Thanks MGTOW!

[StrenghtOfWill32Participant 32]

Greetings to all of you.

First, i like to thank all of you for making this community. I really appreciate that there is a place and a movement of MGTOW to support a fellow brother!

So who am i?

I’m a 25 year old guy from Europe. You can call me Chris.

Currently i’m working in the IT branch, to be more specific (for our geeks 🙂 ) i’m a network engineer/Network security Engineer. Got too many hobbies and to many goals in my life, but i’m trying to attend and accomplish them all. So what brings me to MGTOW, what brings me to introduce myself? Well, i think my story can be useful for other guys and perhaps even inspiring. My drive to give my to cents and my own wisdom to others comes out of my personality, i like to help other people! My story or introduction is long, but i am confident that it will find some interesting things to read or take some knowledge of it.

My story

I am an 3/4 out of 10 guy, not very attractive. Both mental as physically, however i can’t really judge for myself which numbers come on if it comes on attraction. Some call it lack of confidence, but i rather believe in facts, reality and results in that matter. In my life, i have teached myself not to depend on anyone but yourself if you want to reach your true inner self. I see this as a pilgrimage in your mind and spirit, to explore the deepest cores of your personality and thoughts. It all began almost 25 years ago, i should’t even be born. My mother had two miscarriage before me, i had the burden or luck to be in this world. Giving my mother great pain as she lost a lot of blood, and took a few years for her to recover.

As i embarked on life, i was a asthmatic, slow learning, shy, none attractive kid. At the elementary school my focus wasn’t to have fun, or to explore how girls where or what they did. The only thing i did was watch behind my shoulder, because everyday most of the school would try to bully me, verbal abuse me and making my life miserable. I did try my best to keep on with the teaching, but i could’t read before turning around 10 years old. I worked hard and was a honest student, but the teachers always said that i wasn’t going far.
To escape all this, i often stayed home going to toy and play with electronically things, see how they worked. Lucky for me i had also Nintendo!
Because of my low results at school, i was send to a crappy high school. Full with kids who had tons of problems, the perfect place to be with a clouded mind! My high school years learned me more how to rely on myself, to be more street wise and to stand up for myself, not taking s~~~ or playing games for nobody.

Eventually i got dropped out of high school because of misbehavior. And was sent to some adult school, which was actually to just form people to do simple work.

The girls

I never stood a chance. My social awkwardness (for lack in social skills), attraction level 3/10, no status or popularity and not really a taste for good clothing. Every girl i founded attractive in my childhood/teenage years walked away from me. I later did grow further in developing my social skills, which resulted giving my some interaction with girls. And yes, i know what you’re thinking…I fell into every friendzone type you can imagine. In the end it was i that was inferior to the ‘Alpha male’. As such that they claimed what they wanted. Just picture the girl you like, which you want to have walking with another guy. It feels like defeat, making you feel weak and miserable.

This pattern of living went on for much of my youth, living in deception, believing in lies and dreams to find a girl that find that ‘happiness’. Call it the Walt Disney happy ending pursuit syndrome.

The Turning point

A fist reached my face, dropping my glasses on the ground leaving a stinging feeling on my eye socket. As soon as i felt that, looking in the eyes of my best friend. I retaliated with my own fist back, not able to connect the punches to a striking blow. ‘What am i doing? This isn’t right!?’ I said to myself, feeling betrayed and feeling guilty at the same time.

The next day i went of to work, my eye socket turned a bit blue. During the bus ride to work, i stared towards the ground. It din’t matter anymore. I knew that i was a changed person. Everything i believed in, that i trusted in, how i lived, changed that day. The lesson i learned is that i lost a friend over a girl, a girl that friendzoned me. For her own emotional support, her own personal nagging/fustration aiming point. Her typical cry on the shoulder guy. They both walked away from my life, taking both something of me deep inside of me. I could’t judge if i was wrong, was i truly the one that caused all of this?

No matter, from that point i wanted to pursue my own goals. My true ambition was born, i wanted to be free of the system. The system that caused me to think as a slave, to behave like a animal and to serve a women. My ambition was to become financial free, and have my revenge by making a success out of my life! As soon as i walked out that bus, my hearth felt like a circus of emotion. Inspired, broken and yet so strong.

My head and shoulder firmly up, if the world wanted to destroy my further, then it would have to kill my dreams and ambition.
That single day, which it suppose to be a normal working day. Turned into into one of my best preforming days in my career, even though the job wasn’t much. It felt like a new form, a new beginning, feeling almost reborn.

The Red Pill

I had a small taste of the Red Pill, but the Red Pill’s ingredients wasn’t following into my blood yet. I worked my butt off, i studied to learn more. In the begin of my IT career i was threated like a dog. Lots of guys where low educated like me, it was horable to see people working so hard and being so unappreciated (including myself). It was sad to see that so many people stranded her to just survive for another month, just for a paycheck!
Because of fulltime working at a young age, i worked with older people then myself. Seeing men turned into slave puppets, it made me sad for they gave up on many of there dreams. They could’t live there lives bases on there ambitions, goals or dreams. But by control of a women.

The social pressure got me, my family, my friends then and the rest of my social surroundings always asked me: “Hey, do you have a girlfriend?” “Don’t you want to have one?”. I never could have a beer without having to be dragged into a part time pick-up artist trying to fix a one night stand to boost him with further narcissism. Focusing on my own dream and ambition without having the interference of a dream sucking women was hard, to be honest it did push me often of track. For i’m just a man, which (you guess) often landed back into the friendzone. Because of my failure to gain this price, i was pictured as a loser, as a inferior being, the thoughts make me sometimes even today miserable.

Progression

The philosophy of the IT is always to learn, for everyday new technologies will be developed. To master the arts, you will have to keep frosty. Learning every day and every year. The Philosophy of the unlimited progression, there are no boundaries in receiving new knowledge.

I often find myself studying, working, learning and improving myself from the early morning to the late nights. For there is always time to invest in yourself. No matter how far your goals are, no matter alone you are. You’re search for the ultimated satisfaction is worth the cause and pain. It is important to invest in yourself, to believe in yourself, to believe your living for your own purposes and that you will reach your dreams and goals one day. I believe that there is in everyone a secret treasure, that will reveal a special talent that you only have. This world locks up thoese treasure up tight, and seal them away.

Last week i found some youtube channels and video’s of MGTOW. And then the final piece of the Red Pill finaly entered my bloodstream. Agreeing on the MGTOW terms, and my own.

I’m glad to be aboard!

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Welcome Chris. Your story is poignant and moving, and, unfortunately, all too common. You are now among friends and brothers, who will support, enlighten, &, elevate you. We will make you laugh, and swear, we may make you angry, relieved, and may bring a tear to your eyes. We will bust your b~~~~, and make them feel huge all in the same thread.
It’s a pleasure to meet you.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10909]

Welcome sir. A hell of an introduction.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Anonymous 42]

A survivor! Welcome aboard Chris! You’re not alone! We’re all survivors!

[TuneoutParticipant]

Welcome brother and anyone that knows about net work

engineering and security isn’t mentally inferior in

my book,keep learning,thats the key and remember

opinions are like assholes;everybody’s got one!

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

In life, it isn’t where you start out that matters, it’s where you end up.

Welcome brother

Peace brothers

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Welcome
There is lots to learn and teach here.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[AragornParticipant 277]

Welcome Chris. You are not alone.
Pain and suffering are always inevitable for a large intelligence and a deep heart. The really great men must, I think, have great sadness on earth.

If you change the rules on what controls you, you will change the rules on what you can control

[StrenghtOfWill32Participant 32]

Thank you all!

[VarunParticipant 2981]

I can relate to you in terms of being ‘ignored’ and shamed by elementary teachers.

Those people who thought I could never amount to anything.

Guesa what? I just passed a very hard medical entrance exam…and even though I didn’t secure a seat, I f~~~ing passed it.

81% …. That’s like scoring 100s in the toughest programs in Yale. My teachers thought I was impudent… but I proved myself… not to them..but to myself. I’m not a failure.

Don’t be saddened by the fact that you’re not alpha or that you always get friendzoned.

It never ends well for the people on the other side. Like myself, you should consider yourself lucky no woman chose to f~~~ you over.

Yes, invest in yourself. Try to be the best in whatever you do. Success will follow you.

Women will follow you once you’re well-off and their gold-digging senses are alerted.

Welcome to mgtow.com, brother. I call it home.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Varun wrote:

I can relate to you in terms of being ‘ignored’ and shamed by elementary teachers.

Those people who thought I could never amount to anything.

They didn’t amount to anything either. I make 4x what they make doing corporate adult learning. They knew education was a dead end, no pay job when they signed up.. Now they take out their mistake on guys like you. Keep doing what your doing.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Mr. CrowleyParticipant 384]

Welcome aboard!!

That whole PUA garbage is for the CHADs and the blue pillers.

You have actual work to do, sir.

As you read tales from the battlefield, it will only reinforce on what brought you here in the first place.

Punks- Not Feeling Lucky Since 1971

[The SavedParticipant 101]

From reading your thorough introduction, I believe that you have come a tremendous way forward – and you are only 25 years old! A huge achievement.

You have youth on your side and everything going for you.

Welcome.

"A man's feelings are inconvenient to a woman's needs".

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