The Best Follow-Up to a Relationship I've Ever Heard

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

This post is a follow-up to a post about my last relationship, which ended about 2 years ago this month.

About a week ago, I went back to the pizza place she worked at knowing she wasn’t here anymore and I needed to nab some lunch. Turns out, the manager I got to know there was still there, and he decided to give me an update on the ol’ former girlfriend.

“Dude, your former girl’s pregnant now! The guy she started dating after you has mistreated her so badly, you were an angel compared to this dude. He’s left her to raise the kid by herself and she’s dropped out of college now. She’ll be having her kid anyday now.”

BULLET. DODGED.

There’s just something that makes me feel so much better knowing that’s NOT me in that situation and to see someone that basically told me “screw you” now getting screwed over herself. If I’m doing my math right, I believe she’s now 21. Funny how the girl I was dating who was Ms. Squeaky Clean Do-No-Wrong to her white knight step-dad is not so angelic after all.

All I can say is…HAVE FUN WITH THAT.

Meanwhile, I’ll continue improving myself and enjoying my time alone as I have been for the past two years. Gets lonely sometimes, but I’ve picked up on how women behave and have picked up controlling behavior fast. I’ve had opportunities for relationships, but have ignored them or walked away from them because I’m not dealing with another abusive control freak again. Regardless, it’s kept me debt-free and child-free, and I don’t owe anyone anything.

Does anyone else have some good ol’ follow-up, karma-esque stories to add? I wanna hear them!

[Duke TogoParticipant 2664]

Unfortunately your story sounds like the norm and not something that would shock anyone here anyone.

No doubt about it, her leaving you probably at the time felt like bad luck but actually turned out to be good luck.

Enjoy your freedom amd live well brother.

DT

[WarfishParticipant 408]

you said it….. bullet dodged

[WallyParticipant]

Chris, don’t be surprised if she tries to swing back in your direction at some point, it almost always happens.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

NOW’s your chance to put on your Captain Save a Ho Cape, and fly back into her life to “rescue her”.

If you’re “lucky” you will be able to marry her and adopt her kid as well!!! LOL LOL LOL LOL

We laugh about such things, but just be grateful that you have been awakened, and won’t contemplate something as self destructive as this, but there are Manginas that not only contemplate it, but will go ahead and do it.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[SwimcatParticipant 3591]

I’m always amazed at this victim stories of women left alone with Chad’s spawn of the devil. She chose not use birth control and to have unprotected sex. She chose not to get an abortion. She chose not to have the child adopted. It’s what SHE WANTED TO DO.

Awakened is spot on. She will make an attempt to get you to be her white knight. Run brother. Run so far she’ll think the Bermuda Triangle swallowed you up. Let some other stupid SOB be her simp.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

“Revenge is a dish best served cold”.

Remember those words. Live by it.
Most of the times, life will avenge you, in a very creative way. Most of the times, you really have to do NOTHING to get your revenge.
Just stay where you can see the subject.

But, never keep the feeling of anger dominate you, or you will have to dig your own grave.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[narwhalParticipant]

Governor Megachris% wrote:

There’s just something that makes me feel so much better knowing that’s NOT me in that situation and to see someone that basically told me “screw you” now getting screwed over herself.

I get how appealing this might be, but seriously, I don’t think it’s wise to start drawing comfort from other people’s misfortune. The reality is that this ex could have very well found a blue pill rich dude that gives her all she ever wanted. Or she could figured out all her past mistakes and turned into a near unicorn. Does that mean you should feel better or worse about your own accomplishments? Hell no. What you’ve chosen in your life is not not impacted by what she’s done with hers, by design. Refuse to measure yourself by anything that your ex does.

IMO MGTOW, NFG, means that you don’t care whether it’s good or bad news. I don’t even think a person can truly just be happy when someone else gets what you think they deserve, and then shut it off completely when they don’t. You either care, or you don’t care. I get more satisfaction in knowing she’s not in my head rent free no matter what she does.

Ok. Then do it.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Governor Megachris% wrote:

Does anyone else have some good ol’ follow-up, karma-esque stories to add? I wanna hear them!

My ex had to get a divorce because she needed to show our daughters what a loving relationship looks like and we clearly didn’t have one. So she monkey-branched to a guy who looked really good on paper. Turns out he’s not so great and sponges off of her. She then tried to monkey-branch back to me and got rejected.

She’s now working harder than she ever has because the money is about to run out. And she realizes now that she screwed up. Oh, not about the relationship itself, but the monthly “pension” provided to her by my working my ass off. As an added bonus, she screwed me out of about $15k of retirement money on her way out the door, and about a year later my company decided to put me in a deferred comp plan when I got promoted, which puts about $15k a year into the plan that I don’t have to pay in to.

If there is such a thing as karma, then I should thank her for screwing me out of that 15 grand and turning it into 15 grand a year.

Order the good wine

[MonkParticipant 16996]

Governor Megachris% wrote:

This post is a follow-up to a post about my ‘last relationship’, which ended about 2 years ago this month.

Make it the LAST one – only cats have nine lives.

“Dude, your former girl’s pregnant now! The guy she started dating after you has mistreated her so badly …”

‘Mistreated her’. Another brain dead idiot. If he’s so sympathetic, perhaps he should take her and her bastard on.

BULLET. DODGED.

Don’t bet on it – there’s a good chance she will try to reverse monkey branch or hit you with a paternity suit. Keep your guard up.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

TaxGuy wrote:

If there is such a thing as karma, then I should thank her for screwing me out of that 15 grand and turning it into 15 grand a year.

It’s these types of ‘Satisfying” lil events that I hear about, witness and/or experience that make me a believer in “karma”.

TaxGuy wrote:

So she monkey-branched to a guy who looked really good on paper. Turns out he’s not so great and sponges off of her. She then tried to monkey-branch back to me and got rejected.

Karma gets her ass again!

TaxGuy wrote:

She’s now working harder than she ever has because the money is about to run out. And she realizes now that she screwed up. Oh, not about the relationship itself, but the monthly “pension” provided to her by my working my ass off

“And she realizes now that she screwed up.” Oh that Karma thang just keeps smackin her in the ass!!!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22537]

Wally wrote:

Chris, don’t be surprised if she tries to swing back in your direction at some point, it almost always happens.

Funny that shot into my mind too reading about her smv drop to s~~~ status.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22537]

Awakened wrote:

TaxGuy wrote:

If there is such a thing as karma, then I should thank her for screwing me out of that 15 grand and turning it into 15 grand a year.

It’s these types of ‘Satisfying” lil events that I hear about, witness and/or experience that make me a believer in “karma”.

TaxGuy wrote:

So she monkey-branched to a guy who looked really good on paper. Turns out he’s not so great and sponges off of her. She then tried to monkey-branch back to me and got rejected.

Karma gets her ass again!

TaxGuy wrote:

She’s now working harder than she ever has because the money is about to run out. And she realizes now that she screwed up. Oh, not about the relationship itself, but the monthly “pension” provided to her by my working my ass off

“And she realizes now that she screwed up.” Oh that Karma thang just keeps smackin her in the ass!!!!

Karma is really just life forcing peopl to live by their own rules. Or enforcing the golden rule, treat others the way you want to be treated. Okay, you treat people s~~~ty, well you’re ok with life treating you s~~~ty then.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

Wally wrote:

Chris, don’t be surprised if she tries to swing back in your direction at some point, it almost always happens.

Yeah, the guy I was talking to said “you sure you don’t want to take her back? I mean she’s single again and all!” I know he was kidding, but I still told him “nope, I’m good without a kid that isn’t mine to someone that didn’t even really respect me in the first place!”

I figured most of our stories would be similar, but there’s just something so satisfying about knowing that 1) I dodged that bullet and haven’t allowed that to happen again and 2) what happened to her wasn’t any of my doing.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3768]

Governor Megachris% wrote:

Regardless, it’s kept me debt-free and child-free, and I don’t owe anyone anything.

Exactly. That should be on the same list than “Food, Water, Clothing and Lodging.” You know, the basic needs of a man.

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