The impossibility of women

[kizellParticipant 368]

I’ve been dating a girl for a while,  like a year.

When we first met she told me one of the things that she found so attractive about me was that I was quiet.

One year later, this is now my biggest problem and the reason she is constantly nagging me and reminding me that “we have problems” after a long hard working day.

When I get home today, I’m going to tell her to kick rocks, and don’t bother calling me when you hit the wall either

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I don’t know if you should be that harsh to her.  Maybe you should be nice and tell her “Its not you, its me.”

[kizellParticipant 368]

Beer wrote:

I don’t know if you should be that harsh to her. Maybe you should be nice and tell her “Its not you, its me.”

In my experience,  that response is actually way more hurtful

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Always blame yourself to break up
Tell her she deserves better

I know that I need her
But dont know how to treat her
But you deserve better baby, better baby, better baby
You deserve better baby, better baby, better baby
Though I wanna keep her
Be jealous if she leave uh
But you deserve better baby, better baby, better baby
You deserve better baby, better baby, better baby
And I cant hold you back baby
I really think I love her but
I dont think I know I could
I know I wanna f~~~ her but
Really thinking if I should
How can I believe her
I dont even believe myself
Tell me how to trust her
I cant even trust myself
And I cant live alone
At the end of the day cant f~~~ myself
I told her Im confused
And she told me to go f~~~ myself
Now Im alone in this world
Nothing left but me
But I was born all alone
So I guess thats how its meant to be
But she was sent to me
And I didnt recognize
And I blame it on ma pride
On a fact gon send aside it
Eyes redder than a rose
Heart bluer than a violet
My heart broke and Im heartless
And aint no need to hide it (Gucci)
[Chorus]
A heart breaking is heart broke
Imma tell the truth cause we grown folks
Why you lookin through ma phone fo
Thats why we ended up none more
You done know me like Chan Doe
Done left me up in my condo
Looking for you like Waldo
My nose open like Gonzo
I think I love her I dont know
I like her alot but she loco
She crazy, swagged up,
I try to hug her she want more
In and out ah town all the time
She in and out ma mind all the time
I cant lie baby girl stupid fine
But Im out the tush got that stupid grind
She loves me now or she loves me not
Treat me cold no she treat me hot
Caramel but not apricot
Got one chance wont miss the shot
I know she special yeah right
I know someone might take ma spot
Cant lie it may hurt alot
But uh she need a man or not (Its Gucci)

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[BeerParticipant 11832]

kizell wrote:

Beer wrote:

I don’t know if you should be that harsh to her. Maybe you should be nice and tell her “Its not you, its me.”

In my experience, that response is actually way more hurtful

Yeah 🙂

[RoyDalParticipant]

Things went best for me when breaking up was “her idea.” She was far less likely to come back and haunt me later.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[experiencedParticipant]

I’ve been dating a girl for a while, like a year.

When we first met she told me one of the things that she found so attractive about me was that I was quiet.

Your quietness was attractive so now she will change you and find you unattractive, and then dump you and you’ll end up with all the stress from being dumped.

One year later, this is now my biggest problem and the reason she is constantly nagging me and reminding me that “we have problems” after a long hard working day.

This is not your problem, it is her problem,and since you were quiet and she’s trying to change you, you are not even her problem. She is her own problem. She can rewire herself to be attracted to nonquiet guys and then go out and find one for herself.

Constantly nagging me…is this the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with?  It’s like she’s picked out a bald eagle and is p~~~ed because she can’t get it to balance a dog biscuit on it’s nose. Or like she picked out a golden retriever and is towing it behind her car 60mph because she wants it to fly.

When I get home today, I’m going to tell her to kick rocks, and don’t bother calling me when you hit the wall either.

IMO good decision. As Tom Leykis says, if you have to work and work and work on a relationship, is it possible that the two of you are not a good match.

Also, IMO how many elderly men can anyone find, who wish they had been more talkative more chatty etc.? Bitches be quick to shred men’s strengths, do not allow this.  Quiet = wisdom. Why were we given two ears and only one mouth. How many people lose careers/promotion/… by saying without thinking first.      think think think you can always vocalize later, but talk talk talk and all you will do later is quietly regret.

 

“””””””A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion. A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction. A fool’s lips walk into a fight, and his mouth invites a beating. If a wise man has an argument with a fool, the fool only rages and laughs, and there is no quiet. Whoever trusts in his own mind is a fool, but he who walks in wisdom will be delivered. A whip for the horse, a bridle for the donkey, and a rod for the back of fools. Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest you be like him yourself. Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own eyes. Whoever sends a message by the hand of a fool cuts off his own feet and drinks violence. Like a lame man’s legs, which hang useless, is a proverb in the mouth of fools. “””””””

 

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I kind of disagree with Leykis and a notion that relationship doesn’t require work to keep it going. It does require work, but work from BOTH sides, not just you. Otherwise it will only last as long as you both are in love. Once the feeling of being in love seizes – it will fall apart if there is no effort put into it from both sides.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[kizellParticipant 368]

To rusky and experienced,  I agree with both posts.

For the life of me I never knew we were having problems until she said it.  I don’t ask of anything from her really.  I don’t expect her to cook or clean.   I guess we are having sex less but normally that would not be a problem.

It’s just annoying because she thinks I’m hiding something inside by not talking more,  but in reality I just want some peace and quiet.

She is a school teacher so she has the summer off.  Ironically all this s~~~ dis not start until she was not working.   It seems to me like she is constantly bored and is trying to blame her insecurities on me.

[experiencedParticipant]

Sounds like you got a handle on it, ie continue with your original plan, or plan on this BS every summer.

Women that create problems, so it can be so great when they are mutually solved, and then you can even have sex…………….Well those women create problems, period. She can, after you dump her, find someone else to reel in and then make problems for them…hopefully early enough on that they can dump her too.

It’s like you buy a car for $20,000 and the a year later it says, “No, I’m a $40,000 car”  “you owe me…”    Stick with your decision, while you are still the one in power.

 

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[WolfParticipant 890]

Russky wrote:

I kind of disagree with Leykis and a notion that relationship doesn’t require work to keep it going. It does require work, but work from BOTH sides, not just you. Otherwise it will only last as long as you both are in love. Once the feeling of being in love seizes – it will fall apart if there is no effort put into it from both sides.

Yes, relationships require work, and it takes two to tango, but it shouldn’t be constant work. If the relationship seems to have a black cloud following it around, then it’s best to move on.

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

typical

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

kizell wrote:

….. For the life of me I never knew we were having problems until she said it ……

What’s wrong with you, don’t you realize she expects you to read her mind?  You should have been in-tune with her every expectation – expressed or unexpressed. LOL.

 

I had to put with the same s~~~ with my ex wife. Unfortunately, it did not happen before marriage. Suggestion, cut you losses and show her the door. She is looking to make problems, hence drama, where non exists. Just shows you even an educated woman is prone to illogical non-sense; none of them are stable NAWALT.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

kizell wrote:

For the life of me I never knew we were having problems until she said it.

First off “we” (meaning both of you) are not having problems. SHE is the one having problems. If you weren’t aware of any problems before she mentioned them, well then they can’t be your problems, can they?

She is responsible for solving her own problems. Especially since she seems to be the one actively creating them.

I don’t ask of anything from her really. I don’t expect her to cook or clean. I guess we are having sex less but normally that would not be a problem.

So what, exactly, IS she bringing to the table? From where I’m standing I can only see her bringing HER made up problems.

She is a school teacher so she has the summer off. Ironically all this s~~~ dis not start until she was not working. It seems to me like she is constantly bored and is trying to blame her insecurities on me.

I’ve seen that before. What the f~~~ is it with women teachers? Let me guess: elementary school, right? And I hate to break it to you, but it’s only going to get worse. Wait long enough and see her to get old enough to catch a dose of the Baby Rabies. One of these summers off she’s going to decide she wants to retire permanently. On your wallet. You should be dumping her yesterday.

[vurrichParticipant 25]

It’s just her women’s ways. she c~~~ help it

fuk her and forget her

 

Wear your rubbers

 

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

She’s the problem and she’s the solution. Getting rid of her is the solution, I wouldn’t put up with that s~~~.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[kizellParticipant 368]

The mission is complete.

Thanks for the support guys.

Never allow thyself to be taken prisoner without a fight.

My kung fu was strong.  I barely raised my voice

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Female teachers are a low level red flag.  The level of craziness seems to increase as the grade gets lower, some Elementary teachers are a little cracked.

Sovereignty above all else.

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

You can’t win playing a game of tic tac toe. Time to realize it’s pointless and move on.

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