The case of the male and female losers of society

[HermitParticipant 1121]

Funny how men can frequently be called losers but women never are. At least not publicly. Late in life I chose not to play “winners vs. losers” because its a suckers game. One year you’re up, the next you’re down.
I don’t even shoot for happiness because that is a temporary, unsustainable emotion. I have learned in my older age to aim for “CONTENT”. You know, the ability to look around and say to yourself, if it never gets better than this, I’m okay with that. If you can reach that point, you have really won the game of life, IMHO. The best way to start is getting your passions and desires under control. You do this by thinking about the long term costs and consequences vs. the short term benefit.
Anyway, that’s my take on it, for what its worth.

I don't hate women. I just feel better when they're not around.

[X11Spectator 4520]

I am a loser and as soon as my mortgage is paid off I plan to become an even bigger loser by retreating fully into my compound.

I can’t wait to lose more, it keeps me motivated.

I am losing at losing quick enough to be a total loser because I still have to do winning to help me lose more.

X11, winning at losing.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6413]

Watch out for the losers .. one might not see the forest for the trees.
I once knew a guy, let’s call him John .. who might fit the contemporary definition of a loser profile. Not my definition, but the media’s definition of an atypical personality existing in our society.
He bought and fixed broken down golf carts .. and returned them to service renting these used models to small golf courses. He had a truck and trailer and could haul two carts at a time. Now that’s a pretty small business.
This guy had suffered from infantile paralysis as a child and always walked with a slight limp .. his back was also bent so that he looked up as he talked to you.
He was a friend of my family and we had him over once in awhile for dinner and I also visited his shop several times when I was younger .. along with my Dad.
When John passed away, in his eighties, he never married and he was still running his golf cart repair and rental business which was then inherited by his only living sister. She followed his request that a portion of his estate be donated to worthy causes in the area.
I remember my amazement when I read in the local newspaper that part of his estate was being donated to a local Arboretum to preserve a tract of land for the enjoyment of future generations.
That one donation alone was in excess of one million dollars.
Now if you had met John and seen how simply he lived and dressed, living alone his entire life and looking outwardly more like a pauper than a millionaire. Who would have guessed? I had no clue. I always saw him as looking kind of poor.
John had the whole essence of his life, a forest, hidden away by the trees ne would first notice by his simple outward appearance. As a result of his way of living, frugal lifestyle, keen and steady business sense and dedication to keeping on ‘keeping on’ with his golf cart repairs and rental-sales-leasing .. he slowly and secretly became wealthy.
Other than his sister, I honestly believe most people saw him as struggling to make ends meet never had a clue what he had done in private working his dollars instead of frittering them away.
John may have been labeled as a loser from all outward appearances .. but he had the last laugh and so many people will enjoy the hiking, camping and nature as a result of his million dollar plus donation to save the land.
I also found out later that John had a graduate degree in Plant Biology. He lived his simple, frugal life hiding many interesting secrets .. which only came to light after his passing.

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

Enjoy The Decline wrote:

To many people, a loser in society is someone who is not making a lot of money, because they are not as educated or skilled in things that would not make them a lot of money in and would actually have the hard life because of it. I myself am probably not gonna make that much money though in the very near future, but at least I would do something that I would love to do with no cost against happiness.
The thing is though is that, there are the male losers of society and there are the female losers of society. If a male is a loser because he is not making a lot of money, girls are probably gonna marry the guy so that she could mold him to her liking or she would not even bother dealing with him at all. But if a female is a loser of society who would not even like the job that she does, all she has to do is look pretty, find a guy to marry her because the guy would want to save her from her situation, and then she would have babies with the guy and would also get some money from the government from having these babies without actually having to work in jobs that she does not like to work anymore for a long while. She does not even have to marry the guy to have babies with him and would even get benefits anyways. She can even break up with the guy and force the guy to pay for alimony for having the children and she would also get government benefits still. Females usually always get the child in the end after the break up due to court intervention, so remember that.
Most of the times the female usually gets the children and to her eyes, why would she even bother upholding a standard for herself and actually work in the relationship with her husband if she could just leave the guy and make even more money since single parents make more money from the government than a parent with a partner? If you even think that all you would have to be is a stay at home dad for your partner by the way, well you are just going against human biology in doing so and western society even frowns upon that sort of thing like a famous Psychologist like Dr.Phil for instance.

You’re whole post, tells me you know what’s going on……

Keymaster wrote:

Let’s translate “loser” from women-speak into Manglish. “Loser” in woman-speak simply means a man who is smart enough to do things that are in HIS best interest.
• You don’t spend your hard-earned money on women – you are a loser
• You expect regular sex – you are a loser
• You are not interested in marriage – you are a loser
• You don’t want to be stuck with kids – you are a loser
• You don’t want to slave away 60 hours a week so a woman can buy a new SUV every year – you are a loser
• You prefer Eastern European women who treat you better – you are a HUUGE LOOOSER
The alternative to “loser” is a pussyfied man, or simply a pussy. A pussyfied man does what a woman wants – he is a docile controlled schmuck who slaves away at work, never questions anything, quietly pays her bills and does not pester her for sex.
In other words, he is an “ideal husband”.
So now when they use that word “loser”, you thank them for the compliment.

Keymaster……SPOT ON, ASS USUAL

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[Anonymous 18]

hmskl’d wrote:

I once knew a guy, let’s call him John

Men like ‘John’ are worthy of statues and highways named after them.

This is what legacy looks like.

Not getting your dick in a woman without a condom.

[Moker MgtowParticipant 141]

Anonymous wrote:

There’s also a correlation between money and misery. The vast majority of the time, the more money a person makes, the more miserable they are. This can be due to the job being high stress, working long hours, constantly having to go into work on days off, etc. The more people chase money and material possessions, the more miserable they are. These same miserable people are the ones that constantly label people in lower paying jobs as “losers” in order to stroke their own ego, because misery sure does love company.

Don’t get me wrong, I like money. Money serves as a way to reach goals. Money gets me places. Since I’ve gone MGTOW, there’s a lot of money to be saved/spend. And it’s all up to me how I divide my surplus income.

I don’t have a high paying yob, but my cost of living is very low especially here in Amsterdam. 700 Euro’s will cover every monthly bill. From mortgage, healthcare insurance, utilities, phone bill, internet bill, etc. Every Euro after the E 700 mark is mine. So I’ve managed to save a fair amount of F~~~ you Funds in the last 2 years. The rest I spend on cool stuff. If a friend calls me: “Dude, Want to spend a week in the Caribbean with me?” the plane ticket will be booked the same day. If my laptop dies on me? Meh, I’ll buy another one this afternoon.

Not many people can say that.

Still. I make only 24K a year. Low stress job. Loads of free time (I work 4 days a week). Sure, a yacht with helicopter platform is not within my reach. But I don’t need that. At all.

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