The most Blue Pill thing any man you know did for a woman?

[Anonymous 9]

Are you shagging her?

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

No way.  Sorry to say that she’d get MORE attached if I did, and I’m certainly not risking that.  I know it’s a horrible thing to put myself through, but at the same time, the $250 extra a month is at least helping a little (though I’d still prefer to jack it up to $350, seeing how that’s STILL not half of what I pay).

[VoidraitheParticipant 477]

Antares wrote:

I’ve done that – paid for her school, for about the same amount.

Antares wrote:

I mean it’s just money. What pains me most is seeing a man grovel, prostrate himself before a woman and/or throwing away his self respect.

I’m sorry to hear that. I paid $1050.00 to fix a “girlfriends” vehicle for work. She ditched me shortly after, left me a note thanking me for fixing her vehicle. Bitch.

Yeah it is “just money” but if your struggling money becomes more than a “just” issue. The money I used was my savings from a couple of years of my hard work, effort, skill and time. To me that is a MAJOR disrespect. It’s amazing how much money I have now that there is no female taking it from me.

[Anonymous 9]

Governor Megachris% wrote:

No way. Sorry to say that she’d get MORE attached if I did, and I’m certainly not risking that. I know it’s a horrible thing to put myself through, but at the same time, the $250 extra a month is at least helping a little (though I’d still prefer to jack it up to $350, seeing how that’s STILL not half of what I pay).

Of course.

It’s good that you haven’t.

[hankmoodyforuParticipant 16]

MegaChris% Don’t do it! Which I know you said your not gone have sex with her. If you do then she she gone try to use sex against you. Well since we having sex I shouldn’t have to give you $250. You doing good hang in there bro.

your tears of regret cannot turn back the hands of time!

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

Now, I WILL admit that she’s tried making moves on me before and has shown obvious interest, but that’s only because I found an old mutual friend of ours much more interesting.

Think of it this way:

Roommate: About a 5 or a 6 at the most, 21 years old, doesn’t like working out because she has “arthritis in her knee,” doesn’t like working full-time, has a 2nd grade education and won’t pursue anything further because her dream is to literally be a stay-at-home mom.  She’s also the type that thinks that MGTOW are woman-haters and just the man version of feminists, though she claims she’s definitely not a feminist, either.  (That’s total bulldrek, because she seems to not mind the idea of a man going back to the plantation for her!)

Friend of roommate: About an 8 or 9, 22 years old, is very careful about her weight and won’t let herself go over 130 lbs, she motivates me to go out and work out even when I’m wildly tired, she wants to work full-time in electrical repair work and wants to learn from me about how to work on computers, majors in electrical work in college, pays for herself and I to go out to lunch if I drive and doesn’t mind if I prefer to cook for us if she’s around, thinks that things should be 50/50 somehow (she ALWAYS returns the favor if one is done for her, and literally hardly asks for anything in return when she does something), and agrees that the legal systems are not good for men at all in marriage.  She also has a nice butt that my roommate hates when I talk about it (I do it because seeing my roommate’s angry reactions and telling me to “tone it down on the compliments” is HILARIOUS).

If I ever considered a relationship again, that friend would likely be the best candidate.  Then again, she IS a woman, so I know I must be careful regardless.  Nothing’s official yet, but it’s funny how almost no women I know are in favor of me picking the friend over the roommate (or they’ll be like “what about [roommate]?  Is SHE okay with you being around [friend]?”

[AntaresParticipant 208]

Voidraithe wrote:

Yeah it is “just money” but if your struggling money becomes more than a “just” issue. The money I used was my savings from a couple of years of my hard work, effort, skill and time. To me that is a MAJOR disrespect.

That’s true, but maybe I should clarify what I meant. Finances are situational, so $100 is a lot to a guy who’s broke and nothing to Bill Gates so not right to say it’s “just money”. That’s especially true when actual survival is questionable. But even then money is a peripheral thing. In MGTOW philosophy there is a simple question to ask after getting over women: who am I? Not how women define you, not how society defines you, how do YOU define yourself?

You’re not just a bank account, not just a paycheck attached to a job, not just a handyman to fix s~~~ and shovel snow, and not just someone with a house (or whatever). That familiar list women use to define men as in regards to utility, and wealth extraction. Those are all things that are not you.

But a man has many things that define him. Freedom, sovereignty, self-respect (not assigned by others) and so forth. These are things that can’t be taken from him (I’m simplifying that but bear with me), so when he willing gives up those things I think that’s worse. Then again I’m not sure a true-blue pill man actually has those things, they maybe just think they do – so I suppose that’s debatable too.

Price is what you pay, value is what you get. -- Ben Graham

[Anonymous 11]

Governor Megachris% wrote:

she’s tried making moves on me before and has shown obvious interest, but that’s only because I found an old mutual friend of ours much more interesting.

Nothing brings women out of the woodwork more than having another woman in the vicinity. They are so hyper-competitive and catty with each other it boggles the mind. Their idea of friendship is ganging up against a target. Male or female it matters not.

Another one of my biggest Blue Pill delusions was a chronic failure to use this phenomena to do a little branch swinging myself.

I’d still be leery of your hot potential NAWALT as she may be acting in that manner to compete with the lesser one.

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

That’s exactly why I’m being leery.  She apparently is now being told she’s a backstabber for showing interest herself, and it’s causing tension between the two of them.  To me, it’s just a rather funny show.  It’s like watching one of those animal documentaries, seeing this happening from a distance, enough to keep away from it myself. 😉

[Anonymous 11]

Cat fight over Megachris!  Enjoy….

Just keep in mind that it could possibly be solely between themselves and not you.  I’m handling an intra-female rivalry on a job I’m doing right now.  I’m using every trick in the book to the girls on course and focused on the getting the job done. They’re both good at what they do , but women think differently than we do.  One thinks the rest of the business is out to get her, but I know what the executives think of them both which is positive.

They can make drama out of anything.

[Anonymous 42]

“The most Blue Pill thing any man you know did for a woman?”

#1, I know a guy that drove 250 miles to retrieve his runaway wife, all the guys I know emphatically told him not to go, we agreed it’s best for her find her own way back! Months later he found her with another man in HIS BED, HIS HOUSE, F~~~ING THE S~~~ OUT OF HIS WIFE!

MGTOW their cheating asses into oblivion,

I think I just heard some more “POP”, “SPLAT”, “SLAM” HIT THE BLOODY WALL!!!!

[TheBardParticipant 974]

I have so many examples I don’t even know where to choose from lol. I would say it would have to be a friend of mine who gave up his life here to move to another state with his girlfriend who was still in high school at the time and we were in our early 20’s. He knew her from visiting his mom in that other state and one time he was up there visiting they started dating and tried the long distance thing. She kissed another guy one night and he never admitted it, but that changed everything. He decided to drop out of the expensive state college he worked hard to get into, asked his mom if he could live with her, got cell phones for him and her, and then one day says “yeah so after the summer I’m moving, this was my plan all along ever since high school I just never told anymore”. He went from living at home, not having to work, having to pay barely any bills, going to a good school, and his friends to taking online courses from a generic online college, working a retail job at odd hours, having to pay bills like rent, cell phone, and car, and after dropping her off at high school just sitting in the parking lot waiting for her to get out. This next part takes the cake and I even confronted him on this a year later. His dad got hospitalized and almost died. This was around Christmas time too so it made it even worse. He drove down to see his dad, but his girlfriend didn’t come. He has a little brother who had to call 911 so he was pretty shaken up so my friend was playing video games with him and keeping him busy. Well his girlfriend calls and when she finds out he was playing games she accuses him of faking his dads problems just to play video games. She calls again when he is outside talking to me about what is going on and she yells at him and accuses him and just trying to have fun without her. His family told him to stay for the Christmas break so they could all be together and see his dad on Christmas. He wanted to, but his girlfriend wasn’t going to have it because they made plans to go ice skating. So after yelling at him and saying all this terrible stuff he decides to drive back up there so he can be back by Christmas Eve. His family told him that it wouldn’t be safe since the mountains were having really bad storms and she needs to deal. Guess what he did? He drove another way, a much longer way costing much more gas and naturally he defended the whole thing. His dad could have died in the hospital and thought it was more important to go ice skating with his girlfriend since they had already planned it. To make it even worse that same day his dad was hospitalized his older brother and wife already had pre paid ticket to fly to another country for Christmas. They canceled it.

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