That moment

[ReclusParticipant 96]

I have been thinking about past relationships and realised that in each and every one of them, there was a moment when I realised I was having control techniques tried out on me for the first time.

A classic one was being told disapprovingly that I “bite my fork” when I eat. I told the woman concerned that whether or not I bite my fork is my business and if she had a problem with it she would just have to live with it. I added I was not into being micro-managed and if she continued, I would end the relationship.

Unfortunately she did not take that warning, and it did end.

In retrospect, I think moments like that have been key in my realisation that I have yet to have a relationship where the woman will actually let me be myself, hence my preference for being single.

I am interested to hear about others’ experiences with this sort of thing….

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Once you’re on red pills for good you realise that weeminz s~~~-test all the time. When I was blue-pill I could barely notice anything, I was a total goof bowing to the holier-than-thou attitude that feminism has told weeminz they should have constantly with men; saw nothing, was blinded. Now that my eyes are open I can see it’s s~~~-test after s~~~-test from dawn ’til dusk, and even from weeminz that have no real relationship with you! Once you see that they are incessantly prodding you, you become repulsed by them naturally. Weeminz are simply repulsive with that s~~~ of s~~~-testing. It’s pervasive! From the ex to the grocery store clerk girl to the sassy co-worker, feminism has told them to go and s~~~-test us men constantly. Cut that crap, tune them weeminz out, find peace away from their inane questions and comments.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[ReclusParticipant 96]

Yes, Point Of No Return, you are right about the constant s~~~-test thing, and women who don’t even have a relationship with you pulling it. I get it all the time in bars, and have even left clubs and associations because women pull that stuff. In my younger days, I used to unwillingly accept it as “the price you have to pay” to interact with women, but with the passing of the years, my threshold of tolerance for that stuff has fallen to zero and I find peace mainly in solitude.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Reclus wrote:

Yes, Point Of No Return, you are right about the constant s~~~-test thing, and women who don’t even have a relationship with you pulling it. I get it all the time in bars, and have even left clubs and associations because women pull that stuff. In my younger days, I used to unwillingly accept it as “the price you have to pay” to interact with women, but with the passing of the years, my threshold of tolerance for that stuff has fallen to zero and I find peace mainly in solitude.

Precisely Reclus.
My realisation came to me when I understood that ‘the moment’ actually is not a moment at all. It’s simply the time we allow ourselves as men to be plugged into their control system.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

And on that thought you brought up about clubs and associations, it never goes long until some feminist shows up in a group and ruins it.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[ReclusParticipant 96]

“‘the moment’ actually is not a moment at all. It’s simply the time we allow ourselves as men to be plugged into their control system.”

That is a profound way of looking at it; it could extend to anyone we allow to do the same thing: parents, employers etc.

On the topic of the feminist showing up in a group; that was a factor in a particular case I am thinking of, on top of the fact she was on medication and had definite mental health issues.

[BubParticipant 1403]

Point Of No Return wrote:

And on that thought you brought up about clubs and associations, it never goes long until some feminist shows up in a group and ruins it.

Precisely.

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[AllenParticipant 146]

I remember the moment I came to the realization that all relationships are a non-stop s~~~ test. I was trying to fill out a profile on a dating site and was devising a list of the things that would disqualify a woman from my consideration as a potential partner. When the list got longer than about 10 items, I realized it just wasn’t possible. It’s literally about s~~~-testing from the first contact through the end. Never again.

Woman - I picture a man, then take away reason and accountability. - Melvin Udall

[ReclusParticipant 96]

Allen, I know what you mean. I found out that dating sites are the ultimate s~~~-test set by women: for a start off there a way more men than women on those sites, so women set the agenda when making contact. Those sites provide the opportunity for women to make you jump through all sorts of hurdles, all the time testing so see if you are THE guy. As you said: Never again.

[Toxic BirdParticipant 23]

Hi,

one of many experiences, but this just happened 2 days ago. I am currently sometimes seeing a woman for some action but nothing serious of course. When I went to her place 2 days ago I was about to leave again for home (no way I will spend my night there). She moved in only couple of months ago and still has not set up all the lights in her flat. She is, even with heels, about a head shorter than me and was “joking” that next time I am there I can set up the lights for her. Excuse me? Just because you are short does not mean I have to do stuff like that for you. When I gave her an awkward look and smile as a repsonse she said she was joking. Well, we know it was no joke but a s~~~ test, disguised as a joke. I suggested to move the table underneath the light and step on it so she can reach it…

It has not been so long ago that I swallowed the red pill, but in retrospect I can also see how many times I have already been s~~~ tested (and still am) but it is so weird to look back at old times in such a different light. But I am so glad I can see more clearly now.

Cheers.

[ReclusParticipant 96]

Hi Toxic Bird. Yes, that is definitely a s~~~ test. It reminds me of a woman I used to visit for weekends (she was in another town). She decided to move and wanted me to shift her wardrobe. I said “There’s no way I could even lift that – forget it.” She threw a major scene but later admitted when she finally realised she was not going to get it done for free that she had to pay TWO movers to lift the thing.

Being expected to provide free manual labour is a major red light for me, particularly from a woman who purported to be a feminist and was always on about “sisters doing it for themselves”.

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