded in, back in my blue pill dating days. There are exceptions that make the rule, but usually it was she who dumped me.

It worked out for the best in the long run. The ones who left voluntarily didn’t come back to haunt me a few years later. It gave me enough time to discover I preferred solitude to their company.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[xenonParticipant 2007]

Nope. Chad trades in women. They then learn nothing. Repeat until spoiled. Then they perpetrate it on guys who like them. In spades.

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

Trade in!Trade in?
Where did anyone get a trade in for ex? They kept saying we were so immature.They bragged about how mature they were.I was just giving them opportunity to move into a more mature surroundings as milk and wine mature at different rates. When we were 16 they bragged about going out with guys that have own car and own place.They can move into assisted living living with those guys

[narwhalParticipant]

I can think of a few men who left their wife for a younger model. I can only really think of one where it was more about escaping the marriage then trading in though. That one guy got ostracized pretty badly for his behavior. I don’t know any many who was actually looking to trade up…either a homewrecker came in to pull him away, or a female friend turned into more when the wife was driving him insane.

As far as trading in for a younger model, of course men do it more then women do….because young men don’t want to commit to older women. But stats clearly show who’s doing the most trading in.

And as far as why a marriage goes south, I’ve learn to be skeptical about anything I may hear regarding the marital problems, unless a spouse is admitting to their own mistakes.

Ok. Then do it.

[GrumpyParticipant]

I traded mine in.
I ended up with a lot more free time, silence, my vehicles, weapons, a house, a reasonable social life, the ability to keep what I earn, peace and quiet, freedom to do as I please.

I think I got a good deal, why would I trade one ex-wife for a future ex-wife?

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

I don’t even lease, no trade in needed. Rentals are returned when you are done with them.

Pump and Dump: It’s like renting.

Frank V.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

Beer wrote:

Women are the ones notorious for monkey branching, file the majority of divorces, and more women have a second+ marriage than men…yet its men who are ditching women to trade up in a feminazis mind lol. Fact is…after the divorce with all the alimony, child support, and loss of house that they get hammered with, most guys are too broke to worry about dating for years after the divorce, and being financially crippled limits the attractiveness and dating ability of most guys even if they want to get back out on the dating scene.

The number of guys that truly ditch the old hag for no reason other than to trade up is probably about .01% of guys that don’t give a s~~~ if they have to throw millions at a divorce because they’re still richer than they’ll ever need to be to attract and endless supply of young hot gold diggers.

Totally agree, divorces always follow the same path. Woman wants back on the c~~~ carousel but covers it up by saying the man took her for granted or they just fell out of love. She knows she is going to get the house, child support and alimony so why the hell not. After all, she has been bought up to believe she deserves to be happy, and if she isn’t then it is the husbands fault.

Very few men are going to choose to be divorced raped and loose everything just so that can f~~~ a new pussy. As has been said, the only men who can afford to do this are so rich they don’t care anyway.

Anonymous wrote:

You get it,,,our society views women’s hypergamy as totally acceptable, logical and understandable.
In fact, the more trivial the reason, the more other women will giggle, regardless of how unfair and/or devastating it is on the male. No sympathy for the male because of the usual excuse/logic “He chose her and married her” It’s always the man’s fault for choosing.
On the other hand, no matter how valid the reason, all levels of society will condemn and shame the male for “abandoning” the female.

Just watch how the media and the courts react if any of the above mentioned males decide to move on to a more appropriate partner/lifestyle.
If a famous beautiful woman does the same,,,we “Understand”

100% true like the guys have said, women don’t want equality they want everything, face facts if it was not for sex no man would even speak to them.

The prettier the girl the most boring self centred she will be all the pathetic men blowing smoke up her ass all her live as she was “born pretty ” why does that give her any more rights ?

Once you see them for what they are , you wont have much to do with them.

[Be Her DaddyParticipant 410]

Buller100 wrote:

100% true like the guys have said, women don’t want equality they want everything, face facts if it was not for sex no man would even speak to them.

The prettier the girl the most boring self centred she will be all the pathetic men blowing smoke up her ass all her live as she was “born pretty ” why does that give her any more rights ?

Once you see them for what they are , you wont have much to do with them.

This right there is why even “online” dating isn’t even fun anymore. Dumb entitled bitches think they’re worth more than they really are.

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