The DiCaprio template

[Anonymous 38]

I like to think my style of dealing with women resembles the DiCaprio format.

If I like a girl, as in want to bang her, which means I find her physically and mentally attractive, I’ll show her I’m interested. I won’t pursue like i used to, I’ll wait to see if she’s interested too. If she’s not, nothing lost, I couldn’t care less – she’s just one of a million potential meat holes.

All being well we’ll hang out and so long as it’s fun, we’ll do stuff together. Cooking, f~~~ing, mainly.

I’m always my mental point of origin. I’ll treat her to a meal, a coffee, a movie, but if these things aren’t reciprocated in some way these niceties dry up.

I’m not holding out for the one. She doesn’t exist.

If the inner bitch comes out, I’m gone. If she distances, I distance. NFG. I don’t fear losing something I don’t truly care about.

That’s the difference now, I can no longer care for women to the point I’ll put up with any bulls~~~ for more than the odd bad mood. I’ll NEVER sacrifice my autonomy or future no matter how decent she seems.

Often I’ll end it and even if I’ve come to dislike her I’ll make sure we part on good terms. The smiling assassin. This helps you going forward cos it helps you ghost and avoid future drama. There’s no bitterness she can use against you.

No marriage, no kids, this leaves me relatively safe.

I’m not saying my way is the way. In the past I have sworn off all contact and who knows maybe I will again. I just thought I’d share my current format.

[Anonymous 42]

I want nothing to do with the insufferable pieces of liberated s~~~!

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

mentally attractive,

Mentally attractive?

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 38]

It’sallbs wrote:

Mentally attractive?

Attractive personality. Can I enjoy a bit of time with her outside of f~~~ing. So down to earth, unpretentious, not fake or annoying.

[Anonymous 18]

How long have you been doing this?

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

I’m in the same zone of thought as you, @mgtow_taoist

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

Anonymous wrote:

There’s no bitterness she can use against you.

I think you are playing with fire mate.

It’sallbs wrote:

mgtow_taoist wrote:
mentally attractive,
Mentally attractive?

Generally speaking women cannot have an intellectual conversation with an intellectual man for long – they are not system thinkers like men can be – think of it like chess – the top 100 chess players are all men – womens ratings are about 10% less than mens.

Mentally attractive ?attractive personality ? down to earth/unpretentious? ive been there be careful – the occasional intelligent one that seems ‘down to earth’ that is socalled mentally attractive to you is even more dangerous and cunning in this feminist era – also you are in danger of becoming more attached to them – plus its just a matter of time before their feminist conditioniong kicks in or until they try to snare you.

Just saying thats my experience.
Peace.

Feminism was funded by bankers/politicians to create more taxpayers. MGTOW IS FREEDOM https://archive.org/details/mgtowisfreedomblurayready

[OldBillParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I like to think my style of dealing with women resembles the DiCaprio format.

Format? You mean luck.

DiCaprio will be the target of #metoo or other harassment claims by this summer. The only thing which has shielded him so far is that he pumps & dumps foreign party girls instead of wannabe starlets.

DiCaprio is in his mid-40s now. The cute little fellow who froze to death in Titanic is long gone and, when women start realizing that, he’s toast.

You’re deluding yourself if you think you can replicate that and if you think DiCaprio’s current lifestyle won’t bite him in the ass.

CombatRoll wrote:

I’m in the same zone of thought as you…

How’d your last set of plans work? You know, the one where she was going to move out instead of you?

No plan survives contact with the enemy.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 38]

Anonymous wrote:

How long have you been doing this?

A couple of years. If I don’t meet anyone worth my time I’m happy being alone as well.

Christopher wrote:

Generally speaking women cannot have an intellectual conversation with an intellectual man for long – they are not system thinkers like men can be – think of it like chess – the top 100 chess players are all men – womens ratings are about 10% less than mens.

Mentally attractive ?attractive personality ? down to earth/unpretentious? ive been there be careful – the occasional intelligent one that seems ‘down to earth’ that is socalled mentally attractive to you is even more dangerous and cunning in this feminist era – also you are in danger of becoming more attached to them – plus its just a matter of time before their feminist conditioniong kicks in or until they try to snare you.

She can hold her own, I even learn from her. She’s a friend foremost. I won’t be with anyone who doesn’t add something to my life (besides sex) ever again.

I no longer feel the danger of becoming attached and losing her. I don’t care enough. I’m very fond of her but if she walks, I wouldn’t be sad to the point it destroys me. I’ve been through that before and I’m too red pilled now to expect anything more from a woman. I know she’s with me because of what I represent and provide, and that no longer bothers me because I’m getting what I need from her.

OldBill wrote:

Format? You mean luck.

DiCaprio will be the target of #metoo or other harassment claims by this summer. The only thing which has shielded him so far is that he pumps & dumps foreign party girls instead of wannabe starlets.

DiCaprio is in his mid-40s now. The cute little fellow who froze to death in Titanic is long gone and, when women start realizing that, he’s toast.

You’re deluding yourself if you think you can replicate that and if you think DiCaprio’s current lifestyle won’t bite him in the ass.

You’re probably right re Leo, all famous men will have been sleazy at some point so are vulnerable to this metoo BS. But that doesn’t affect me at all.

So far I’m replicating it fine, in what way do you think I’m at risk here?

[OldBillParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

So far I’m replicating it fine, in what way do you think I’m at risk here?

One Phone Call. Enough threads written by enough men here should have already explained to you what One Phone Call can do.

If she’s in your home, you’re at risk. If she knows where you live, you’re at risk. If she knows where you work, you’re at risk. If you walk past her in a subway station, you’re at risk.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 38]

OldBill wrote:

mgtow_taoist wrote:

So far I’m replicating it fine, in what way do you think I’m at risk here?

One Phone Call. Enough threads written by enough men here should have already explained to you what One Phone Call can do.

If she’s in your home, you’re at risk. If she knows where you live, you’re at risk. If she knows where you work, you’re at risk. If you walk past her in a subway station, you’re at risk.

The one phone call fear doesn’t apply so much to a man who’s unmarried. You won’t lose your home and access to your kids. There’s a very slim chance of this happening and even slimmer chance of you going to jail for it. The risk is also hugely mitigated by me being 110% ready to push the eject button the moment I see an indication she is capable of something like that – married men don’t usually have that safety buffer.

[OldBillParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

The one phone call fear doesn’t apply so much to a man who’s unmarried.

Keep believing that.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

OldBill wrote:

mgtow_taoist wrote:

So far I’m replicating it fine, in what way do you think I’m at risk here?

One Phone Call. Enough threads written by enough men here should have already explained to you what One Phone Call can do.

If she’s in your home, you’re at risk. If she knows where you live, you’re at risk. If she knows where you work, you’re at risk. If you walk past her in a subway station, you’re at risk.

The one phone call fear doesn’t apply so much to a man who’s unmarried. You won’t lose your home and access to your kids. There’s a very slim chance of this happening and even slimmer chance of you going to jail for it. The risk is also hugely mitigated by me being 110% ready to push the eject button the moment I see an indication she is capable of something like that – married men don’t usually have that safety buffer.

When that false rape claim puts you in jail, costs you your job, and future job prospects, it doesn’t matter if you’re married or not. Good luck paying your mortgage when you’re unemployed.

[OldBillParticipant]

This thread neatly illustrates the contrast between what Bertrand Russell called Knowledge by Acquaintance and Knowledge by Description.

You can learn about a punch in the nose by either being punched in the nose or seeing someone else being punched in the nose. Sadly, some men can only learn by being punched.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[narwhalParticipant]

I’m going to agree with mgtow_taoist to an extent. Obviously, any association with women at all comes with risk of being accused of rape since she is not required to have any evidence whatsoever. You really don’t even know the woman at all since she can claim the rape happed years earlier. You really don’t have any absolute bullet proof defense.

However, you do have control over your level of risk. Never sleeping with a woman reduces risk. Never associating with women reduces risk. Developing good character witnesses reduces risk. Recognizing and reacting to red flags reduces risk. Cameras reduce risk. Never giving women any motives to hurt you, or seek revenge, reduces risk.

It looks to me that mgtow_taoist is very aware of the risks. He’s not ignoring them, but taking steps to reduce them to what he considers to be a manageable level of risk. I do not know what level of effort he’s putting in, or exactly well he understands those risks, but I don’t have good reason to think he’s lacking much in this.

I don’t mgtow_taoist will come here claiming ignorance if he ever gets ‘caught’.

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 38]

Thanks Narwhal. I won’t deny there’s risk, but I minimise it through constant scrutiny.

Don’t let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

OldBill wrote:

If she’s in your home, you’re at risk. If she knows where you live, you’re at risk.

narwhal wrote:

Never sleeping with a woman reduces risk. Never associating with women reduces risk.

Anonymous wrote:

She’s a friend foremost. I won’t be with anyone who doesn’t add something to my life (besides sex) ever again.

OP you say you are practicing a ‘dicaprio format’ with certain girls by hanging out with them, cooking with them, associating with them as friends, and having sex with them, and scrutinising for red flags in which case you end the relationship….

– are you in a ‘relationship’ with one girl?
– are you having multiple short term relationships ?
– if you know there are going to be red flags why bother having the relationships?
– are you looking for a NAWALT?

Lots of MGTOW providing warnings and listing the risks to you on this thread… each to their own path i guess………Personally after what I went through with my ex I will never have a GF or ‘associate’ with women ever again. Peace.

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[Anonymous 38]

What I perceive as Di Caprio’s format is they last as long as he’s getting what he needs. There’s no long-term promise, I’m done making long-term promises now it’s about mutual value in the present, which is really what adult relationships should be about anyway.

I don’t spin plates, can’t be arsed. I’m friends with my current woman, we have sex and act like a normal couple.

No I’m not looking for a ‘NAWALT’. I no longer suffer from Oneitis either.

As to the question re red flags. I didn’t say I know there will be red flags. I suppose a man could call any number of things a red flag. She went out with her girls until 4am… red flag. She didn’t text back with 30 mins… red flag.

Meh. I don’t analyse every small thing like I did as a blue piller, I’m busy living my life. I don’t actually give a s~~~ about relationships any more, so I don’t fear things crashing and burning. If I see a big enough red flag, something which sits wrongly with my intuition, I’ll eject or call her out. I’m a pretty intuitive and analytical guy (INTP). And have a lot of experience with women.

We started out as course mates. A friendship developed into something more. I enjoy her company, she’s a truly good person. If she ever flips on me or disrespects me, I’m gone. I’m always planning my MGTOW future regardless, as I don’t expect any relationship to last.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

I completely forgot about them and what is a woman? I don’t care to know anymore.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[Anonymous 38]

Kaido wrote:

I completely forgot about them and what is a woman? I don’t care to know anymore.

Ha ha I almost envy you Kaido.

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