The last year

[WallyParticipant]

My parents never divorced, hence they had what society calls a successful marriage, I love both my parents, and fortunate for me they stayed together. I lived with my father the last year of his life and while he feed me red pills all my life he increased them the last year of his life.

I will never forget what he said regarding my question about dying alone, “what a waste of a life to marry, only with the idea of getting to the end in the hopes of not dying alone, live your life son.”

He discouraged me from romancing a close friend in college, who I thought was a NAWALT, I hated him at the time but he was right. I am content in life thanks to him and am living the dream I had as a child.

For any MGTOW new on your journey, find what your are most passionate about in this life and let nothing stand in your way

If women are distracting you, go Monk
If you drink too much, stop drinking
If drugs are keeping you from your dream, stop , get help

But always for what you want, focus, and not just for the sake of if you do for the sake of others you will fail, do for you.

If you are in a toxic relationship get out
If you eat too much, eat less
If you are out of shape, move and walk
If you are lonely, get a dog, as I write this my dog sits craddled on my lap, I feel love, he is proof to me every day that it exist.
If your job is toxic do what you must to find another
If you don’t understand, explore, discover

What is your passion? What are your dreams? Go live it, you only get one chance!

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Wally wrote:

I will never forget what he said regarding my question about dying alone, “what a waste of a life to marry, only with the idea of getting to the end in the hopes of not dying alone, live your life son.”

Spot on…It is this fear that kept me from living…Instead of being alive, I was living in fear of being alone…It just clicked today for me…Why the effin am I not living my life fully to what I want instead of being shackled for years and years because of this fear…I dont know how to express what I am feeling now, but it just clicked…Now I am asking myself, why am I miserable when I can do something about it…That is right..I can do something about it…
I was so afraid of deviating from the “correct” path for fear of making a mistake…Now I am getting it…I can pull myself out of this rut and depression…I can do it…Nothing is stopping me from really living my life but MY OWN FEAR…
Thank you Wally brother for sharing the wisdom of your father…My father said a similar thing and I just dismissed it as bravado…Now I am getting it….

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Good post Wally.
All excellent points.

I never had the fear of dying alone, and still don’t, but I was afraid of being alone.
When in the Navy me and a bunch of my friends/shipmates, went out to a Mexica joint in Long Beach (Acapulco lounge), lots of beers, margaritas, Tequila shots, tacos and nachos later we were outside and we took some photos of our little happy group. Just young guys having the time of their lives in sunny SoCal.
Now later when we got the photos developed (yes kids, you actually had to send the film off and wait for them to come back in those days!) and they came out great. But we noticed something in them. In an apartment window overlooking the parking lot, and older man’s face was in the window, watching us… looking lonely as f~~~ and wishing he was one of us it looked like.

I remember thinking I never wanted to be that guy.
And you know what, a woman won’t keep you from being that guy, only you can keep it from happening.
And that is why I think your advice is spot on.
Just because you are red pill monk doesn’t mean you have to sit at your window watching others live their lives. IT means you have even more FREEDOM to live your life!

[WallyParticipant]

NerdTunneler wrote:

Wally wrote:

I will never forget what he said regarding my question about dying alone, “what a waste of a life to marry, only with the idea of getting to the end in the hopes of not dying alone, live your life son.”

Spot on…It is this fear that kept me from living…Instead of being alive, I was living in fear of being alone…It just clicked today for me…Why the effin am I not living my life fully to what I want instead of being shackled for years and years because of this fear…I dont know how to express what I am feeling now, but it just clicked…Now I am asking myself, why am I miserable when I can do something about it…That is right..I can do something about it…
I was so afraid of deviating from the “correct” path for fear of making a mistake…Now I am getting it…I can pull myself out of this rut and depression…I can do it…Nothing is stopping me from really living my life but MY OWN FEAR…
Thank you Wally brother for sharing the wisdom of your father…My father said a similar thing and I just dismissed it as bravado…Now I am getting it….

Be at peace brother, I do like your new avatar by the way, someone mentioned it earlier. A quote from one of my Dads favorite movies “Fear is just a feeling. You feel hot. You feel hungry. You feel angry. You feel afraid. Fear can never kill you”

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Wally wrote:

Be at peace brother, I do like your new avatar by the way, someone mentioned it earlier. A quote from one of my Dads favorite movies “Fear is just a feeling. You feel hot. You feel hungry. You feel angry. You feel afraid. Fear can never kill you”

Thanks Wally..Macho gave me the idea to change avatar…Perhaps I am in a better mood that I can have a bright avatar…My previous avatar reflected my current state of being a mole that just wanted to hide in a hole…Feeling good now and much more confident after regularly ingesting red pills…The pills are bitter but I am recovering quite nicely and your post hit me spot on…Another boost for my recovery..Thanks brother…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Pedal, run, row wrote:

I remember thinking I never wanted to be that guy.
And you know what, a woman won’t keep you from being that guy, only you can keep it from happening.
And that is why I think your advice is spot on.
Just because you are red pill monk doesn’t mean you have to sit at your window watching others live their lives. IT means you have even more FREEDOM to live your life!

So true..Just because we have become MGTOW doesnt mean life has to stop…That we have to stop living…We stopped living for other people…We must live for ourselves…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[WallyParticipant]

NerdTunneler wrote:

Wally wrote:

Be at peace brother, I do like your new avatar by the way, someone mentioned it earlier. A quote from one of my Dads favorite movies “Fear is just a feeling. You feel hot. You feel hungry. You feel angry. You feel afraid. Fear can never kill you”

Thanks Wally..Macho gave me the idea to change avatar…Perhaps I am in a better mood that I can have a bright avatar…My previous avatar reflected my current state of being a mole that just wanted to hide in a hole…Feeling good now and much more confident after regularly ingesting red pills…The pills are bitter but I am recovering quite nicely and your post hit me spot on…Another boost for my recovery..Thanks brother…

Anytime my brother, that’s what’s awesome about this place and this journey, we help each other out, no matter what.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Anonymous 13]

Brilliant!

“what a waste of a life to marry, only with the idea of getting to the end in the hopes of not dying alone, live your life son.”

Seriously, that phrase says so much.

You should create a meme with it on a good tasteful image and it should be on the front pages.

[WallyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Brilliant!

“what a waste of a life to marry, only with the idea of getting to the end in the hopes of not dying alone, live your life son.”

Seriously, that phrase says so much.

You should create a meme with it on a good tasteful image and it should be on the front pages.

I like your idea, it sure would ruffle a few feathers. But even better it might get some young man to think before saying “I do.”

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

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