That was Then….Maybe…… But, This is NOW….. Unfortunately

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

I was driving through an old very well kept middle class suburbia town USA the other day, and the thought crossed my mind of what it must have been like to drive down these same roads and live in these very houses when the average Man could actually achieve the “American Dream”.

A time when socialism was a dirty word, and not a god damn influential part of the democratic party.

A time when illegal aliens were treated like the criminals that they are, and not protected in “sanctuary Cities”.

A time when an American wouldn’t think of burning the American flag.

I was thinking of a time, maybe it was the early 50’s and possibly even a time period prior to that when a Man could get married to a Woman that WANTED to be a real wife and mother.

A time long before Society turned on Men.

A time when Woman were proud to be married and proud to be a mother because they KNEW how important their role was in making a family.

A time when a Man’s income could actually support a family comfortably.

A time when a man was still the proverbial provider, but at least he had a trustworthy woman in the home that actually knew how to cook, clean, sew, etc. etc. and actually took care of THEIR kids as well as SUPPORTED her husband and did what he said because she respected him.

Imagine a time period when a man was actually the King of his castle??

That’s not much to ask after a Man gives up his Freedom, Cash, Time, Energy, Effort, and his entire LIFE to be a husband and father….Is it really asking too much???

I really wonder if there ever was a time even remotely like this as it seems like such a distant unreal fairy tail.

I have heard that it used to be quite obtainable, but it just seems so unrealistic…..Of course, I’m heavily tarnished by my own experiences which pale in comparison to say the least….

Maybe, it never was this way, but it sure as hell isn’t this way NOW and never will be…..what a sick fu(kin Matrix we all exist in….

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

Awakened wrote:

I was driving through an old very well kept middle class suburbia town USA the other day, and the thought crossed my mind of what it must have been like to drive down these same roads and live in these very houses when the average Man could actually achieve the “American Dream”.
A time when socialism was a dirty word, and not a god damn influential part of the democratic party.
A time when illegal aliens were treated like the criminals that they are, and not protected in “sanctuary Cities”.
A time when an American wouldn’t think of burning the American flag.
I was thinking of a time, maybe it was the early 50’s and possibly even a time period prior to that when a Man could get married to a Woman that WANTED to be a real wife and mother.
A time long before Society turned on Men.
A time when Woman were proud to be married and proud to be a mother because they KNEW how important their role was in making a family.
A time when a Man’s income could actually support a family comfortably.
A time when a man was still the proverbial provider, but at least he had a trustworthy woman in the home that actually knew how to cook, clean, sew, etc. etc. and actually took care of THEIR kids as well as SUPPORTED her husband and did what he said because she respected him.
Imagine a time period when a man was actually the King of his castle??
That’s not much to ask after a Man gives up his Freedom, Cash, Time, Energy, Effort, and his entire LIFE to be a husband and father….Is it really asking too much???
I really wonder if there ever was a time even remotely like this as it seems like such a distant unreal fairy tail.
I have heard that it used to be quite obtainable, but it just seems so unrealistic…..Of course, I’m heavily tarnished by my own experiences which pale in comparison to say the least….
Maybe, it never was this way, but it sure as hell isn’t this way NOW and never will be…..what a sick fu(kin Matrix we all exist in….

“King of the castle” ended in the 1850s. When scotus destroyed the marriage contract for men.

Subsequent further attacks on the former king included ending fault divorce, no longer recognizing prenups, the hugely biased dv laws, the creation of unconstitutional ‘family’ courts, and the creation of alimony and division of assets and alimony 2/3/4 ie child support, the holding of only the man to the marriage contract and kids, etc, indentured servitude to an ex-wife.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Dang Awakened, that was a Mic Dropper. VERY WELL SAID.
I long for it to be real, if it ever was, just like you said.

https://www.wealthysinglemommy.com/wives-stay-thin-husbands-2/

Some people are trapped in that sh!t. They chased her early. She was great. THings were wonderful. And slowly it all went to hell. And now, its not funny anymore. Very sad. Just look at this dudes comment from that article.

Bill on October 21, 2019 at 9:55 am
I have been married to my wife for over 30 years. We have three terrific children. My wife is a good person, her friends love her. She is outgoing and very kind. She is also quit obese, probably 100 lbs overweight. I have done my best to not say anything hurtful over the years. I have to say I roll my eyes a little at people worried about 20 or 30 lbs. For me the problem is not just the weight, it is everything that goes along with it. The lack of energy, being sedentary, snoring, eating junk food, not cooking healthy meals, ect. I sleep in a different bedroom now, we have no sex life, I cook many of our meals, I clean, do laundry, all the yard word. I also work more and I get frustrated when I get home and even though my wife returned home earlier or had the day off there is no dinner even started or the kitchen is a mess. I am in good shape, very active and I still play sports. I know I am fortunate in that way but I also watch what I eat and exercise several days a week. I am unhappy in my marriage and I am thinking about leaving. I have never and would never have an extramarital affair. My children mean everything to me and it would hurt them if I left so I do not know what to do.

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

I feel ya Bro,….

it’s one of my favorites!

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

I know there are a few others here that are in their 50’s in age.
Guys, that all ended officially in 1992 with Pres. Bill Clinton signing the NAFTA agreement.
Actually it began much earlier, it just happened so slowly that it had gone un-noticed by the majority of the American population. Remember the airlines strikes, and the steel mills closing??

I grew up in a small suburban town that had no less than 6 steel mills in my town,or the one adjacent to mine.
Today, there is a scrap recycling plant and a rolling mill that is used for “storage”
So,… blame the slowww devaluation of the American dollar due to our debt load and the Globalisation of trade.
Your “Hometown” is now in China,India,or Indonesia.

Sad,…. because all us 50’s guys SEEN THe “AMERICAN DREAM” but were denied it due to economics.

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Daryll55 wrote:

I grew up in a small suburban town that had no less than 6 steel mills in my town,or the one adjacent to mine.

Mine had 5 lumber mills. Today it has zero. A small town can’t survive without an export product out of the town. Even if it’s only exported to the next big city. And NAFTA killed my hometown as well.

Order the good wine

[SpleeferParticipant 958]

Men didn’t live long enough for their women to leave. It’s just your turn. AWALT!

Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.

[Branched offParticipant 10928]

The marriage contract has been broken -by the state. Women are not worth it anymore.

Really the state should never have interfered in a personal matter to start. Somehow people started letting Jaweh’s priests interfere in marriage by validating it. Then the priests got such a hold that marriage and children were not legitimate without their interference. Then the state took on that role because people seemed to think some validation from a greater authority was necessary. Therein lies the problem. People need to take up their own sovereignty. You do not need regulating in personal matters.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

Gravel Pit wrote:

Dang Awakened, that was a Mic Dropper. VERY WELL SAID.
I long for it to be real, if it ever was, just like you said.

https://www.wealthysinglemommy.com/wives-stay-thin-husbands-2/

Some people are trapped in that sh!t. They chased her early. She was great. THings were wonderful. And slowly it all went to hell. And now, its not funny anymore. Very sad. Just look at this dudes comment from that article.

Bill on October 21, 2019 at 9:55 am
I have been married to my wife for over 30 years. We have three terrific children. My wife is a good person, her friends love her. She is outgoing and very kind. She is also quit obese, probably 100 lbs overweight. I have done my best to not say anything hurtful over the years. I have to say I roll my eyes a little at people worried about 20 or 30 lbs. For me the problem is not just the weight, it is everything that goes along with it. The lack of energy, being sedentary, snoring, eating junk food, not cooking healthy meals, ect. I sleep in a different bedroom now, we have no sex life, I cook many of our meals, I clean, do laundry, all the yard word. I also work more and I get frustrated when I get home and even though my wife returned home earlier or had the day off there is no dinner even started or the kitchen is a mess. I am in good shape, very active and I still play sports. I know I am fortunate in that way but I also watch what I eat and exercise several days a week. I am unhappy in my marriage and I am thinking about leaving. I have never and would never have an extramarital affair. My children mean everything to me and it would hurt them if I left so I do not know what to do.

That poor guy commenting about how he is considering leaving his fat wife is no doubt, catching hell from everyone for even thinking about abandoning his lovely bride, simply because she is “a little overweight”. Fat-shaming, of a woman, is going to be a capital crime.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Man, I’m 40. And I was from a small town. And to think that everything I was ever told about how it was going to be like was nothing but a BIG FAT LIE!

My dad use to work at Warehouser. They closed the plant. Not the the Area is just a Casino. It sucks, but the 80’s was a Hell hole time. The 90’s just saw more and more crap unload.

At least now we are moving towards a better outlook, but its no where near the way it use to be. When the jobs all got shipped overseas? Man, that really made some people rich, at the expense of everyone else. And this was the time that people were starting to hit that MASSIVE divorce train that went FULL STEAM AHEAD in the 60-70’s.

Its hard to believe that the amount of damage was ALL due to feminism. And ask those women now how happy they are? They sure as hell don’t seem to darn happy.

They REALLY f~~~ed the pooch. And NOW? With men all over getting wind of what its all about all over the world? Its not looking good for women for the long term. Hell, even my son is like “I’m NEVER getting married!” The sentiment is WELL out there to the Younger generation.

Do I want things to go back someday? Hell no! They will just do the same s~~~ they are doing today. The Artificial womb is going to be the way of the future. And when that does happen? I see men having a MUCH better time in life. Women will be used for just what they are good for. Earning their keep by taking care of your kids. Nothing more if they want to be around.

As long as the STATE stays out of your life, it will be okay. I’m not going to pretened women are going to change. So why should we expect the same of society?

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[AutoliteParticipant]

Phuck the ‘American Dream’! I’d be happy if they just brought back the Pinto…

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Gradually, they just got bigger and bigger….

Im a young guy, but I feel like cars used to be more narrow. Now they are bubbled and hollow.

Not everything needs to be as small as the old CRX

but this is not even close to being a reasonable size sedan…

the old version? are they really comparable? something got missed…

THE OLD TACOMA from the 90s…

New Tacoma 2020 …

I like the Tacma either way so bad example… just saying, they keep making Crossovers bigger and bigger. They can hardly fit them in the parking spots anymore.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

We have been evolving for divirudging from women for 500,000 years. All of that time, women have always been at war with men. It’s just that now we call it “feminism”. Used to have other names. Women have ruled nations for millenia. Apex fallacy.

I predict that the “50’s” was a fantasy and there was never a time when men and women got along. Parasite and host. Not friends but symbiotic.

Ever notice that women never really get p~~~ed unless they don’t get paid.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Ronin11Participant 208]

[Quote] Maybe, it never was this way [/quote]
It was never that way. Grey divorce is your proof.

There are no good women only degrees of bad.

[TwistParticipant]

Autolite wrote:

Phuck the ‘American Dream’! I’d be happy if they just brought back the Pinto…

I always wanted to stuff a big block in a Chevette.

[HermitParticipant]

iMickey503 wrote:

Its hard to believe that the amount of damage was ALL due to feminism. And ask those women now how happy they are? They sure as hell don’t seem to darn happy.
They REALLY f~~~ed the pooch. And NOW? With men all over getting wind of what its all about all over the world? Its not looking good for women for the long term. Hell, even my son is like “I’m NEVER getting married!” The sentiment is WELL out there to the Younger generation.

I almost feel sorry for my x. She had 4 chances to make a marriage work………or rather to not destroy a marriage with her selfishness, childishness and self entitlement. Now, she’s only getting older and living alone and still having to work to pay the bills and she’ll probably always be alone.

Now for me, in my situation, that’s great news. I love living alone. Her however, she’s never been alone in her life and she’s always having to depend on someone for help. She doesn’t seem to happy to me, but it is her own fault. She screwed up her life and the lives of all the men she was married to.

So no, I guess I don’t feel sorry for her. She’s not happy, but it’s her own fault. Life is what we make it. I’ve been making mine pretty good lately.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

Twist wrote:

Autolite wrote:

Phuck the ‘American Dream’! I’d be happy if they just brought back the Pinto…

I always wanted to stuff a big block in a Chevette.

I wanna do something like that with this engine.

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

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