I’ve recently joined and have been loving the support on here.

Let me get to the point.

I got asked at work today if I had had any dates recently (A female colleague asked me) I replied no, and that I didn’t intend to.  She pressed and pressed to get me to tell her why, and I told her in the most diplomatic way possible: ‘I’m happier on my own and I am sick and tired of being let down by women and being dumped for the next prospective swinging dick’.  Big mistake.  I got called out as a sexist and was told ‘I didn’t deserve a woman with all that hate inside’.  I told her I don’t hate women, I just would rather do my own thing.  Anyway, it got round the workplace and the sn~~~~~s have started.  I’m keeping my cool, and one male workmate has been excellent and has had my back for me.  I’m not being a pussy, but was wondering if any of you had some tactics for keeping the attention off me.

Thanks in advance!

Think to yourself, they must be REALLY boring if all they have to talk about is you.

Embrace the attention.  Let it empower you 🙂

Also, there are several topics and posts about peoples responses and “reasons” why they go MGTOW.  I can only think of one of my earlier posts as a starting point, so apologies to all the others whos posts I can’t remember!

http://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/my-reasons-for-not-getting-involved-with-women-on-a-long-term-basis/

So smile, go about your work day and relish the fact that you are the current “Gossip of the Day.”

OR – another amazing one liner that I OFTEN USE – and it’s guaranteed laugh from MEN at least –

“Marriage?  No thank you – i’m not ready to be that miserable yet.”

Give it time and one is bound to try and f~~~ you back to the plantation 😊

All that said …… f~~~ um

http://www.mgtow.com/forums/topic/showing-no-emotion-at-work/#post-37969

Enjoy.

RoCrow99 wrote:

I got called out as a sexist and was told ‘I didn’t deserve a woman with all that hate inside’.

Translation: “How dare you deny women your resources!”

See it doesn’t matter what you say or what she said, that’s what it boils down to.  You aren’t giving undeserving women free stuff any more, and women cannot tolerate that.  They certainly don’t want the idea to spread, so you can expect things to get ugly.  And annoying (or interesting if that’s your take on it).  I expect a few of them will try to get you out of the workplace, and a few of them will try getting into your pants.

They fear you. You have neutralised then weapons and they’re not happy.

Agreed.  Correct me if I am wrong guys, but, when arguing (or having a discussion) with a woman, it gets to a point where they no longer return with RATIONAL or LOGICAL answers and they instead use PERSONAL attacks…Or extreme words like “ALWAYS” or “NEVER” are used.  To me, I smile inside because that says to me “I won the argument, now you have to resort to personal attacks to try and win.”

That, my friend, is when you can engage SMUG MODE – this also helps you keep your “cool” and your “frame.”

The best way to be invisible at work is avoiding this kind of s~~~ from start. Avoid talking about your personal life at all.

But those are already waters under the bridge for you. Keep it cool, and keep it low. It’s not about being a pussy, it is about being objective. Focus on your work, speak only about your work (specially to women) and move on. Just in case, start looking for plan B (another place to work), but hopefully this will go away if you keep silent and mind your own business.

I understand how women can be intrusive, but you should be more careful with your words, at work at least.

What was that phrase Keymaster always says?

 “I don’t speak to women at work about anything other than work”.
-Keymaster