The best time is "me" time

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2096]

I’m not sure if this is an effect of getting older. I’m 43 and have always been a people person but now find my happiest moments are peacefully spent by myself. I noticed another poster describing a recent incident with a BPD and you just reach a point where you check out from women’s bs and no longer care. Used to make an effort to chat to women. Now largely ignore them, their narcissistic heads buried in their cheating devices. I like myself and time with myself. And developing my skillsets. Women and simps are making it so easy to be a MGHOW. The conflict of still desiring the stink hole gets less and less and less.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3763]

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

I’m not sure if this is an effect of getting older. I’m 43 and have always been a people person but now find my happiest moments are peacefully spent by myself. I noticed another poster describing a recent incident with a BPD and you just reach a point where you check out from women’s bs and no longer care. Used to make an effort to chat to women. Now largely ignore them, their narcissistic heads buried in their cheating devices. I like myself and time with myself. And developing my skillsets. Women and simps are making it so easy to be a MGHOW. The conflict of still desiring the stink hole gets less and less and less.

Well, as with anything in life, moderation is key.

Too much of a good thing can be bad, too much of a bad thing can be worse.

So personally, 40 hours a week surrounded by people is plenty. The rest is spent alone, recovering. lol

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

I think my desire to be around others fluctuates from time to time, based on how much I appreciate the company that is around me.
Assholes are easy to discard, but we always miss people we enjoy, until they become assholes.

[AutoliteParticipant]

DanceMyOwnWay wrote:

I’m not sure if this is an effect of getting older. I’m 43 and have always been a people person but now find my happiest moments are peacefully spent by myself.

The older we get, the more we learn and realize what most people are really like. I think it’s only reasonable to want to be left alone more often…

[QuellParticipant 2538]

The answer is to get a laid back dog. Their companionship is always waiting when you need it.

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9547]

I’m alone 95% of my life and I like it that way. The other 5% of the time I spend with my dad watching a movie on Saturday night. I prefer to be alone, because people make me angry.

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[Gravel PitParticipant]

I ran my first Half Marathon today. Im not even built like a runner, Im over 200lbs. Ran it in 2hrs, 24mins. Avg Min/Mile 10:57,

13 miles in a row.

Point is, the sort of Sovereignty available to your average MGHOW is profound. These blue pillers who think SHE is all that are missing out on the immence freedom.

My Sobriety and Sovereignty come first, thats just me! Staying sober and GMOW has given me so much joy, personal accomplishment, self esteem and more!

So having a child with a woman probably surfaces these same sorts of great feelings. How stable is that?

I see men whose entire self image/self worth is wrapped up in a woman. Thats your lifeline for god sakes that is dependant on one of the most unreliable things known to man, the loyalty and love from a woman. She pushes ejection botton from relationship, his entire psychological wellbeing goes to hell.

Dont need that. Dont need the fabricated affections that women offer at huge costs.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Other than Sex, I don’t desire anything else from any woman anymore.

As far as Sex goes, that takes about 20 minutes, and then I get on with my day…..I think Life is even SIMPLER and more SATISFYING in many ways if you don’t need/desire Sex, but for better or worse that’s not me….maybe someday????

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

Me Time. . .

Kayaking

Freediving

Playing guitar

Drinking Jagermeister and Reddhook IPA while smoking weed and listening to Sacred Reich, Testament & Death Angel

Skydiving

Hiking

Road trips

and

Watching porn

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

I used to live in a house with roommates. At the time, I wasn’t making enough money to rent an apartment. I moved into my own apartment about 4 years ago. It took a while to get used to being totally alone and having some extra bills to pay. My best friend lives about 130 miles from me, so I don’t get a chance to hang out with him much. It’s also a long drive to visit family members. Once in a while, I’ll visit my sister.

I keep myself busy with cooking meals and cleaning up the place. Sometimes I play my acoustic guitar. Sometimes I go hiking in the mountains. When I’m hiking, I don’t feel alone. I just feel peaceful. I like to get away from my dead-end job and look at the natural environment. I also like going to my local movie theater. The matinee movies are nice to go to during the weekdays (when most people are working or in school).

When I’m around people, and they start judging me for the choices I’ve made during my life, I get annoyed and feel like escaping. Some people think it’s odd that I don’t have any children—because most guys my age have produced about 2 or 3. It’s hard for me to even have lunch with my co-workers because they’ll broadcast some irritating music or TV show out of their smartphones—LOUDLY. Sometimes I eat lunch in a fast food restaurant just to get away from the work environment.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

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