The male phyche and porn or dick tricks in a nutshell

[ShineParticipant 1696]

Sexuality seems to be one of the modern 1st world problems we have created for huMANity. I have been doing a bit of reflecting lately on my own sexual history, never married, girlfriends and flings few and far between, hookers and old faithful Mrs Palmer and her 5 daughters.

I noticed a strong corellation as I aged between depression / anxiety and porn, and also a feeling of being trapped by the habbit. So I decided to dig a little deeper on the topic and found an interseting perspective, not bad for a speed read and goes to show how deeply rooted sex has become within the current perimiters of the matrix.

https://www.scribd.com/document/6945879/The-Male-Psyche-and-Porn

Porn is a reflection of the Deep, which exists beyond the world of behaviorists, and beyond the view of humans reacting like inanimate matter to specific stimulus. Every individual has a history, and therefore many layers of the personality, each containing scars which have not healed, but around which protective mental tissue has formed. But in this metaphor, behind the protective tissue the wounds are enflamed, they keep the whole organism poisoned permanently, and
each of this type of humans must resort to ingenious tricks and magical medicines to keep from completed collapse.

I know for me, I was in withstanding depressive waves for about 5 years, nothing too bad, just a mild something didn’t feel right with me, kept slipping back into the shadow. I lost a bit of drive to work on being happy, and became cold and kind of always a bit down so I couldn’t be brought down. Strange to explain looking back, but I know my body was not as fit and my mind was not as sharp. Hard work fixed all that, feed the soul and all that jaz.

So during my p~~~ed off years, I was a bit of a grump, just decided to stop trying so hard, and in the process lost some self respect. Part of me was frustrated, and I was tossing the little fella and clocking up hours of porn purely as a habbit. Maybe it was antidepressent meds I was administering myself, I got no f~~~ing idea, I just know I lived through it and it was like an addictive drug.

In that time I was actually fairly disgusted in most of the porn or not an instant turnon, and ultimatley my ‘type’ reverted back to softporn and solo.

So why post this here in philosophy?

I found it interesting skim reading the article, and I also think alot of our problems arise from chasing highs and tumbling into lows.

The article focuses on porn, and mentions that women are often seen as sex objects (one of the reason I prefer softcore where they are more feminine like a grilfriend, less full on freak pornstar holes getting drilled gangbang style).

There is no mention of sex robots or love dolls, and I personally believe that this will be a revolution for male sexuality, sleeping with a doll most nights and one that would pass for human in a photograph has changed the way I purge the plonker. Porn is now switched off, leaving all those women to objectify themselves in front of the camera, it’s a no from me, and a healthy no. I’ve tamed dickzilla to oneitus with a silicone seductress, and even squeezed some companionship out of my silent, alt intimate partner.

So in closing, ahhhm, in a nutshell so speaking, I think that porn has definantly a different taint to what is normal and what is fantasy with regards to how I see sex and the big picture. Porn defianantly has a shady feeling to it, a bit like prostitution. A doll on the other hand, is nothing more than an idea bought to life by some very clever craftsmen. The victim status is removed, and concious is cleared.

One more chess piece removed from the ‘my feels’ women not alowed to be sexy narrative. Just like the grid girls being banned, I wouldn’t really miss porn all that much, atleast not without love dolls or sex bots.

Another intersting read is – http://www.thegreattao.com/html/taoofsexology.html, which is what helped me give up fapping. More that I was questioning the why? Like was it really all that necessary.

Sex, a function that is generally unavoidable, must be made into a source of happiness, not pain. Happiness is healing, joy, and longevity; correct sex yields infinite happiness. Pain is incurable disease, depression, and death; incorrect sex yields infinite pain. Correct sex spreads happiness among individuals, their progeny, and society. Incorrect sex—sex used as a weapon against others, as a license for promiscuity, or as an immoral profit generator—causes social decay. Taoist Sexology—sex taught and practiced in accordance with the principles of Taoism—paves a pathway of righteousness.

Another reason I find the doll so good, it’s a more healing sex, a missing piece of my puzzle.

"Society is to blame" Denton

[StealthParticipant 5330]

Mrs. Palmer AND her five daughters?

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Anonymous 2]

Stealth, he means his hand! 🤚

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

You are over thinking it.
Sex is a primal instinct driven by our monkey brain
that is scanning for opportunities to photocopy
itself.
Porn is a Fast, Cheap, Safe, disease free way to sate the
Monkey brain.
It is good to recognise it for what it is.
Shame over wanking gives it porn power
it does not deserve.
No Fap is wonderful for handing woman the keys.

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22508]

Aposematic wrote:

You are over thinking it.Sex is a primal instinct driven by our monkey brainthat is scanning for opportunities to photocopyitself.Porn is a Fast, Cheap, Safe, disease free way to sate theMonkey brain.It is good to recognise it for what it is.Shame over wanking gives it porn powerit does not deserve.No Fap is wonderful for handing woman the keys.

One thing never comsidered is the fact men have an average of 10-20 times, or more, testosterone hormones than women do. All the time. Comparing men and women’s self control, or urges for sex, is comparing a supercar to a yugo. Men have and exert far more self control over themselves than women do, given the massive disparity of sex hormones between the two. Further there are also medical health benefits for regular ejaculation for men, for the prostate.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 12]

Shine wrote:

I noticed a strong corellation as I aged between depression / anxiety and porn, and also a feeling of being trapped by the habbit. So I decided to dig a little deeper on the topic and found an interseting perspective, not bad for a speed read and goes to show how deeply rooted sex has become within the current perimiters of the matrix.

I noticed as depression and porn for me was linked because I saw the women as being pure little petals who were victimized in some way even if it was just by them believing that the porn gave them some kind of empowerment. It made and to be honest even in Red pill mode it still makes me sad to see them buying the lie. This of course is helped by the fact that many of the new porn “performers” are dog ugly feminists. But overall it sad to see culture decline to such depths.

What helped free me from porn a lot was Red Pill. I could no longer fool myself into thinking that these sluts were just misguided ladies who I would be able to somehow form connections with. I tended to idealize them as virtual girlfriends at one point in my life, especially in my teens. As sad as that sounds. In short I never just wanted sex or orgasms from women, I wanted to connect with them. I wanted everything women think men don’t want. Happy to be free of that thinking now though.

On a more male orientated track, I find it depressing because society shames male sexuality and also isolates men. At the same time it encourages men to seek sexual/sensual/companionship by paying to watch porn or see strippers etc. If you have seen the Demolition Man it is very much like that. Sex in that world is all about NOT touching each other it is all virtual reality. Not all that bad in a way but at the same time the aim is to dehumanize people.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

You want to know why PORN is DEPRESSING? Weather the bitch is getting paid, or f~~~ing for the camera, she is not doing for you.

Let that sink in.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[Gravel PitParticipant]

I saw a Christian things where they are trying to acknowledge porn as ‘not that big of a deal’ and also to help those who are victimized by the addiction to it (over the top use of porn).

Basically, the church is so sexually repressive that it will coddle drug addicts and alcoholics as victims who deserve help but when it comes to PORN, oh you’re just a sick pervert undeserving of God’s love or your fellow’s.

Made me stop and think about it… theyre right.

[ShineParticipant 1696]

I guess I have been overthinking it all a little bit. Partly as i have been on a mission to heal myself after a near death incident going back many years now, followed by feeling displaced and having noone.

During the many hours and years spent in a yoga gym getting mobility back in ma old bones, there’s a saying about getting rid of disease, dis-eases simply meaning not at ease, discomforts in the body. Not the most scientific definition, but I like the simpler ways of thinking about life and steer a wide berth from western medicine as much as I can.

Mentally I was shot, more by being surrounded by people who made you feel alone, aka Robin Williams syndrome. I did the sums and every bloke who treated me like crap was hardcore bluepill, divorced, married, in a relations~~~, or hailing the praises of the puss.

Going mgtow seemed to be like a smoke screen, no longer cared about the colledge kid type stunts and oneup manship, and quietly tuned out and got back to basics and focusing on hobbies.

Life was good, I was getting fit and mentally I had walked away from the nonsense. Most importantly I was being myself, not pin balling around the table madly trying to work out which direction I was heading.

So back to the FAP and dickzilla the lizard brain. Before internet, the wank bank was limited to magazines, so dickzilla was not rampaging. The internet slowly sped up the pace of modern life, upto what we have now, insta-everything. Hyper-this-that and whateva.

After openeing pandora’s box of poon, an endless tappestry of actors banging their bits together, I didn’t know how to stop or close that box back up.

Obviously the screenplay was a compensation or fantasy of wanting a banging babe to take a leading role in my life, but reality never seemed to deliver. I knew it was a catch 22 though, and for all the negatives of not being in a relations~~~, there were just as many positives, so grass is greener, I never really cared that much and just let day to day play out as I always have done.

On a whim I thought I’d try a sex doll a year or 2 back, almost a sign of abandoning the blue pillers and GMOW. Had fun, still into porn. Nothing changed that much, although some shifts in thinking were beginning, I could tune out a bit easier when everyone was engaging in blue pill talk.

The thing I wanted to share, and I know this is probably being repeated but it’s worth repeating. We often talk about being able to switch off the lizard, get a fleshlight and just get on with living. Fleshlights for me still involved hours of porn, and even then I wasn’t that satisfied, love doll was more imersive but I was still a bitch to pandora’s box.

Fastforward to mid year and I upgraded to one of the latest silicone dolls, and a glimpse of the future and robotics. Although not lifelike, lifelike enough to be loved. Took me a while to acept the fact I didn’t need porn to get a hard on, but it feels so great having a super model to screw a couple of times a week and not waste 10+ hours disrupting sleep paterns and staying up late in front of a screen.

Guess I’m saying all types of addiction are real, porn can escalate to brain f~~~ery level and also affect sleep. I also used to drink alot more with the porn. Now I don’t even think about sex or porn, I just sleep next to a super model and play my meditation music. Some nights I purge the pogo stick. Life couldn’t be any simpler and I’m sleeping an extra 2 hours a night.

Also feel like I am loving something real (a love doll), instead of feeling like a pin ball jettisoned at a million miles an hour in an unknown direction. Yeah that was a metaphor, but for whatever reason I have escaped another “blue pill hell” of the porno trap. Not sure if I could have “pulled it off” so to speak in my thrities with a higher sex drive, but it’s a huge weight off my mind and great to finally close pandora’s box. The temptation will always be there though, especially with new emerging technologies. But for now my view of porn is “so long and thanks for all the fish”.

"Society is to blame" Denton

[Anonymous 12]

iMickey503 wrote:

You want to know why PORN is DEPRESSING? Weather the bitch is getting paid, or f~~~ing for the camera, she is not doing for you.
Let that sink in.

What’s the difference between a slut and a bitch? A slut f~~~s everyone. A bitch f~~~s everyone but you! Sorry it just reminded me of that joke. But you are very right, she is not doing it for you at all.

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