The men are busy…

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

I’ve been interning at a local place since finishing exams and I had something funny happen I’ve got to share with you.

The business owner and I were talking and then he got call from one of the clients who said they were nearby and wanted to discuss some business. When he came in, he had a woman with him. I would say she is at least 40 and was wearing a lot of makeup (I guess to try to hide the post wall wrinkles).

I shook the man’s hand after the business owner introduced me and then the client moved so his companion could shake mine. Instantly, I knew something was off. I’m not even sure if she even looked at me and the handshake was absolutely void of any effort. As soon as we started discussing business, she went to the nearest chair and started to do something on her phone.

A couple of minutes into the conversation, I notice a spinning motion beside me and glance over. What did I find? The woman was lazily spinning in the chair taking selfies. When I turned to look, she had her back to me, so I could see the image of her face right on the phone making that poutty dick sucking face or whatever the hell it is supposed to be. For the remainder of the five minute conversation she did that the whole time. When they left, the client was polite but the woman continued to act like we didn’t exist.

I thought it was funny. She’s not a client, so those are probably the only five minutes I’ll ever have to deal with her, but too bad for the client. Those blue pills sure do cloud a man’s judgement.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

selfies and social media create narcissism.

Tiga K wrote:

Those blue pills sure do cloud a man’s judgement.

blue pills = blindfolds

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

It used to be just TV actors and film actors competing for the public’s attention. Now everyone is competing to get views and likes. What a s~~~ty sub-culture.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[The Laughing ManParticipant 1020]

She was likely 14 years old with a few hundred tanning salon visits.

I thought what I'd do was I'd pretend I was one of those deaf-mutes...or should I?

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Tiga K wrote:

The woman was lazily spinning in the chair taking selfies.

Tiga K wrote:

I would say she is at least 40

Grown woman acting like a toddler. Remember guys – she can vote for the leader of the free world.

[Anonymous 18]

She had poor parenting and now found a man with low self-esteem to redeem her lack of purpose in life.

She is missing the most satisfying aspect of being alive – purpose. And she’d have found one if she was a He. She couldn’t survive otherwise.

[alchemistParticipant 484]

Wow I’m actually afraid to post this incase of backlash.

Make no mistake, I’m not defending her and wouldn’t touch her with a 10 foot barge pole… but wasn’t she going her own way? Sure she was infantile and self-absorbed in a narcissistic way but didn’t she ignore men in the same way that many MGTOW ignore women? Would you have shut off in such a situation were the genders reversed?
I really feel the need to add caveats all over this post- these are just some thoughts, ideas to think about, different perspectives to ponder. I’m not saying you should, I’m not saying I’m right… I’m just wondering what would you, a MGTOW, do if the roles were reversed?

[The Laughing ManParticipant 1020]

As a mgtow with role reversal you would see a adult engaging with clients prioritizing the task at hand over female validation.

Acting irresponsible and childish does not equal, in anyway what so ever, her going her own way.

I thought what I'd do was I'd pretend I was one of those deaf-mutes...or should I?

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

alchemist wrote:

Wow I’m actually afraid to post this incase of backlash.

Its alright. This is mgtow.com, we are too cool for that.

I understand what you’re saying, but she was just being rude. Its one thing to avoid someone, its another to be rude. She came to our place, sat in our chair, while the client she was with was discussing business with us. If she wasn’t interested, I understand, but she had no reason to be in the room just to be distracting. She could’ve waited outside or in another room. Also, even if one isn’t interested, a handshake is just basic courtesy. I don’t get women involved in my life, but I will still be kind and what not if we have to work together for a school project. If a woman in a class wants to ask me a question about our homework, I’ll explain it briefly and then get back to what I was doing. If her request is unreasonable, I will tell her. I don’t pedestalize women, and I don’t get involved with them more than is necessary, but just like anybody I will give show them common courtesy (respect).

[alchemistParticipant 484]

I see now, she was anti-social with the icing on the cake (or vomit on the mud-pie) of being immature as well, in a professional situation.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

alchemist wrote:

I see now, she was anti-social with the icing on the cake (or vomit on the mud-pie) of being immature as well, in a professional situation.

Yes. If she wanted to ignore us, that’s her choice and I respect that. But she could’ve done that in the other room. She walked into a professional setting and it was rude to be a distraction to the people doing business inside it. Thank you for posting another perspective so that I could better explain what I believe to be the problem.

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