The great lie

[JFick83Participant 21]

Greetings, I’m James, and I guess this is my introduction/story.

Basically, I came home early from work one day and my then-wife had somebody at the house who wasn’t supposed to be there. I just sat in the car in shock as she handed me some cash and told me the individual would be gone soon. So I went, in a daze, to the bar (I had previously quit drinking for 151 days). When I came back I yelled at her, and she took both kids and left. The next day I entered AA (which changed my life in every good way), only to find out that the wife had gone to a “domestic violence shelter”. DSS waited 11 days to even contact me, all while OASIS (the “shelter”) had my kids in an undisclosed location. I thought about scouring the whole town to find them, but had the wits to know that it was a trap to make me look like a psycho, which is why DSS waited so long. Without any evidence or charges, DSS told me that in a few months I could get “supervised visitation” with my kids. I asked them what my crime was and they refused to answer. Almost two months after she left, the sheriff came to my place of employment and I was issued a restraining order for causing the wife “emotional distress”. Immediately, and without charge, my 2nd and 14th amendment rights were revoked, as explained by the sheriff. I didn’t own any guns so they had me turn in my late father’s guns from my mother’s house. Meanwhile, OASIS had given the wife food stamps, a three story townhouse, a job, and a free ride through college (all of these things are advertised on their website). The judge would often simply not acknowledge anything I presented in court. The DSS psychiatric report he requested said that I was the better parent for the children, and he didn’t bother to read it. OASIS, meanwhile, had put my oldest daughter through unspeakable psychological brainwash and abuse. It took six months of professional therapy to undo the damage. I was hit with child support based off my GROSS income.

I could go on with this, it got worse, but in the end I won shared custody and the abuse allegations were proven false. However, the ex still got to keep all the free government Judas-perks even though she was proven to be lying. I tried dating afterwards, but to be honest, there is no longer any mystery to women and I see straight through them. So now I go my own way and my life has become SO MUCH BETTER. I thought I was a rare case until I stumbled across this page, so I joined.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2727]

Welcome, brother.

You have arrived at the right place.  Most of us have seen and experienced the stuff you described, myself included.   Pull up a chair, take a red pill and join us.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

Bro’s Up, Hoe’s down!!

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[JFick83Participant 21]

I like it here already! Pleased to meet you guys

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome aboard!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 42]

JFick83 ,

Sounds like you got tangled up in the law, “the new kind”, I call it “new tangle law”, it has nothing to do with the word “Justice”, it’s contrary to the now p~~~ed on, stepped on, and mutilated United States Constitution, including, but not limited to the destruction of the bill of rights.

Oh, did I say something uncomfortable? Again? To bad.

[…Spectator 1165]

Welcome aboard!

[KahnParticipant 41]

Wow, These stories never cease to shock, funny thing is my (half) brother went through something very similar!

But he didn’t take his chance at freedom, he got married again. You took it, be proud.

[harpo-my-“SON”Participant 2410]

Welcome to mgtow James. Sorry you tripped and fell in that pile of justice. We have a shower down the hall across from the women’s  shelter, just listen for the sound of pussy and turn  the other way. Wash that smell off then come back and take a red pill with the beverage of your choice.

I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Welcome Jflick,
There are many people here with your shared experience, and hopefully, you will find it similarly helpful as an AA meeting. That program saved the lives of many people I’ve known or been related to, and it will work as well for you. It is also a very good anchor to steady yourself while bat s~~~ crazy people like your ex swirl around you in the short term. Slowly, in the longer term, the more sane and healthy you become, the more sane the people around you will become.

Of course, that’s not because those people become any healthier, it’s just because as you get healthier, you’ll just naturally replace their bat-s~~~ crazy asses with people who are. 🙂

As dicey as these times may seem now, after being sober and single for many years, you’ll look back at this time and just shake your head and smile at the knowledge that you saw it for what it was and left it. I look forward to reading more of your posts and hope I do on whatever threads here interest you.

Welcome to mgtow.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

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