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When my wife and I went on our honeymoon back in 2004, she couldn’t get off her cellphone until I got p~~~ed off. That was supposed to be OUR time, I should have known then the mistake I made. The problem continued till we went to smartphones, and then it became much worse. That is when I thought to myself: “If ya can’t beat em, join em”. Whenever we went shopping at some place that bored me to tears, I broke out my smartphone. Whenever we went out to eat and she started messing with her smartphone, I did the same. Whenever she messed with her smartphone at home, I jumped on my PC. MAN, did she get annoyed! It became a total communication breakdown but I had been the only one communicating since our honeymoon anyway. It ruined our marriage.
Today, I look around and see millennial girls texting while driving, they are more dangerous than a drunk driver. I drive a bus at a major university and have been hit twice in the last seven months by a stupid c~~~ texting, there have been countless near-misses I avoided. That is not to say that guys don’t also do it but the girls are much worse. The legal punishment should be as harsh as drunk driving but once again, females get off light. If the current penalty for texting behind the wheel is just, we owe a big apology to drunk drivers. Male, female, transgender or whatever: PUT THE F~~~ING PHONE DOWN!
PUT THE F~~~ING PHONE DOWN!
Abso-f~~~ing-lutely share that sentiment. And as a matter of fact, @SPIRITRR created an epic thread on this a couple of days ago. He also called it “the final nail in the coffin”.
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My personal tolerance is at zero on this topic, and I have walked away from people mid-sentence without even excusing myself – and felt really good about it!
I have a large postcard size “flashcard” in my glove box that says “DROP THE PHONE AND ENJOY THE RIDE!” which I hold up to any driver I spot holding a phone. I belonged to a friend who had a Mini Cooper, and MINI actually made these flashcards. I told him I HAVE to have that one.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
Anonymous42I think I’m gonna fill my doors and bumpers with reinforced concrete just to be F~~~ING SAFE! C~~~less times they’ve cum over the yellow lines doing GOD KNOWS WHAT! I wish I had penny for every c~~~ I could have BROADsided and been 100% in the f~~~ing clear! I got so good at it that I’ll clip them or even slam them before I’ll take the BRUNT of something WORSE!
Warning to you f~~~ing c~~~s texting and driving, I’ll slam your pretty little drivers door LONG BEFORE YOU MANIPULATE ME INTO A F~~~ING TREE!
These f~~~ing c~~~s should be made to listen the screams of agony and the smell of blood as I have, all because SOMEONE WASN’T F~~~ING DRIVING!
They wanna drive like s~~~? Okay, but when PUSH TURNS TO SHOVE THEY’LL be the ones EATING F~~~ING TREE!
It ruined our marriage.
It is exactly like that! My wife constantly talks to her smartphone (not directly with a human being), plays absolutely silly games or reads “romantic!?!” books on the small display. When someone talks to her, she reacts retarded, as if she is returning from another world. The smartphone is nowadays the strongest legal drug, even before alcohol. In my opinion there is no way back to the old days.
The only way back from cell phone bs culture is an EMP.
Anonymous11A friend’s daughter spends so much time with her smartphone that it’s beginning to cause eye strain headaches. Does she heed the doctor’s advice? No….
Anonymous13It’s GAME OVER!
All drivers BEWARE of women and their smartphones!
THIS IS WHY IT’S OVER!
Anonymous13The Smartphone ALONE, even without all the other s~~~, means it’s GAME OVER!
If you’re married or in a relationship with a woman, then you’re in a THREESOME competing with this Disloyalty/Cheating Device.
The smartphone gives them an information super highway internet connection to all their MEDIA, Facebook, Instagram, Dating sites, orbiters, ‘friends’ etc. AND the HIVE is on 24/7 365 standby.
They simply use it to cheat, either physically or emotionally,
OR BOTH.
OK, even if we assume there’s no cheating going on (yeah right)
They’re still using it to bitch about you silently to the aforementioned HIVE.
Even while you’re in the SAME F~~~ING ROOM!
This is DISLOYAL to you, (without loyalty you have nothing) even just messaging the HIVE,
‘oh he did this or he said that’LOYALTY IS NUMERO UNO.
YOU have NO marriage privacy with them and this device.
You didn’t before, (at least they had to meet up for coffee with the hive to bitch) but now it’s been gained up by a factor of a thousand, it’s off the charts.
Every woman comes standard issue with a ‘Disloyalty/Cheating Device’ called a smartphone.
Everywhere you go, everywhere you look. Women’s faces buried in their smartphones.
It doesn’t matter if they’re young teenagers or 50 something housewives. Tap, tap, tap.
So, if you go to a restaurant and she pulls out a smart phone to check out how many likes her latest duck faced selfie is getting.
LEAVE.
Harsh? Not nearly f~~~ing harsh enough.
Like I said,
Every woman now comes with a hand held Disloyalty/Cheating Device.
Don’t put up with it.
ZERO TOLERANCE.
F~~~ THAT noise!
Anonymous13One more thing before I get back in my box.
This Smartphone addiction with them is ABSOLUTELY TERMINAL.
It can NOT be fixed.
If anything it will get worse.
There is NO way back!
Hence it’s Game Over!
MGTOW.
It TRULY is Amazing that your average Women can do all that reading, texting, and swiping considering all that’s going on with that lil hamster Running, P~~~in, and S~~~tinn at the same time.
In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash
They wanna drive like s~~~? Okay, but when PUSH TURNS TO SHOVE THEY’LL be the ones EATING F~~~ING TREE!
That’s why you won’t see me in a small car. I always preferred models that were used by stock car and crash racers. These tests are better than any industry manipulated crash tests that are far from reality.
I know that when a 20 Euro HongKong jack whines and aches lifting one side of the front of my car… You don’t want that to slam in your tiny hatchback’s left door.
My car approaches 300,000 Kilometers. I bought it when it had 215,000 but it has been mistreated ever since.
Like a cat, it must have 100 lives.
My other car, a T4 VW-Bus now has 230,000 km on the clock. I got it 17 years ago from DHL when it had only 80.000.
150.000 “short range” kilometers, from “customer to customer”. At any weather, even in the deepest snow, through curvy roads and in hilltop locations.
Whenever I can I drive like you see criminals fleeing from the cops…
I like the VW-Bus, it has a sports car-like single wheel suspension system, Bilstein shock-absorbers and handles like a car… Where as other small buses rather handle “sticky” like a truck…No real power but safe to handle. Especially with 1 ton of tools and test equipment on board.
And in 24 years and 35000 service calls, no accident ever happened. But never count the times when I just saw the roof of a car from a distance and slowed down – only to find someone looking down the steering wheel (texting) and entering the intersection without looking left and right.
Since smartphones, driving has become a “100 % CPU usage” thing. It is no longer “relaxed” like it was in the 1990’s…
NOW, you can die in seconds without being at fault. It’s a constant lookout for the foolish actions of others endangering your life.
I am always ready to brake and swirl around anything, like you see in some movies. And that helped me though all of these years.
I had people getting p~~~ed off about me, telling me that I would provoke passive accidents by the aggressive way I drive… And then I showed them the old and almost antique papers on my 2 cars and my antique driver’s licence from the date it was issued and that shows them that it was never taken away…
And they were p~~~ed that someone with such a driving style would have “wreckless” 24+ years…
I just say:
– no alcohol
– no drugs
– no smartphone, no “important” distractions
– turning down my music at intersections and traffic lights
– no nagging c~~~ in the passenger seat
– knowing when to drive cautiously: Daily state of concentration, energy, tiredness… Just knowing my limits.
– always be self-critical on your current state of health
– respect the weather, I let housewives “push me around”/tailgate me whenever the roads are wet and the temperatures are at freezing point… After all my last accident in 1994 was due to getting “received” by black ice that was only present in that one last curve and I should have anticipated it.
– when going 180 kM/h on a normal road, (some people call that risky) but risky is only doing it when you can’t see far enough to be able to get to a standstill when some obstacles appear on the road. Reduce speed according to visibility and always when going FAST over hilltops. That includes slowing down at night when deer crosses the road unexpectedly. Over the years, I hit a few roe deer but they all ran away alive… I was never too fast. But one time in 2011, my front tires were shot, better than buying a new car.– And after all, get important parts of the car well equipped and maintained. Like putting the most valuable and expensive shock absorbers into your “every day money making” service car… And buy brand name tires…
And people get mad at my lectures because they have deeply engraved in their minds that “driving fast” is dangerous and leads to accidents. I am the perfect proof that this is not the case.
It is rather their smartphone addiction and stubbornness that ruins their statistics. And makes them car-loan pay-off slaves to the auto industry.
Anyway:
I am no angel. I sometimes go so fast that I see “only the roof” of a car in front of me and have to hit the brakes full on. But it goes so unconsciously “automatic” that passengers panic, while I just grin as if it was totally normal.
But always: No distractions.
All these things learned by making mistakes and learning from them.
I can write books on that. Everyone having had these scary seconds of falling asleep on the motorway and getting woken by the tires going “whoop whoop” over the white center line… It happens once and from then on, you rather get some sleep on some dark and creepy resting point at night than to die in a multi-car collision at high speed.
I can’t imagine using the phone in the car and having your first “dangerous encounter” and still do the same s~~~ over and over again.
Of course, I have had similar distractions while driving, like playing with the radio… And now I know when to do it and when not to do it.
I guess that this “smartphone texting while driving problem” is worst with women because they cling to the same behavioral pattern as they do in real life:
– They are never wrong, women are to stubborn to see when they make mistakes. It’s your fault for being there when they crash into you.
– And they will never change any behavior they once adopted. Snowflakes are “strong and empowered” and “don’t take s~~~ from men”…They behave on the road the same way as they do in relationships:
– reckless
– stubborn
– opinionated
– revenge seeking, competitive… LOL.
– aggressive
– super smart, disrespecting the weather…
– living in the “now” not thinking about tomorrow
– no accountability
– no responsibilityAdd if I forgot something…
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SpiritRR “If you’re married or in a relationship with a woman, then you’re in a THREESOME competing with this Disloyalty/Cheating Device. The smartphone gives them an information super highway internet connection to all their MEDIA, Facebook, Instagram, Dating sites, orbiters, ‘friends’ etc. AND the HIVE is on 24/7 365 standby. They simply use it to cheat, either physically or emotionally”
F~~~ing A! That was what happened in 2012 when I caught my 2nd wife having phone sex and sending pictures of her pussy over her smartphone. I tried to make things work but after another ongoing affair, we are now separated. We are technically still married (on paper and insurance only) but she is now riding her third horse on the carousel. What little hope successful marriages had in modern times have now been destroyed by the smartphone. Any man still married needs to cut his losses and get the hell away. This device will turn even the strongest Alpha male into a cuckold and there is nothing anyone can do to stop it!
Anonymous13SpiritRR “If you’re married or in a relationship with a woman, then you’re in a THREESOME competing with this Disloyalty/Cheating Device. The smartphone gives them an information super highway internet connection to all their MEDIA, Facebook, Instagram, Dating sites, orbiters, ‘friends’ etc. AND the HIVE is on 24/7 365 standby. They simply use it to cheat, either physically or emotionally”
F~~~ing A! That was what happened in 2012 when I caught my 2nd wife having phone sex and sending pictures of her pussy over her smartphone. I tried to make things work but after another ongoing affair, we are now separated. We are technically still married (on paper and insurance only) but she is now riding her third horse on the carousel. What little hope successful marriages had in modern times have now been destroyed by the smartphone. Any man still married needs to cut his losses and get the hell away. This device will turn even the strongest Alpha male into a cuckold and there is nothing anyone can do to stop it!
I bang on about this s~~~ because it’s an ABSOLUTE FINAL NAIL.
There’s no way back from this, for anyone.
I wish it was not the case, but as we know, where does wishing get us.
F~~~ing NOWHERE.
NO sane man can or should even try to compete with these device.
Not unless you want a world of pain and the feelings that go with knowing she’s doing s~~~ behind your back, cheating or at the very least gossiping.
Your life is worth so much more than that s~~~.
One Hypergamous Woman + One Smartphone = GAME OVER.
Oh man, if you’re dealing with this, you need to know, right here, right now, that you’re just prolonging YOUR pain.
Get the f~~~ out.
Walk away.
My wife is married to her phone – she’s always on it checking Facebook or playing her stupid games. Why not go out and get some exercise on a nice day? Nope, would rather sit on her ass playing games and bitch about how she’s overweight.
Trust me, if it wasn’t for the two little kids in my house, I’d get the hell out (and if I was guaranteed to get full custody, I’d be gone). It’s not like we’re married anyway – sex is maybe once every other year. It’s like living with a lazy nag that you just can’t escape.
Crowbar Damn it, sorry for your situation. I thank God that my second wife and I didn’t have children. I found her on a dating site and found out she couldn’t have children. I may have been a fool for marrying her but at least I had learned something from my first marriage. She later wanted to adapt but I said NO! She never forgave me for that but you remind me of the lose-lose situation I would have been in. I kicked my wife out after an ongoing relationship she had last Christmas and that was bad enough. If I had done the same with a child involved (whether the child stayed or went), the court would have eaten me alive.
You have heard the warnings and do not be surprised if you discover something you wish you hadn’t. I hope I am wrong but I know where that road can lead and it can f~~~ a man up. Don’t let anyone try to tell you that sending pics of pussy or phone sex isn’t cheating because it still hurts like hell. My wife and I haven’t had sex since March/2016 and now, I would spurn her if she wanted it. She has been riding the c~~~ carousel for awhile now and I don’t care for sloppy seconds. Keep your integrity and get away from her when you can.
Thanks, Sparky. I’m not worried about her cheating (she’s not wired like that, plus she’s put on a bunch of weight), and even if she did, that would give me a reason to take the kids and leave.
I have been married to two Land whales and it didn’t stop either from cheating multiple times. She can still take the kids and perhaps everything else, depending on the situation. Do what you wish though.
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