The aftermath of being arrested on a woman's say so.

[Anonymous 13]

So, what’s it like being arrested for something you haven’t done?

First of all, you don’t see it coming. You really don’t. You have no idea. You’ve done nothing wrong, so being arrested for something you haven’t done doesn’t even enter your mind, right?

It’s just another day in a crap marriage. You get up, grab breakfast, tidy around and see your wife off to work. She’s now not even on the premises. You’re in your house alone. There’s no argument. No fight. She’s AT WORK.

You’re in the garden about to take a break from gardening (you guys say yard work?) when you hear the car roar up, looking down the drive you see three cops approaching you fast.

Immediately you think there’s some problem somewhere and they’ve come to ask for help or if you saw something. Until that is you hear “Are you Mr XXXXX” Um, er, yes why? Then you are read your rights.

Um, I think you have the wrong guy? No we don’t we can discuss this down at the station! I’m desperate for the toilet and say so. They won’t let me. I say again I really, really need to use the toilet I was about to go when you arrived. Then this officer will accompany you. I had to use my own toilet in my own house with an officer standing watching me. Nice huh?

I’m led away, and told to get in the back of the police car. Why do they feel the need to push your head down as you get in? I have been getting in and out of cars by myself for over 40 years?

I’m basically clued in by them that apparently I’m guilty (yes guilty) of some kind of assault on my wife. Wow, that’s news to me?

I start asking questions.

I’m off work today, luckily. I asked if I had been at my place of work today, I work with a lot of people. Would you have come to my work and arrested me off the premises in front of all my colleagues, for something I’m not guilty of? Yes Sir, we would. I said that’s just terrible! Please stop speaking Sir.

So, there we go. I’m now arrested. I’m guilty apparently. And if I’d been in work there would have been a nice little drama as I’m carted off my work premises in front of everyone I’ve known and worked with for years. Nice eh?

We arrive at the station and it’s the long drawn out ordeal of being ‘processed’.

First, my shoes and belt are removed. My pockets are emptied. My wallet is emptied and the contents put in a plastic bag. My phone is taken. I’m then led to a cell. I’m to told to go inside. I do.

BANG. I’m locked up. I’m in a freezing cold small cell. It has a stone bench, no padding, and a stainless steel toilet. The window is high up. It has bars. I sit there, dazed and shocked for what seems an eternity. Probably an hour.

Eventually, the door opens. I’m led out to a processing area. I’m finger printed. Every single finger. Both hands. Even my thumbs are rolled in the ink and pressed onto scanners.

Then I’m photographed, holding a number in front of me. This s~~~ is unbelievable to me. I’ve done nothing wrong but feel like a rapist or something?

Then, I’m told to open my mouth. They take swabs of my saliva from both sides of my mouth. DNA I guess.

After all this, I’m led back to my cell for another freezing cold spell. After an hour, I’m literally shaking. Some shock, some fear and genuinely very cold. It seems surreal, like a bad dream. This red pill was quite shocking to my system. I’ve never done anything wrong in my life. So to find myself in this new reality was just like Neo being woken up in the fluid tank in the Matrix. The shock of it all, coming out of some kind of dream reality into this shocking new, cold and very stark reality.

A couple of hours later, I’m taken away again to an interview room.
I’m basically read the list, yes the LIST of charges against me. From attempted strangulation to punching her in the face. To make her fear for her very life. That I’ve been this way the whole marriage. I’m like, what the f~~~, non of that happened? She can’t have any injuries because it didn’t happen. Your wife says it did happen though Sir. Um, but it didn’t. I haven’t done anything.
Your wife says you’re a danger to her and her daughter. Um, wait a minute, that’s my daughter too. Why is it always THEIR daughter?

Your wife says you had marriage problems Sir, did that make you angry Sir? Is that why you hit her Sir? I keep telling you I never touched her. Interview over. I’m lead back to my cell.

I lie there and literally freeze for the rest of the day while someone, somewhere is deciding my fate that day. I tell you guys, never f~~~ing again! Until you’ve been through this s~~~, you can’t imagine how it makes you feel and the agonisingly slow minutes and hours sitting in a freezing cold cell.

After about another two hours I bang on the door and ask for a blanket. One will be with you shortly Sir. The blanket never arrives. Around 6pm the door opens and some horrible luke warm stodgy ready meal is left for me. I take two bites and nearly vomit.

Eventually, having been allowed ONE phone call to my brother, I’m allowed out the cell and told I’ve been CHARGED with serious assault, seriously? even though one never took place and even though there’s NO EVIDENCE. Yes, Sir, but your wife says you hit her. Good enough for us. And apparently good enough for the justice system that’s about to destroy me.

I’m told at the desk, the full charges. I’m told I’m not allowed back near my house. If I do, I go to prison until the criminal trial six months away. I’m told no communication whatsoever to my wife or daughter by any means or electronic means or by any agent.

But, but, my daughter will be wondering where I am and she already has text me asking if I’m alright. If you answer that Sir I will have to arrest you. What, again?

My brother leads me out into the cool night air. I have the clothes I’m standing up in, my phone and a wallet with £10 in it.

I now have to camp at his place temporarily until I can find somewhere to live. The police would have kept me in prison if he hadn’t offered to put me up.

As I walk trembling towards his car, I have a feeling of foreboding, of terrible gut wrenching pain. My insides are in knots.

I’m now officially homeless, I’ve lost my home of 20 years. The penalty of going to my home I’ve built up and worked on and paid for is JAIL.

This was Day ONE of my upcoming HELL.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

These stories need to be spread far and wide.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 11]

Your story is epic SRR. You are not alone in your tribulation.

[BoarParticipant]

Wow. And whimyn wonder why men want nothing to do with them….

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[xenonParticipant 2007]

I have nothing to add of any merit to a tale so sad except never trust a female. Just don’t. Glad to have you here sir.

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

Then I’m photographed, holding a number in front of me. This s~~~ is unbelievable to me. I’ve done nothing wrong but feel like a rapist or something?

SpiritRR, just keep telling the story, you’re saving men you don’t even know from committing the atrocity of modern marriage!

Your wife deserves to meet a closet psycho and endure a real beating to within inches of her life, I hope she gets what she deserves!

My advise to you is to abandon that unholy trinity of wife child and government, let all three march through the gates of hell together.

Abandon everything and go total ghost on them, let them know their trinity has committed a brutal murder!

Join us whole heartily and write them off forever.

Or pay again and again and again, the daughter is now a tool at her disposal in the ungodly trinity to be used to destroy you.

This society (the system) takes no consideration for the health safety and welfare of men. Your family is just another living sacrifice offered up for destruction by your wonderful wonderful wife of 20 years.

I started my MGTOW journey the same time you became enjoined to a wife.

My life has been blessed beyond belief for standing firmly against modern women and their endless barrage of tyranny!

Want freedom from the Gender War? Follow me and every other MGTOW MONK…

The WAR IS OVER!

But the minefields are still there, just watch where you step!

Congratulations ladies, you’ve destroyed the Western World, time to live in your own rubble!

MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY…

[SlayherParticipant 2074]

Went through the same experience with a girlfriend.

I’m forever grateful for MGTOW.

Stay strong brother and good luck.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Karma is a BITCH, and your sweet lil cupcake shall get her payback someday in someway !!!

Karma is like the WALL, BITCHES can TRY to hide, TRY to get around it, MAYBE even get a reprieve for a few more years, but NONE of them escape it !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 0]

I just don’t know what to say SRR.
Obviously, she had this planned out well in advance and did not even tell your daughter.

[AttonParticipant]

Power is a corrupting influence it is more than clear it corrupted your wife.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Awakened wrote:

Karma is a BITCH, and your sweet lil cupcake shall get her payback someday in someway !!!

Karma is like the WALL, BITCHES can TRY to hide, TRY to get around it, MAYBE even get a reprieve for a few more years, but NONE of them escape it !!

How, where, when?

From my personal experience people who do bad deeds end up fine.

Monk

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Hey brother, that’s just s~~~! My thoughts are with you, you must feel real betrayed by that kind of BS.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[AutoliteParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

First of all, you don’t see it coming. You really don’t. You have no idea. You’ve done nothing wrong, so being arrested for something you haven’t done doesn’t even enter your mind, right?

Just being within the proximity of a woman makes you liable for a criminal charge. Guys really need to just get this through their heads and act accordingly…

[TwistParticipant]

SRR,

Thanks for the wake up. I find I often read through so many of the posts here, identify with many, and just wind up nodding, yep yep yep, MGTOW is my answer, all is going to be fine, etc., And it all sucks, but becomes almost normal to me – its something I’m doing besides watching TV.

And then a post like yours – its like I just get punched flush in the face while doing my stupid nodding.

This is the reality – this is the story that should be read to every man early in his life.

Thank you.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Meister wrote:

How, where, when?

From my personal experience people who do bad deeds end up fine.

Yes I know. But the ‘Karma’ thing is just how some people cope with the unsettling reality that there is very rarely any true justice…

[Anonymous 1]

Another great read and an education for any man looking to get involved with a woman, much less get married.

ta muchly

[TwistParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Another great read and an education for anyone looking to get involved with any woman, much less get married.

Think tongue-kissing a pitbull.

You just might get to keep you tongue.

Might.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Stay strong my brother.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

I’m feeling really bad by reading that, but also I’m glad that I did choose to going monk.

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[joetechParticipant]

Spirit,
Your story brings back a very painful memory of mine when my ex GF and I were on the outs. I’d been staying at hotels because I couldn’t stand living in that house with her and that daughter any longer. So, you were read your rights? Lucky you. I made the mistake of stopping by the house on my way to a hotel a little closer to the house. There I was sitting on the front porch steps when a cop car showed up. The first cop played good cop. When the second car arrived, he was the bad cop. Long story short, I was loaded into an ambulance and sent to a state mental hospital for 6 and a half weeks. I remember one old guy there used to walk up and down the halls muttering, “First you steal my money, now you’re gonna steal my retirement.” My brother drove cross country to go to bat for me. If she’d gotten her way I would have been in that s~~~hole for another 90 days. I put myself through a lot of hell before I realized how pointless it was to try to work things out with her. In my younger days there was all kinds of pressure to be married. I never liked living alone, but looking back on it, I should have never moved in with my last girlfriend. I live with my brother now, and with no nagging, bitching, or TV going 24/7 it’s so much better. I still feel the anger and rage, but life is a battle and we have to pick our fights. At 62 I’m just too old to stay p~~~ed for very long. We have to spread the word to the younger ones so they’ll know the dirty, filthy tricks these bitches pull. They’re not to be trusted and can only hurt others to make themselves feel whole. When they’re old and gray, let them lie in their hospital beds and remember what they’ve done, and then pray that there’s no hell. I know I’ll go to heaven, I’ve done my time in hell, and so have you. Good luck, bro

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

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