The Girl Who Constanty Travels

[QuellParticipant 2538]

I dated a girl a briefly a few years ago. Only went out with her three times before she packed her bags and randomly moved to Italy/Croatia, but she was interesting and we remained friends. She had been in a long relationship prior to me and was completely devastated when her ex broke up with her. Now this chick was right at the wall around 34 at the time. She was petite and in good shape (a climber) however she was starting to get some wrinkles and years of sun damage was taking its toll. This girl was intriguing because she was very chill, loved the outdoors (rock climbing, camping, rafting, roadtrips etc…)

However, the more I got to know her the more I realized how messed up she really was. This is a woman who has traveled all over the world since her mid 20s. We are not talking a trip to Europe but someone who has hitch hiked all over India as a single woman (dangerous) and into remote villages in Africa. She had been everywhere. Interesting stories yes but this was a chick who had no money, no life goals, was a super feminist and basically zero direction in her life. She actually left for Croatia/Italy with only $1200 in cash, a GoPro and no plan whatsoever when she got there. I thought she was insane. Her eventual passion in life is teaching inner city kids outdoor adventure and horseback riding as some kind of therapy. It was all mumbo jumbo.

Anyways I still follow this girl and her adventures on facebook. She hit me up recently saying she was making a stop in my home town and wanted to hang out. It never happened though as this woman was always flaky and disrespected my time so I simply decided to not pursue it when she contacted me. I asked her if she wanted to talk on the phone and catch up a bit a few months before she came to town however she just left me hanging and never responded. She still hits me up on facebook but I ignore it. She is 36 now and has hit the wall pretty hard. Gooo… is a better term for it. Before she contacted me again she was saying how sad and lonely she was in her new hometown she picked out. Her life is empty except for adventure.

This got me thinking about the “Traveler Chick” personality types. It amazes me how many women just looove to travel and are traveling to exotic places multiple times a year. I wonder do they not have jobs? How do they get time to take off 5 times a year? How do they afford it?? I have known a lot of women that carry massive credit card debt, declared bankruptcy or simply f~~~ed some guy for them to pay for their plane tickets but they will never tell anyone that. The traveler chick seems to be always chasing an emotional high or the high of thinking they are cultural and wordy to their friends on facebook. Entertain me!, is their motto. They offer nothing to society but simply consume all they can and move on to the next place; hallow and empty. What’s not to love about consuming someone else culture and eating unique foods? Sure you see men out there who travel a lot but they don’t seem to make a big deal out of it and it isn’t something we all just HAVE TO DO. Men can handle routine, a plan and working on a project/hobbies to keep their lives interesting. Women consume and if they are not consuming they are bored.

My advice is be weary of these so called world traveler women as they are the most scatterbrained ones out there.

Found a great redpill reddit post all about this vary topic:

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3o8vu3/the_travelwidow_or_why_travel_for_the_single/

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Quell wrote:

The traveler chick seems to be always chasing an emotional high or the high of thinking they are cultural and wordy to their friends on facebook. Entertain me!, is their motto.

I am well versed with this species of the laydee’s. Luckily I have never dated one but I’ve known plenty over the years. While I think there is nothing wrong with travel; as I do quite a bit of backpacking myself, the girl who makes it a life’s pursuit is foolhardy. She is simply escaping from responsibility and requires constant validation and entertainment. I’ve done charitable work overseas – the amount of logistics is immense. She is a moron.

Granted, there are men who fall into this mold, but few will brag and then bemoan their predicament like the women love to do.

These girls are exclusively for casual dalliances while traveling, with protection, under an assumed name; if you must roll the dice. At this stage she has a opps pregnancy written all over her. Some poor sucker is going to have foot the massive bill – or she will be bankrupt and a system surfer in some bleeding heart social assistance country.

I have even asked a few to explain how in the future they expected to support themselves. The attitude was “silly boy, that’s what a husband is for”. F~~~ that noise. So much for being independent.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[experiencedParticipant]

I doubt she has any concept of a 401 / IRA.
She’d have used you as a free hotel, so it was wise of you to not fall for that.
Because I hadn’t already thought of it, I was refreshingly shocked when Eyeswideopen said it was an “oops I’m pregnant” type set up. THIS!! is what this website is all about, IMO. It keeps complacency at bay with regard to females.
Also, the higher up a female’s income incrementally goes, the disproportion between income and spending stays asinine and worsens. You look at their income brackets vs. what they do when not at work and I guess they assume they will marry some uber uber wealthy guy…….and that’s why those LAYDEEZ are now on dating sites 🙂

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

experienced wrote:

Because I hadn’t already thought of it, I was refreshingly shocked when Eyeswideopen said it was an “oops I’m pregnant” type set up. THIS!! is what this website is all about, IMO. It keeps complacency at bay with regard to females.

You got that right brother. Thank you.

1 year ago, I would have been oblivious to this racket. Since reading the shared experiences from yourself, and other members, I am getting way better at smelling it. I lived a very stable, sheltered and loving childhood; which sadly is a disadvantage in today’s world.

The beauty of this site is that we all have unique perspectives. I disagree with of ALOT that is posted here. But I use my man-brain to listen, challenge, critically scrutinize, and come to my own conclusions. The beauty of a mature man, is that we can disagree passionately about a topic, get mad, scream, and even insult, but still see some validity in the other’s perspective. Later we have a beer.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

They are constantly running away or looking for something they feel is missing in their lives.

I know one, divorced her husband in her late 30’s and inherited a lot of money from her father shortly after. No longer had to work so ended up doing part time jobs here and there when she was bored. On anti depressents and smokes heavily , she expected a good looking, wealthy man with a property portfolio to snap her up. Does not understand that these types of guys are off f~~~ing hot 25 year olds. So she decides to travel and ends up in all the traditional places that are full of 20 something travelers. She is 45 now, hitting the wall hard and all that sun damage is definitely not helping. She is also getting more and more upset by the 20 somethings she is hanging around with as they have youth and beauty on their sides and get all the pussy pass privileges that come with it.

Obviously posts every single aspect of her travels on Facebook in the vain hope of some validation from her friends.

Won’t settle for a Beta, will only take an Alpha so is destined for a single life with cats.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

Don’t let her into your home

Don’t f~~~ her without protection

Heck i don’t even recommend you f~~~ her but if you do you might try to pull an accident on you.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Quell wrote:

women just looove to travel

Quell wrote:

The traveler chick seems to be always chasing an emotional high

Ding Ding Ding!

It took me a while, but I finally made sense of this phenomenon of countless women saying on their dating profiles (or when speaking about themselves) “I love to laugh and travel” and what those words actually MEAN.

They don’t just mean “travel” in the literal sense.

She likes to escape. She likes to “get lost” in the moment. I have difficulty explaining it here, but the adjective “adventurous” means anal. It doesn’t mean take off to climb mount Kilimanjaro. She likes to try and “find herself” if that’s the phrase.

One of the most interesting “tips” I discovered was NOT to go to “A” restaurant and just sit there for 4 hours and call it a night. But to CHANGE LOCATIONS AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE.

Maybe you meet for a drink… you get up and decide to cross town to get a bite for dinner…. then …. drive to another spot for dessert…… and then go get a drink or “go dancing”. Change the scene and change it often.

This let’s her FEEL like she is “traveling”.

I know it sounds silly, but when I did this, they always “HAD A GREAT TIME” because we made an entrance as a couple in 4 or 5 places in the same evening and she’s in and out of your car often too. She gets more comfortable with you much quicker.

Quell wrote:

This got me thinking about the “Traveler Chick” personality types

^^^ that is what I get from the “traveller chick” personality types. They like to feel like a date was like going on a “journey”. Even though you were running around entertaining her & carting her around like her happiness is your cardio.

Traveller chicks are exhausting that way.
They are just not content to sit still in one place.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Keymaster wrote:

One of the most interesting “tips” I discovered was NOT to go to “A” restaurant and just sit there for 4 hours and call it a night. But to CHANGE LOCATIONS AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE.

Maybe you meet for a drink… you get up and decide to cross town to get a bite for dinner…. then …. drive to another spot for dessert…… and then go get a drink or “go dancing”. Change the scene and change it often.

This let’s her FEEL like she is “traveling”.

I know it sounds silly, but when I did this, they always “HAD A GREAT TIME” because we made an entrance as a couple in 4 or 5 places in the same evening and she’s in and out of your car often too. She gets more comfortable with you much quicker.

Yup. PUAs explain this as if in her mind – you’ve went on multiple dates, so if she gives it up she doesn’t feel like a slut.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Russky wrote:

Yup. PUAs explain this as if in her mind – you’ve went on multiple dates, so if she gives it up she doesn’t feel like a slut

Is that true? Holy s~~~tt. Then I stand by it, because those were the dates I was more likely to get laid on….. and I would hear s~~~ like “I’ve never done this before”. Yeah right.

The traveller chick. Well now we know. I’ve only ever compared notes on this with 1 good friend of mine. He said the same thing and understands. He’s not a PUA or anything like that either but he dates ONLY “traveller chicks” who are from out of town. Either he has a girlfriend in another city or she flies to visit him.

He swears by little romances, flings and getaways. Not one local / “steady” woman.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

When they say they want to travel. It means they are ready to have some big exotic dicks without running the risk of being labeled as a slut in her own town.

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

Quell wrote:

Her eventual passion in life is teaching inner city kids outdoor adventure and horseback riding as some kind of therapy. It was all mumbo jumbo.

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

I had to correct this incomplete sentence:

The Girl Who Constanty Travels, is a slut

Other variations:

The Girl Who Constanty Travels, is a user.

is flaky

etc.

Anyway I’ve dated women similarly to this one. She was a peace corps volunteer. Loved to f~~~, gets off on helping people but realistically shes a f~~~ing train wreck that consistently dates Chads and PUAs.

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Eyeswideopen wrote:

I have even asked a few to explain how in the future they expected to support themselves. The attitude was “silly boy, that’s what a husband is for”. F~~~ that noise. So much for being independent.

That was what I was thinking as I read this post. She never intended to actually have to do anything for herself…she thought she could see the world and probably f~~~ a new guy in every town she spent some time in in her prime and someone would scoop her up when she hit the wall. She hit the wall…probably has a mountain of debt and a rotten nasty pussy, and nobody will scoop her up…so she feels so lonely in her new town! I’m pretty sure that translates to quality men are starting to reject her in favor of younger, hotter women and she’s having to come to terms with her debt, lack of income, and lack of work experience to help with the lack of income.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

It’s like a flea that travels the world riding on dogs. Can’t really blame chicks like that though. You just can’t have any illusions about how they manage. And pity the guy who bites the bullet in the end. RIP.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[CodeBleuParticipant 161]

I’ve been thinking about this phenomenon for some time. You see it all over social media and dating sites. If they aren’t selfies, who’s taking the pics of them standing in front of the Roman Coliseum? I’m starting to understand the impetus of the woman who can’t sit still for 5 minutes.

[narwhalParticipant]

I just translate “I like to travel” to mean “I have expensive tastes and you will pay for it”. No thank you.

Really, I see 3 types. One is the rather unattractive woman who’s been single her whole life. She and her friend go travel to Europe because she has nothing better to do. Type 2 is the sales woman who gets paid ridiculous money for flirting. She wants the queen treatment. She also has pictures of herself in front of the hottest club. Type 3 is the woman who wants to be type 2, but is really just a hairdresser.

Ok. Then do it.

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

CodeBleu wrote:

If they aren’t selfies, who’s taking the pics of them standing in front of the Roman Coliseum?

I posted pictures of women who say they “love to laugh and travel” nowhere near The Collosium and pretending she is cultured. She’s standing in her bedroom with s~~~ty lighting holding a glass of wine.

[CodeBleuParticipant 161]

I just don’t get it. I’m the kind of guy who enjoys my solitude. I like sitting in silence while the rest of the world hustles and bustles. I enjoy traveling…but not to the extent of most of these travel junkies. I live in southwestern PA, within driving distance to at least 7 major cities. I could jump in the car and be somewhere in a couple hours. Why don’t I? I have other s~~~ to do. Travel for me is a nice weekend camping at Lake Erie, or a trip to Cedar Point. Maybe take in a baseball game that’s not in my hometown. Or I can stay home, save a ton of cash or keep it local not taking selfies of everything I experience.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

I have been traveling for both business and pleasure for over 40 years. Women will travel for no other purpose than taking a selfie, and go shopping. Unless a woman has a goal such as mountain climbing, then her travel is likely mindless mimicry. The frequency and expense of the travel are usually a good indicator of their neurosis.

Sovereignty above all else.

[Anonymous 11]

It seems they all love to travel especially on a man’s dime. The one’s I’ve met over the years do tend to be flaky airheads. The last one was a traveling ski bunny flake with a trust fund. I’d wager they tend to have higher than average c~~~ counts too.

I only travel for business and then only if I fly. I despise having to spend more than one hour in a car. Paddling a sea kayak to an undeveloped barrier island’s beach for the day is a good enough pleasure trip for me.

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