The First and Last Word on INCELs

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Every man & boy has heard those moronic shaming tactics “you can’t get a girlfriend” and “you can’t get laid”. We love to hear them, know they are crap, point and laugh because they are very easy to deconstruct . . . but in recent times, a new one popped up as a +1 to the catalogue of anti-male slurs.

“INCEL!!”

( involuntary celibate )

Many will try to tell you that “MGTOW are nothing but a bunch of INCELs”.
But INCEL is not exclusive to MGTOW. It’s not even exclusive to men!

FACT: Most “incels” are female. Recent study data for sexlessness: 15% of men v.s 26.7% nearly double the number of women in US are sexless, per year.

THE FIRST WORD

The term “incel” was first coined by a female statistics undergrad who started a blog to get sympathy about loneliness. How ironic. She is also now a 43-year-old management consultant and artist – from Toronto no less. The feminist hot bed.

Beginning a sentence with “personally . . .” is womanly.
( Unless you’re a man. )

And personally, I have known for a long time that women are the ones constantly lamenting about not being able to find a man, partner, husband, or mate. Here are a few of them now – in a music video about how this generation of young, outwardly-attractive women can’t get a date – (or laid!) – while convincing themselves (and each other) they are “so fabulous” as they head out to ladies night in a drunken tornado of abandonment issues.

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It doesn’t stop there. The same girl (Taryn Southern) happens to be a featured spokeschick for Glamour Magazine’s “The Single Life”, dolling out bulls~~~ relationship advice to women on how women s~~~-test men, like “5 things women say to pick fights with their significant other”. while smiling like it’s cute and hilarious. In her making-of video (1:00), her producer even opens by saying she’s “bats~~~ crazy”. Yes, that follows.

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It would be more accurate to say MGTOW are a bunch of VOLcels. What is a man missing out on? A simple sex act, a possible pregnancy, and/or an STD. Devastating. So what is exclusive to MGTOW? MGTOW are the only demographic of men who demote the female to a secondary consideration at best. She’s an afterthought. That’s the important distinction no other men make – while nearly double the INCELs are mostly desperate discontent women who will pray nobody knows the score.

“Can’t get a girlfriend? You sure??”

It wasn’t even a good try.

So the next time anyone tries that INCEL garbage, you’ll know who the real INCELs are.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Great post KM.

Going Your Own Way is a choice to live the way you want on your own terms. There is nothing involuntary about it.

I would suggest that the vast majority of MGTOW have chosen to be so precisely because they were not incels and have suffered the consequences, or are fortunate enough to have seen the danger in advance and have voluntarily removed themselves from the plantation.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

MoreSky wrote:

they were not incels and have suffered the consequences,

Too many MGTOW are also fathers…which also shoots that “incel” theory to s~~~. It’s the pretense that I can’t abide. Could have been married at least 5+ times if I wanted to – or proposed. And the reason I don’t have kids ( or married ) is because I was so focussed on avoiding it.

Even if the modern man has 3 lovers – in his entire life(!) – he’s enjoying more trim than his grandfather ever did. Men today are practically Valentinos by yesteryear’s standards, and sex has never been so available. My father or grandfather would never have been accused of “not getting laid” enough. Who talks like that? It’s preposterous.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3768]

Great post indeed.

Definitely “volcel” here. I’m just so allergic to female presence now.

Humping a piece of crazy is pointless, anyway.

I’ve watched about 15 seconds of that first video and I thought that it looked like an advertisement from a company that’s trying to sell something that nobody wants.

Sorry dumb broads, YOU ARE OBSOLETE.

(and yeah, keep eating that ice cream, fatso)

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Great post! Men think logically so it all boils down to risk vs reward. No matter how good the pussy might be….the risk is just too high to find out.

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

Agree – a great/interesting post Keymaster.

Feminism was funded by bankers/politicians to create more taxpayers. MGTOW IS FREEDOM https://archive.org/details/mgtowisfreedomblurayready

[Anonymous 12]

When women are “Incel” it is because men aren’t good enough for them. When men are MGTOW it is because we can’ get laid and hate women because of it.

Usual story – When a woman rejects a man then there is something wrong with the man. When a man rejects a woman than there is something wrong with the man.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

When a woman rejects a man then there is something wrong with the man. When a man rejects a woman than there is something wrong with the man.

When he cheats, he’s an insufferable bastard who should pay.

When she cheats, he’s a s~~~ty lover who didn’t take care of her needs – and an insufferable bastard who should pay.

( Just because women are bad at math, doesn’t mean they’re good at not-math. )

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Great points. Women are excellent projectionists. They project all of their short comings on to men.

Commitment issues
Over sexed issues
Under sexed issues [see above]
Dishonesty issues
Anger issues
Child Abuse issues
Laziness issues

And the list goes on and on . . .

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Truly, modern western society is so liberal about sex that 50 year old women are dumping their husbands in record numbers knowing they’ll be able to attract and bed new lovers into their 70’s.

This is not just a few people getting loosey goosey. This is an entire generation, the one that came right after the feminist revolution of the 1970’s, second wave feminism, of families falling apart because the only reason to get hitched to a woman today is having a child and women no longer feel that men are important to raising children.

They had to take this stance recently because so many men are winning custody rights by saying kids need their dads. Women will not tolerate losing anything. No matter how bad it is for the children.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[LurchParticipant 3866]

So the Teal Dear (TL;DR) version would be:

Incel men are pathetic losers, who deserve to have their genetic linage obliterated from human history.

Incel women are empowered, stunning and brave heroins.

Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

I believe that incels use MGTOW as an excuse. That said, there are men who truly are involuntarily celibate such as a man born with CP or Downs. THAT is involuntarily celibate. If you are an average man there is no reason for you to be unable to aquire sex.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Lurch wrote:

Incel men are pathetic losers, who deserve to have their genetic linage obliterated from human history. Incel women are empowered, stunning and brave heroins.

Yup. That about covers it.

You’d get an A in gender studies . . . . which is as useless as a glass hammer.

The video (and making of) is a crackup because it really shows how they perceive themselves vs. the way they actually are. Mascara running down her face… as she eats cookies and cake off her boobs…. sitting on the floor next to a garbage can ,.. pounding down a gallon of ice cream with her best friend – a cat… as she carefully examines the hairs on her knees.

Then throw on a sequin tarp, a pair of heels and “we’re so fabulous!!”

“WHAT HAPPENS IN VEGAS STAYS IN VEGAS!! LOL!!”

“Yeah we know what happened in Vegas. You got drunk and danced with each other.”

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

Truly, modern western society is so liberal about sex that 50 year old women are dumping their husbands in record numbers knowing they’ll be able to attract and bed new lovers into their 70’s.

THINKING they’ll be able to attract and bed new lovers into their 70’s. Actually, you are technically correct. It’s just that the men who are still willing to bed them aren’t good enough for them. The one’s that are good enough are dating 15 years or more younger.

All hail The Wall(TM). And the reason for the saying that beautiful women die twice.

Order the good wine

[narwhalParticipant]

I would argue that the concept of an INCEL, male or female is nonsense for all except maybe 1% of the population. The reality is that absolutely everyone has standards. They require some level of attractiveness and personality in a partner in order for them to want to have sex with you. It also almost always comes with some sort of price (time, money, effort, commitment) in order for the sex to happen. So if sex isn’t happening, it’s because one of the partner’s doesn’t feel the other meets their standards, they don’t want to pay the price, or haven’t received the payment yet.

So a theoretical incel would be someone who doesn’t meet anyone standards and is incapable of paying any price. But that simply isn’t possible given the population of men and women these days. Women establish that someone is an incel because they don’t meet the arbitrary standards and price that they believe men should be striving for. It has nothing to do with whether or not they can get laid, and everything to do with shame men into meeting the standards and paying the price that they want. Pure shaming.

Look at this way. If a man who they declared to be an incel does get laid, what would their reaction be? Joy? Indifference? No, they would be upset…as their shaming technic just failed.

When it comes to MGTOW, a lot of us have just raised our standards to the point that few women meet. What I think is unanimous is that we all recognize that the price is way too high on the vast majority of scenarios. Even when the woman herself isn’t asking for much, we know the government will ask for much on her behalf, and women lie about their price all the time.

Ok. Then do it.

[SolidParticipant 7520]

Great post KM !!!

I personally think that the incel thing is trying to shame others based on the virtual value that vagina is something that a man desires.

Is the same as saying to me “you video game celibate”, because I don’t have time to play games. Women place their vaginas in the top of the world thinking that everyone wants that, is the same as people who project that others want to be rich and famous. Is the time to say “you pussy don’t worth s~~~.”

Just an analogy, is the same as a rapper shows in your door and says “yo n~~~~, your are so f~~~ing loser becoz you caint rap” (you know in what kind of accent to read this ! LOL !). They value different things that I, or you value.

I work hard to keep myself from any desire for example, if there is coffee, I drink coffee, is there isn’t, I don’t drink, I don’t desire it. Simple as that, and I try to apply the same thing for everything, as said by the virtuous Seneca

It is not the man who has too little, but the man who craves more, that is poor – Seneca

If you don’t desire anything, all that you have will always be enough.

Those poor men were indoctrinated thinking that pussy worth something, females implanted that desire on their minds, but not only incels, see how many blue pillers go in the same way. Most blue pillers get a fat landwhale as the consequences of their desires, and the things only go downhill from there on. Women will make you think that you desire a bigger house, an expensive car, expensive vacations, expensive everything, and then you just turned into a slave to your own desires, waking up everyday just to satiate them, and the c~~~ will everyday wake up carving for more, and it will go on and on until you drop dead.

Incels are the result of the frustration of a desire that was not satiated, the same applies to everything, how many times you thought, “oh, I would be happier if I had (something/ better car/house/job/)” ?, this way of thinking brings frustration into ones life. Eliminate the desire, and everything that you have will be enough.

[ZoidbergParticipant 965]

narwhal wrote:

When it comes to MGTOW, a lot of us have just raised our standards to the point that few women meet.

And some of us just refuse to serve a woman, no matter what she is like. Refuse to serve in any way, whether romantically, sexually, or economically. This quote comes to mind (bold mine):

If you find the ideal love and try to make it the sole judge of good and bad in yourself, the measure of your strivings, you become simply the reflex of another person. You lose yourself in the other, just as obedient children lose themselves in the family. No wonder that dependency, whether of the god or the slave in the relationship, carries with it so much underlying resentment. As Rank put it, explaining the historical bankruptcy of romantic love: a “person no longer wanted to be used as another’s soul even with its attendant compensations.” —Ernest Becker, The Denial of Death

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22538]

If you get down to the very basics, no man can be an “incel” because to gain a relationship and/or have sex, a man has to spend money on a woman. This does not matter if the man is paying a woman’s dinner for a date, or the man is paying a prostitute for a night of sex. Same concept.

Even a homeless man can, on occasion, afford a five dollar hooker to blow him.

So, the only true “incels” are women whom set their standards to high in finding a man to be in a relationship.

[The man in the mountainParticipant 4102]

Another thing to keep your eye on KM is that women who are on psychotic medication or other Meds specially for depression, will experience long episodes of not wanting to have sex or honest emotional pair bonding, also these women have a harder time reaching climax in bed.

These women in my opinion who take these types of medication are dangerous because they stop feeling empathy for their partners when they need it, they also don’t give much sex to their partners when they also need it, they will only give it to you to keep you contempt (using sex to keep you around as a tool basically).

https://psychcentral.com/blog/sex-on-antidepressants/

Of course this is not our problem anymore since we are going our own way but its something the young guys that are still dating should keep in mind.

To be honest i have always been chubby all my life and i never had problems getting laid with women, anyone that is not getting laid is seriously either taking things too seriously with them or they are selling themselves off to them as too emotional or clingy.

Having sex with women is not hard, they don’t even try to make you work for it if you still think its hard well lol look at me i am like a 3 or 4 in the supposed scale of beauty, women are very simple to understand since they have two modes one in which they just want a c~~~ and another in which they want a wallet to pay for their s~~~, which one will you choose to be?.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Where is that thread that I ripped apart the term ‘incel’ for weeks!?

I didn’t know a woman coined the term. Honestly, I thought that the term was beyond their intelligence to coin.

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