The cops payed me a visit

[MemberParticipant 323]

This sounds terrible. Hard to say what the kid told the EX but I am sure she amplified it. Possibly the kid was just complaining about you drinking and the EX decided to kick it up a notch and call the cops on you? I am sure the EX is ready to bend over backwards to get the kid back just to prove she is the better parent. Or it could be that your daughter is just as bad as the EX. If that is the case then Yes I would agree and think strongly about sending her back to Mom. Maybe have a talk with her before the EX so that she understands what is going to happen. She may reveal something you didn’t think of which caused some kind of misunderstanding. Probably not the case but don’t burn bridges with kids unless she really has proven to be unworthy of your kindness.

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9544]

One story of person who just drank beer in front of a YouTube, and another story on this topic of someone not letting his daughter to some party, and being arrested for it? And the cops are dumb enough to fall for it. Since when does not allowing your kid to not party make you such an unfit parent or a felon? Kids now a days are not loyal to their parents. They’re rude, mean, loud, bothersome and are just not your friend. Seriously, drinking a beer in front of the computer? My dad would of gotten life in jail, because ever since my mom moved out of our lives, my dad drinks about 6 beers a day working in the yard or his pond. Face it, kids and wives are your worst enemy.

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

ResidentEvil7 wrote:

And the cops are dumb enough to fall for it

Cops aren’t dumb… they get off on playing daddy to females. It’s a power trip for them to f~~~ with another man’s situation and have his female depending on them rather than him. Most men in uniform are the kind of guys who couldn’t get any action on their own so had to snipe at other dudes who were successful with females so whenever there’s a situation when a security guard, cop or soldier can damsel some chick, they’re all f~~~ing over it.

The government needs females to legitimize their efforts to extract resources from men and men in uniform love to serve as proxy force for those females and will put a boot on a real man’s neck whenever the opportunity presents itself.

The days when women were loyal and grateful, uniformed men where honorable and true and governments supported creation and self-sufficiency are all long gone. Productive men used to be at the apex of society, recognized for their contributions and supported by the institutions they had created. Now those institutions have turned on us and we have gone from riding in the coach to pulling the wagon.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I don’t know doc, it seems that men have been bearing that yoke forever throughout history. The danty snowflake not so much.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[TheBardParticipant 974]

ResidentEvil7 wrote:

One story of person who just drank beer in front of a YouTube, and another story on this topic of someone not letting his daughter to some party, and being arrested for it?

I thought we had male privilege lol.

As someone who works at a high school many of the students are good and the issues we have no really nothing more then typical teenage issues. Sure you have some students that are in a gang or deal with drugs and what not, but it seems the biggest issue now is social media and phones.

OP as much as I want a daughter and could never think about cutting her out of my life if she is going to pull s~~~ like this then you might just have to do it.

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

Orlando wrote:

I go up and open the door and there are 3 cops standing in my doorway. As it turns out, my teenage daughter, who lives with me, called my ex and she called the cops.

My crime? I was drinking beer while watching YouTube videos.

The cops acted like assholes and sternly told me that since I had been drinking, my daughter was being taken to a safe house, and that if I attempted to get her I would be arrested and a restraining order would be put in place from the people that owned the safe house. How f~~~ing quaint.

I live in a nice, quiet neighborhood, and I have a bunch of cop cars swarming my house because I drank beer while watching YouTube. I can only imagine what the neighbors were thinking. I don’t think I did anything wrong, but yet I am so embarrassed. How f~~~ed up is this situation?

As it turns out, my daughter was back in a few days and my ex told me it was just a misunderstanding.

Not for me. This situation is really bothering me today. I’m p~~~ed. I got to eat another s~~~ sandwich.

All I can say is think hard about that whole relations~~~/marriage thing. This is what your special snowflake can, and probably will do for you if you tread there.

1. You need to know the law. You are on your property and no crime was committed. The cops need to come back with a warrant and something to charge you with. They need to get the f~~~ off your property otherwise. Is this canada or something I’m not understanding?

2. Wtf? Your ex called the cops, for what? And how was it a misunderstanding? I’m sorry where the f~~~ is this all going down?

3. Hate to say it but you may need to break contact with your daughter. Invest in a f~~~ing camera, shot gun, and lawyers ready to sue cops.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Stargazer wrote:

The days when women were loyal and grateful, uniformed men where honorable and true and governments supported creation and self-sufficiency are all long gone. Productive men used to be at the apex of society, recognized for their contributions and supported by the institutions they had created.

Sadly, this seems to be more and more the case. Going Galt doesn’t seem as crazy anymore, not to me at least. Depressing stuff…

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[OrlandoParticipant 833]

No crime was committed, and I don’t understand why my ex called the cops in the first place. She could have just called me if she had concerns. I do know that she is a tyrant and is fully aware she can use the state for her own purposes.

I have no idea what my ex told the cops during her phone call, but it appears she told my daughter to go with the cops. Although I was on my own property, the cops are legally required to respond in my state and the phone call likely gave them “probable cause” to investigate since a minor was involved.

However, they did not search my house, they did not see any alcohol, and they didn’t take a breathalyzer on me. Of course, after a couple of beers, I wasn’t buzzed much anyway and I don’t think I appeared intoxicated.

I’m thinking this interaction could have gone bad if I was belligerent or refused to allow her to go. I don’t doubt that I was put in a dangerous situation. I’m mad as hell about it.

I consider myself to be a responsible person. I work hard and pay the bills before they are due. I recall a time about 5 years ago, back in my blue pill days, when my ex hurt her back and lost her job. I didn’t want my daughter to end up on the street, so for almost a year I payed my ex’s house payment, payed all of her utilities, payed for their food, and even payed for new clothes so she could interview for jobs. This is in addition to the child support I continued to pay.

This is the thanks I got.

There is no misunderstanding for me. I am done, and I’m going ghost.. My ex can f~~~ off. If my daughter wants to contact me, I am open. She has her own cell phone and she knows my number. I haven’t received any calls from her to talk about it, though. I don’t know if I will. Time will tell.

In the mean time, I’m living for myself in order to protect myself.

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