The Dating Scene Sucks and I'm done before 40

[WolfInSheepsClothingParticipant 21]

I’m more than sure that this has been said on numerous occasions but I’m going to throw my thoughts in to hopefully renew further discussion. This is my first post and hopefully not my last. These thoughts have been brewing, festering and boiling over for quite some time now. I’m going to write this with as much honesty as possible and holding no punches.

So, without further ado, where would a poor bastard find a date:

Online Dating Sites- This is the biggest f~~~ing joke and ass backward method of finding a remotely decent looking c~~~ that I’ve had the strong misfortune of using. It used to be the one way I thought I could rely on, if all else failed. This is where men are told to stand in front of a nice car, or with their dog, in order to look appealing. I wonder if just displaying a close up shot of a Rolex without me at all would be the best way to go. So, right off the bat, we in and of ourselves are clearly not good enough to attract attention from these godlike creatures. We have to find some type of materialistic prop or a sentimental prop that will entice these majestic women into a reply even after sending a well thought out message of our own. Are you kidding me? Meanwhile, they can have a picture of them sitting on the toilet dropping a deuce and it would get 50 instant replies.

I cancelled my account about six months ago because I loathe and despise being repeatedly ignored and hypocrisy like this. It’s not just from the reasonably attractive women but the woolly mammoths of the dating world, too. I soon realized that women, who are a 4 out of 10 on a forgiving scale, are being inundated by 500 plus emails daily. All of these desperate men are bombarding her message box with the high, misguided hope that they will get a mere morsel of attention in return. This is the definition of bulls~~~ in my book. How much more insulting can it possibly become?

First off, she’s not even necessarily attractive to begin with. I had the necessary habit of continually having to lower my standards and lower my standards further until finally someone only still slightly resembling a woman would give me the time of day; heaven forbid that a mediocre chick would dare give this guy a reply. I don’t look like Brad Pitt, by the way. I was born with a rare genetic disorder that gives me fairly mild facial abnormalities that make for some interesting features but you would think I was Frankenstein’s monster according to most women. I’m also offsetting some of that by, dare I say, being far more physically fit than most men my age. Of course, we all know none of that s~~~ matters and I do the weightlifting mostly for my sake, and not theirs.

So, I had to settle for bottom of the barrel fugly c~~~s and even they take a f~~~ing act of congress to get a reply from. I honestly don’t feel like there’s many women out there that are better than myself or many of the fellow members here at MGTOW. They have the sad misperception that they are because the manginas of the world fuel their planet sized egos. It’s laughable and a crying shame at the same time.

One of the dates I did obtain turned out to be rather nightmarish. Her vagina smelled like she wiped back to front. That should have been a pretty good warning sign. But, you have to realize I was forced to scrap the bottom of the barrel or just forget it all together. I stupidly didn’t wear a condom so I contracted a curable venereal disease. The last person I dated from the wonderful online dating sites was so revolting in person that I reflexively nearly made a u-turn the instant I met her face to face. We dated for some time but I finally waved the white flag.

Clubs/bars/concerts/other similar places where females come to be worshipped- I’ve never liked these places. They are loud, obnoxious, smoke filled s~~~holes where the man to woman ratio resides at somewhere around 3 to 1. I’ve received zero attention from the opposite sex here, oddly a man wanted to dance with me recently—WTF. I honestly don’t even try going to places like this much because it wouldn’t take me long to recognize how the course of the evening will go. I can get drunk and spend a lot of money doing it but no females are going to give me the time of day here. I’m certainly not going to bend over backward to try to get a crumb from longskanks table either.

Gyms- I love to workout. But, I make a point not to look at the women at the gyms. You know the types. The ones that have been fawned over since they could stuff their bra with tissues. They need absolutely no more attention. These, of course, are the same women that would never, ever show interest in me without me basically moving hell and earth first.

I keep hearing you’ve got to make the first move and show interest. I’m just thinking to myself, “yeah, because no way in hell would any bitch dare do that service for me just once.” It’s either you do 100% of the work or you get NOTHING. Women have to exert 0% effort and they get a smorgasbord of possible relationships. This is —again—the definition of bulls~~~.

Work- well, for the time being, I was fortunate enough to be able to go back to school and not have to work. After my separation, I was forced to live with my mom so life is good and living is cheap. The ex monster can deal with all the house bills and her new sixty year old husband. Haha. As for finding a woman at school, we have like literally three females in our classes at any given time and no thank you.

I’m actually not this vitriolic in real life. I’m considered mild mannered, and have been told I exhibit class by those I give a f~~~ in regards to their opinions. Anyway, I know there is more to be said but I feel like stopping here. I know this is old hat for many of you veterans. I just wanted to throw it back out there and I’m sure many of you see some of yourself in this. I wanted to say ‘hello’. This is my first post but I’ve been perusing the forums for quite some time. I think there are some really good things happening for men here. I want to do whatever I can to influence men not to marry these bitches or give up your man card, dishonoring yourself by bowing down to their bulls~~~. As much as I’d like to find a relationship with a woman, I know that it’s a needle in a haystack. There’s a plethora of bulls~~~ to sift through and so few good ones left. Feminism and the media have ruined them. They now think they s~~~ golden nuggets in the morning and p~~~ golden streams of urine. F~~~ THAT. I have better things to do and so do you.

Thanks for listening.

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

You’re right, if not in excelent shape and extraordinarily handsome and rich and educated and smart and, and, and……

The women entitlement for absolute top-notch, never ceases to amaze. But you took the wise man’s path and opted out.
When Brad Pitt can’t satisfy the entitlement of a bitch with a history of being HOE (horizontal orientated entertainer), why even bother trying? When getting into your 40s you just stand and walk tall, but leave the chasing to the less experienced.

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[xenonParticipant 2007]

Yup yup and yup. In the end tally it is going to be all the truly decent men pulling their decent-ness (and considerable talents, income and tax dollars) from the court that ends this sick overtime game we have been playing and answers the eternal rhetorical question of where all the good men went. Away is where I went. You can only crush each individual soul so many times, or so badly before the machine tilts. I tilted. While I may be found tilting at windmills still, they are my own windmills, horse, landscape and jousting gear.

[Manspread MansplainerParticipant 4222]

I am getting a fleshlight.

Look into that man I’ve heard good things.

The female has been made obsolete by a vagina shaped tube.

The only thing a woman is truly good for is no longer needed. A f~~~ing stretch of skin you ram your dick in once in a while.

Let them have Chads. Let them have cats. Let them have dildos cause they are independant woman.

The wall is their enemy. I know a c~~~ who got so mad because a guy told her she looked old that she went and f~~~ed a beta on her dads kitchen table just to prove she was still young looking.

We get wiser with age. They stay misandric and get more bitter. Those pussy flaps will droop in opposite directions and they will get more and more miserable.

Live your MGTOW life.
Do what you want.
Don’t waste ANY time or money giving attention to a woman.

They can’t live without their phone and your attention. The female body and psyche requires constant validation which is why they need the approval of men and show off to their hive.

Starve them of this power you posess over them. They will fade away in a mass of cat hair, wrinkles and pussy stank.

Welcome to freedom!

Enjoy YOUR life on YOUR terms.

If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.

[Anonymous 5]

Unless you’re in the top 5-10% of males on dating sites, bars or wherever women hook up,,,,you may as well not be there because they’re looking for status symbols, bad boys, alpha f~~~s.
As you’ve stated, the attention women have online, even 6’s and 7’s, is historically mind boggling.
Their c~~~ count is also historically mind boggling.

However, when they’re about to fall off the carousel they have a whole different set of criteria, they’re after beta bucks.
As you age, be wary of the conditioning you’ve experienced and absorbed as an average or even above average male.
After many years of being ignored, men have a strong tendency to think a woman is special or different when they finally take an interest in him.
Despite what they say, women are very businesslike when they’re shopping for a partner to leech off.

[WolfInSheepsClothingParticipant 21]

I think we are all told or convince ourselves of a great lie. The lie that there is a woman out there just like us. This is what keeps us hopeful and searching. This woman, in my case, would like pc gaming, working out, horror movies, cuddling, sex and so forth. When in reality, out of those very f~~~ing reasonable interests, she might like one of them and merely tolerate some of the others. She will probably hold your interests against you even if she holds the same interest anyway. Gaming will almost certainly be a major f~~~ing issue. You might as well say you sold your soul to the devil. Even if they say they like it, it’s most likely bulls~~~ and they really only liked it because of the attention losers give them while online gaming. Anyway, it’s just a fat lie. There is very doubtfully anyone who likes the same things you do unless they are a fellow man—especially for the same reasons. Don’t even get me started on the sin of gaming.

[WolfInSheepsClothingParticipant 21]

“Unless you’re in the top 5-10% of males on dating sites, bars or wherever women hook up,,,,you may as well not be there because they’re looking for status symbols, bad boys, alpha f~~~s.” And people might wonder why I’m not having a good time there. hmmm. B/C of this exactly. You better be a f~~~ing male stud, a real Fabio on steroids, or you might as well sit over in the corner by the jukebox and jerk off. F~~~ THAT!

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

WolfInSheepsClothing wrote:

Anyway, it’s just a fat lie

It’s all just part of the blue pill programming that is so thorough and complete. Once you assimilate the Red Pill, and become awakened, then you begin to see the blatant LIES of the MATRIX!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[narwhalParticipant]

WolfInSheepsClothing wrote:

So, without further ado, where would a poor bastard find a date:

Stop right there. The implication is that you’re a ‘poor bastard’ because you don’t have the approval of women. That’s the lie you’ve been told. A man isn’t a man if he doesn’t have the approval of a woman.

Trash that idea. Throw it out. Your worth is dependent on what you say it is, not her.

So if you want to date, do it for you under the conditions you set. If you find a woman who fits under those conditions, then good. If not, THEN GOOD.

Ok. Then do it.

[WolfInSheepsClothingParticipant 21]

Yes, I may have said that wrong haha. I’m actually, within the last year, fully coming to understand that a man is STILL a man regardless of how many women he has slept with, or not slept with or if he currently has a significant other or what that significant other looks like. In other words, you and I are the “the s~~~” regardless of what women try to say or not say via their actions and/or words. I don’t need a woman’s approval to know that I’m awesome and my life is fascinating and empowering. If you’re looking for a woman to validate your manhood than you are going to be sadly disappointed. Their validation is worthless. I’d hold more validity to an animals approval than theirs. haha.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Bro. I would buy you a beer. Its a shame that articulate, intelligent, hard-working men are being thrown to the way side. In the 1900’s that would count for something. With today’s women, that will never happen. These c~~~s are on their planet called EGO, which is orbited by the moon: Narcissism. They can stay there for all I care… Also, don’t ever use female validation to assess your self worth. YOU determine your self-worth, not some stupid c~~~.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Anonymous 54]

Sniff

[Anonymous 54]

Sniff

WolfInSheepsClothing wrote:

I’m awesome and my life is fascinating and empowering.

There are so many female phrases, I cant count them all.

” she smells like she wipes back to front” please….

[Anonymous 54]

This place has become a shelter for batterd lesbians.

[WolfInSheepsClothingParticipant 21]

yeah, she smelled like ass if that makes you feel better. Sorry if I got too sentimental and effeminate for you, try not to cry.

[Anonymous 54]

Nice try.Dyke.

[WolfInSheepsClothingParticipant 21]

I’m not sure what the guidelines are about responding to this sort of bulls~~~ nor am I going to waste my time looking it up. I’m done here.

[Chris1234Participant 353]

I was cooked by 35. Friends uncle who is twice divorced told me he could have retired by 40 if he never got married and stayed away from women. I no longer date and focus on work and $$$. Early retirement is the goal, not wasting $$$ trying to impress some girl!

[Anonymous 54]

Im not going to waste my time qouteing every female phrase.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

WolfInSheepsClothing wrote:

I cancelled my account about six months ago

I cancelled years ago when I arrived at exactly the same conclusions.

WolfInSheepsClothing wrote:

Online Dating Sites- This is the biggest f~~~ing joke and ass backward method

Yes it is. And notice your realization….

WolfInSheepsClothing wrote:

“Unless you’re in the top 5-10% of males on dating sites, bars or wherever women hook up…… you may as well not be there because they’re looking for status symbols, bad boys, alpha f~~~s.”

^^^ Thats’ what’s backwards. You’re too concerned about what “THEY” are looking for.

Until you meet her in person and she has made at least one effort to mean anything to you, don’t give a rat-f~~~ what a woman is “looking for” — evvvver.

I’m serious. As soon as you realize this, the frustration of it all vanishes instantly. Based on what “she’s looking for”, you’re disqualifying yourself (mentally) instead of ONLY concentrating on qualifying HER.

That’s it.

The only thing that matters is what are YOU looking for?

Think about it. Why would you give a f~~~ what she’s looking for? Is she gonna ask for YOUR number? Is she going to make an initiative to meet in person? Is she going to make reservations or come up with creative and fun plan? NO! She expects YOU to do that. So who would ever give a s~~~ what she is looking for?????

You don’t’ know her yet.
Therefore — >> she doesn’t MEAN ANYTHING to you.

… and since she doesn’t MEAN ANYTHING to you yet…..
What she’s looking for can’t possibly MEAN ANYTHING to you either.

Congratulations. Problem solved.

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Women actually have this f~~~ed up idea in their heads that we care about what THEY are “looking for”. I have actually been stunned at the umber of stupid c~~~s who responded hello by saying something like “It’s just us girls tonight. We’re not really interested”.

The only acceptable response to “hello” is….. another “hello”.
Not “im not interested”.

“Honey, I didn’t come here to find out if you are interested. I came here to find out if > > I < < could be interested. So don't get confused. And thanks for making it easy."

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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