The difference

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

I’ve recently gotten the judgement in my divorce and was screwed. Throughout this ordeal, I’ve occasionally discussed this ordeal with my co-workers, both male and female. Unanimously, they agreed that I was being fair and level headed. Now that the judgement has been given, I see a clear split.

All of the guys commiserate that I was screwed and it sucks. The women jokingly ask if I want to get married, so they can get the same payout. F~~~ you very much. It’d be like telling a paraplegic you wished you could get paralyzed in an accident, so you could get money from the guilty party.

I spent 15 years of my life busting my ass, forgoing retirement savings, starting a family, and accumulating life savings to pursue a medical degree. I did this with no help from her. Then, I have it plundered by her on the whimsicle judgement of the family court. Congratulations, you contributed nothing to my sacrifices, but you get near lifelong access to their benefits.

I get morbid humor as I work in the ER. Telling me you’d find it amusing to marry me so you could screw me financially like my ex did seems akin to Telling Holocaust jokes to Jews as they were released from the concentration camps.

Again, f~~~ you very much. You have no moral compass.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22564]

Well the women are only partly joking. They really wouldn’t mind divorcing you to get a payout. The “joke” hides their jealousy of your ex.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

Bitter, that Red pill is sometimes.
Don’t allow this to consume you though- it could
be worse: you could still be married to the conniving bitch.

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Well the women are only partly joking. They really wouldn’t mind divorcing you to get a payout. The “joke” hides their jealousy of your ex.

Yep, that kidding/not kidding type of belief.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[LosPukeParticipant 514]

I want to thank you for sharing that. I don’t know what I can offer that your male co-workers have not already offered. Unless it would be…I hope you learned your lesson well…you paid dearly for it. Never marry another c~~~. Never sacrifice your blood, sweat and tears to any female. Keep sharing your pain with your brothers here. Even some of us old-timers that have been long divorced need the reminder of the hell you just went through. If it means anything to you, I certainly have been shaken awake from your experience. It will take time to heal, but once that happens, I believe you will find a happiness that you’ve not ever experienced. Stay strong, brother!

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

You have learned two lessons my brother. The big one is to never get married again it was a expensive lesson but one you will remember for the rest of your life. You have to fail many times before you succeed this is the path you took and be proud that you succeeded in getting rid of the succubus. Granted she will still be draining you financially probably for the rest of your life in one way or another but at least you don’t have to deal with her on a daily basis any longer.

The second lesson you may or may have not learned while at work has big benefits once you adopt this approach. Don’t talk about your personal life to any co-worker while at work or for that matter anywhere if you can avoid it. Ghosting is the key to having a successful work environment. These women who were teasing you will be trying to get in on the action don’t think for a second they were joking as others have said they want that pay out too.

Do not offer any more information about yourself do it slowly over time so they don’t notice they will think that the divorce screwed you over and you are becoming anti social because of it. Use this to your advantage and never be alone with a nurse or any other female co-worker and you will be fine.

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

If you do not have children stop working, take the money you have and stash it away(not in a bank or anything like that she will have access) and do something you want to do in another exotic and interesting place.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[Gravel PitParticipant]

I was at a social meeting of sorts, and there was a guy in his mid fifties right next to me. He said he was starting to date again and was very confused by the whole thing… you see, he’d just recently divorced after 22 years married. I asked him about family court/child support…he said that all that had been taken care of (seemed wealthy).

He’d never heard to Men Going Their Own Way or the MRA. And to be honest, I don’t volunteer the information much anymore. He thinks he knows it all and is clearly VERY naive about women, still chivalrous and blue pill, still thinks its 1985…

I just pity the guy. He thinks he is going to saddle up for some sex with a younger woman and to marry again. His looks won’t help him but maybe his money will. The guy has no idea the s~~~ he is about to get himself into.

Sometimes you can just tell by the character of a guy in that situation, it’s useless to try and ‘wake him up’ because the second you insinuate that women are a bad deal or not worth the trouble…they go white knight mode and act like a dick to you… I just chuckle to myself and I pity the idiot. Some guys can still philander women well into their sixties….most can’t.

I was reminded that I’m still in my early 30’s and can still, more or less, get tangled up in some hot ass my age. But the Red Pill and the Stardusk Compilation especially, combined with some prior heartbreak, has permanently alerted me to the charade that is ‘woman.’

You know who could still pull ass, at their age? huMAN…check out his youtube channel. That guy ‘gets’ it. He could have any 25 year girl he wants, HOWEVER I don’t think he does it…the guy is self-actualized and is in hot pursuit of more rewarding endeavors. I like that guy alot, good role model (although, no man should idolize another man too highly)

[Anonymous 18]

You are mistaken in believing that women can related to emotional pain. They can’t.

Unless they can substitute themselves (which in itself takes a huge leap from principles of solipsism).

What they see the ordeal as “the ex wife was able to get XYZ from you … a utility”.

Men are true romantics. Nature has evolved women to appeal to men’s ability to love themselves, women, children, and fellow men and twist it to exploit and later discard the man.

A woman is incapable of loving a man. She can only love what you can do for her.

In your case – your ex wife’s version of love expired. But the c~~~s at work have put a future expiration date in case you ‘fall’ in love with them.

Sucks big time to go through arduous medical training only to have a leech steal it away from you. F~~~ her.

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