TFL is not MGTOW

[Sigma LondonParticipant 37]

There are a few TFL (true forced loneliness) guys here. The TFL guys probably don’t identify with the TFL label. I’m not going to point my finger and shame you for existing, you guys are still our brothers. Being denied love and finding MGTOW is not taking the red pill. It is being pushed off a boat into a sea of red pills where you are left to drown. We are here to lend a hand though.

TFL guys still have a “women shaped hole in their hearts”. I suspect most MGTOW have suffered some injustice in their lives so the philosophy is more than intellectual abstraction. MGTOW is part of my identity now and I chose it willingly. Being upset at women for not wanting you is dangerous. That will destroy you and twist your mind.

MGTOW is a process of becoming a complete person, without the desire for the “mother goddess who is going to take away your pain” and an acceptance that your life has value. I don’t think women will ever understand this aspect of the male experience. The male gender role is dead. We do as we please (within reason) and go our own way. The guys that are “one blow job away” from the blue pill really need to realise what a dangerous situation they are in.

I really wish I could systematise the process I went through to fill that women shaped hole. All I can say to you guys is that you need to learn to see yourself as complete as well as build your mind and your body. You are not half of a whole unit. You are a complete person with bad ideas that need to be purged. You have been kicked out of the matrix and you should be wary of being tricked back into line by a word or act of apparent kindness that will destroy your life completely and make you a slave.

 

 

[AlexIsAfraidSpectator 113]

They have a women shaped hole because they can’t let go, once they let go then they can finally be a MGTOW because that is what MGTOW is going your own way, and with a hole like that shaped in your heart… you will never be free.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Sigma London, I think you’re only half right. First of all a guy can be going his own way while still not able to get into a relationship with a woman. He still can be used as a utility. Sure he might even be friend zoned. Later in life if he makes more money the very same women that rejected when he was younger will want to date him when she’s older. This is usually when she hits her 40’s or 50’s. So in a sense men can reject women before the woman will any interest in him later on.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[DukeParticipant 6]

I think most guys are born loving themselves…and than ( at least for me) , when i was a young lad, 11 years old, i saw that the bad boys were getting laid by the older girls, so i started down that road…. but never felt comfortable there either.

[RayBandakuParticipant 889]

Man are conditioned to feel like they need a woman to complete them.  I blame Walt Disney movies for brain washing young boys to thing that they show of like a prince and save the pretty poor girl and treat her like a princess.  We are conditioned to feel empty unless we have a beautiful princess bride next us.  We have to unlearn what we have be brainwashed with.  Truth will set you free but it will take great courage to seek the truth.  Just remember this “You are already born complete, whole and perfect, nothing needs to be added or removed from your life.  You don’t need any woman to make you complete”  We are all here to help each other seek the truth and live a happy, free life forever as single happy men.  Great post, keep them coming.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Alexander nailed it.  Letting go (and its partner forgiveness) is the key to solving most of life’s little problems.

Hmm… the big problems might require less psychological approaches, like filling pot holes, or defeating foreign invaders.

 

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 14]

Okay, so I once fell in love with a ghost. I call her a ghost because she was an imaginary version of a girl I met a long time back. She was my very first friend in kindergarten. She physically fit into my idea of “the perfect girl” for me. But she turned out to be a colossal bitch. Well rather she was indoctrinated into this vile system of misandrist feminism by the female teachers and nuns of my former elementary school. She was pretty mean to me at times. Once in 2nd grade she, on the feminist c~~~ classteacher’s order tore up a Lothar Matthaus (1990 FIFA World Cup Winning German soccer player) collectors card and threw it in the trash can with me on my knees in front of the whole class begging them not to do it and then bursting into tears after. I hated her after that and avoided most girls like plague. Then after changing to my high school I was totally into sports(soccer) so I didn’t have time for any serious relationship with girls much. Then after quitting high school, I started feeling lonely, as if I had spend most of my teenage without knowing “love” and started looking for that girl. Until the day I actually found her I was almost in love with the idea of her being the perfect girl, kind, polite and understanding. Then the day I found her on Facebook , she in reality turned out to be quite different. Looking exactly the opposite of what I hoped she’d look like, she was obese, wore too much makeup and top it off, was a feminazi. Well it was difficult but I said adieu to the thought of her.

Now she obviously wasn’t my idea of the “perfect girl” for me mostly because what kind of person she turned out to be and not how she looked. But if I ever in my life I happen to find that perfect person, doesn’t have to be a perfect match physically but more mentally and spiritually. And if she is the one to hit me with the proposition(thats very important), I might just say yes. I do feel that I am a complete person and neither am I counting the days to such a future but if it ever presents itself, I might be inclined to give it some serious considerations.

So if I say this, am I a TFL? Am I liable to face the brotherhood’s firing squad anytime soon? (kidding)
I just don’t think all women are evil. There has to be some good women out there. Aren’t there?

[Eric LauderParticipant 84]

I’m glad to read phrases like: “I don’t think women will ever understand this aspect of the male experience.”

In fact, I consider myself a little beyond that consideration, since my motto is:

“Ask a female to be concerned about the problems of MEN is like to ask a bear to use the toilet”

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