The Friend Zone

[Be Her DaddyParticipant 410]

I decided to get back into school and finish out my B.A. after letting 63 units sit on ice for the past 7 years. I’m 27 and rather than let the women dictate my life, I decided to empower myself so I can be that guy who wasn’t good enough, who now has a masters degree and an even better career… I had to take a speech class so I opted for Interpersonal Communication rather than speeches. We did a day on relationships and the professor focused on the friend zone for a part of the class. She specifically asked the girls what they thought about the friend zone. They unanimously HATE being PUT in the friend zone. So friend zone them up gents.

Gain power by friend zoning women. They all hated even the idea of it.

This is worth saying. The professor is a cool lady, she’s 39, single and went her own way and adopted a kid. She seems like a moderate politically and she was mostly impartial during the debate. But I did love how later during her lecture she mentioned how this couple in the lecture slide picture looked happy and “hopefully he makes a lot of money and she will live happily ever after.” Other than that, she isn’t too bad.

Anyways, I loved knowing that girls hate the friend zone. She didn’t give men an opportunity to speak, so I spoke up when the girls were done. I spoke out against the friend zone, as did many men after we were allowed to. She had a look of being perplexed by me not wanting to date for “friendship.” I’ve dated 35-50 women in the past 2.5 years and have no desire to be friends with 99% of those girls. She asked me if I date for friends, or just relationships. I said, “definitely not for friends. I have plenty of friends, I don’t need to spend money and time on some stranger when I could be focusing my energy on my friends and family and strengthening those relationships.”

She then asked me again if I would date for friends and I stuck to my guns. I’m 27, I’ve seen enough BS dating that I am no longer stupid enough to cower on a position like this. She seemed perplexed. I wondered, why do women think dating for “friends” seems acceptable?

To me it is straight forward. What kind of “friendship” begins with the man paying for 4-5 dates+ just to make friends while the woman is doing ALL the choosing? I asked the class if anybody randomly went to the grocery store and offered to buy someone their groceries because they looked like good “friend material.” Nobody answered with a yes. Why would anybody spend money on a random stranger right? So why the f~~~ is it expected that a man spend money on a random stranger he is “dating” who will not even respond after the third/fourth date? My professor and the other women in class had no response.

Lot of BS, but my main point here is, friend zone those girls, boys. Hit them where it really counts.

Hit. Quit. Friendzone. Repeat.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I’m not proud of this but  …

When I got custody of my 5yo girl I was delighted. Everything was wonderful until I realised there was something very big missing. That was female touch and advice.

As my girl got older this became more apparent.

Back then there were no male baby changing rooms and bringing a female child in a male toilet was a real big problem. I was arrested on one occasion.

So I made a plan. I went on dating sites and ‘found’ three women I could just date for there skills.

One was a doctor, one a child welfare expert and the other was a lawyer.

On each date I told them ….. after lots of wine … the truth about why I was dating them. Rather then getting slapped in the face, each on started crying and started saying how amazing this was … and that I’d chosen them.

It was all a bit nuts coz I didn’t think it would work. My deal with them was if I needed help I would go on date and pay and they give me their advice and ideas.

This all fell apart when little by little each and everyone of them invited me and daughter over for dinner.

This went on from age 5 – 17. When my daughter finally grew up and became ‘settled’, the 3 women still remained in our lives and yes friends.

They are 100% in the friend zone. We all know whats going on and without all the sex pressure, they’re like amazing sisters.

They also know I’m mgtow but didn’t get it until they tried to aranged the odd surprise dates with others.

I think my only dealings with women are through the friend zone. It’s a very good bulls~~~ filter …. for me.

However, I do know at least two of the friends don’t really like it there and one …. who I really really like keeps trying to get out ….. but alas my mistress is mgtow.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Be Her Daddy wrote:

They unanimously HATE being PUT in the friend zone. So friend zone them up gents.

Turn about is fair play!

Be Her Daddy wrote:

I said, “definitely not for friends. I have plenty of friends, I don’t need to spend money and time on some stranger when I could be focusing my energy on my friends and family and strengthening those relationships.”

In short, you don’t buy your friends.

Be Her Daddy wrote:

I wondered, why do women think dating for “friends” seems acceptable?

They want to be bought off with food and perquisites.

ILiveAgain wrote:

So I made a plan. I went on dating sites and ‘found’ three women I could just date for there skills.

One was a doctor, one a child welfare expert and the other was a lawyer.

Well played! Well played!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 9]

Putting them in the friend zone as holding small talk at work, or just speaking in passing. That’s how I view the friend zone with women; I’m too much of a sexual being to have any chick in my life who I’m not sexually attracted to on some level.

The friend zone is mostly reserved for those unattractive, and female coworkers who I spend time with during working hours. Other than that we’re mere associates on our quest to earn a living.

 

[Be Her DaddyParticipant 410]

Very true. There is no good reason to keep women around as friends. I don’t. My point is simply to do it to destroy their ego because none of the girls in that class seemed like they could handle it. I tried it a few weeks ago with a girl I slept with at a party. She flew off the wall, tracked me down and added me on facebook and then messaged me a number of times over a 2 month period. I took her ego right into the ground and I had fun doing it.

[narwhalParticipant]

Eh, I have no interest in intentionally destroying anyone’s ego male or female.  If someone’s behavior brings about their tears, so be it.  I won’t step in and save them from themselves.

Ok. Then do it.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Most of them are not even worth  friend zoning.

These days: do you want to be friends?

Me: nope or not here to be your friend.

If they ask, I’m usually a dick, now. So it rarely comes  up.

Remember if they ask you, their the ones that should be doing errands for you, not you for them.

 

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[grandmastergav1986Participant 2]

Be Her Daddy, you are the f~~~ing man! As a big guy who has been friend zoned time and again as I’m clearly “not good enough” for them, I take my hat off to you sir!

 

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