The cycle of madness- 3 years after the red pill

[IgnisParticipant 157]

We all made stupid things before swallowing the red pill.
It has been 3 years since I swallowed mine and I wanted to share a recent thought.
When I was a teen I wanted to have a girlfriend, because everyone make it seem important. I wanted that but I couldn’t. Girls were only friends with me. “You are too nice” they said. “Let’s be friends”. I was the nice guy for so long that I became bitter when I realized that you had to be an asshole or a “bad boy” to be able to f~~~ them. After that I turned into one. It worked…sort of. But now I understand that everything was a waste of time.
There is no “nice guy” or “bad boy”. Don’t try to be those. It’s a cycle of madness. There is only you and if you change yourself just to f~~~ a c~~~ who wants to be treated like s~~~ you become s~~~. You become a worthless human shell that seeks attention, an “attention whore-man”. Sex is not worth that much effort, much less if you do it with a c~~~. I was sick for beliving that, society is sick for putting too much atenttion into it. Stop pursuing sex. Sex exists for reproduction, everything else is marketing preying on your need for pleasure.
If the man you want to be is surrounded by hot girls, think again cause you are brainwashed. You don’t need that. You don’t need women that much. It’s a lie.
You need friends (men or women), not to rely on them but to learn from them. Those people can help you to become a real man.
I now choose to be the “no f~~~ guy”.I watch the nice guy, the bad boy and the c~~~ suffer while they come to me for advice. Now, if a girl tells me “Let’s be friends” I am happy, because I will not have to suffer her stupidity, her bulls~~~ or her dramas.
Real men need real women, not little girls or c~~~s.

I don’t know if this is just a mixed bag of feelings but I needed to take this out of my chest. And I know this is the best place to do it. Thanks for being you, guys.

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

We are all but a meatbag of chemicals. You have a good understanding of how those chemicals ebb and flow and are wise to be ‘YOU’ rather than change to fit the title of ‘nice guy’ or the ‘bad boy’.

#ManOut

[IgnisParticipant 157]

Yeah, it just makes no sense beign neither of those.

[Anonymous 1]

Ignis wrote:

The cycle of madness- 3 years after the red pill

There’s method in our madness, and only madness in their method.

[Anonymous 54]

Nicely said. Women go back and forth in there stupid little minds between the bad boy and nice guy.When bad boy hurts them enough they run to nice guy,then they get bored,find another bad boy. Round and round they go.Its always best to just be yourself,and dont bother with mixed up bitches.

[narwhalParticipant]

I don’t know about this ‘real men’ and ‘real women’ stuff, but agree that it’s best to be yourself. That said though, being yourself doesn’t mean your actions don’t have consequences, or that a person can’t change themselves if they want to be a better version of themselves.

Too many people use ‘just being me’ as an excuse for bad behavior, or that they need to be appreciated for s~~~. That’s the same crap that women try to pull with the ‘fat shaming BS’

Ok. Then do it.

[Everything is all we’ve gotParticipant 233]

I mean, it’s kinda good when you’re considered just a friend to a girl, but there’s been more than one occasion where I’ve had to tell them to stfu about their day to day whining as I really can’t be arsed listening to them.

But some very good advice there, it’s funny when a guy shows you their true self after spending so long keeping up a douche facade.

"You can suffer from a life experience, or you can learn, move on and thrive."

[Anonymous 11]

The bad boy can easily morph himself into whatever a woman’s fantasy requires to get into her pants or even pay all of his bills for him.

The nice guy lives another kind of lie.

[IgnisParticipant 157]

@Everything is all we’ve got
If she rants just say “yeah” or “I know” to everything. Don’t ever give advice like it matters XD Just chill. As “friends” some are good company. Some are a pain in the ass (ditch those).

[MemberParticipant 323]

“The bad boy can easily morph himself into whatever a woman’s fantasy requires to get into her pants or even pay all of his bills for him.

The nice guy lives another kind of lie.”

Very well put. Too many “nice” guys don’t get to f~~~ the girl they want or do lots of things because they were taught to be “nice”. Go against your “nice” impulses sometimes and do what you really want…..you only live once. Buy that shiny red sports car you wanted…hit on that brunette down the street you thought was smoking hot….don’t feel guilty about enjoying yourself in this life. There will be plenty of occasion to be “nice” the rest of your life. To deny yourself what you want IS another kind of lie!

[AttonParticipant]

Oz-Bloke wrote:

We are all but a meatbag of chemicals.

Oh f~~~ it has already started everyone run the robots are taking over.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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